Is it weird for a 19 year old..

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Cancerleo32 on Monday, February 7, 2011 and has 5 replies.

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@Cancerleo32
16 Years

This isn't really a libra question.. but since I have been posting mostly in here, but just in general as a person.. Is it weird that I am so focused on my future at 19?
I seem to have trouble just living my life.. like I am always planning for the future and what steps I need to take to follow my dreams of traveling and following God and learning languages. Like i am always focusing on that.. so I don't get how people play video games all the time, or sleep in.. I can't do those things without feeling like lazy. I mean I can go out every so often, and I can play video games for a little while.. but I always go back to what I need to do. And since I am not there yet, I stress alot.

Has anyone else been like me? Or am I just an oddball.. Should I just chill out and live?

I am asking because I've heard it so many times before.. and It just was something I wanted to ask for advice.

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

You sound like me. You're doomed!

I think if you strive for a healthy balance in all areas of life then that is all you can do.

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@CookiePusher
18 Years

I was like that at 19, but right now I'm embracing my inner sloth and it's workin out ok. I still go to school, work and socialize on weekends, but if I'm not doin any of those, I'm lounging. I migth be goin through a phase, but it's alright so far.

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@CookiePusher
18 Years

I was like that at 19, but right now I'm embracing my inner sloth and it's workin out ok. I still go to school, work and socialize on weekends, but if I'm not doin any of those, I'm lounging. I migth be goin through a phase, but it's alright so far.

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@LindaD5
15 YearsCapricorn

If it helps, you're not alone. I'm 19 too and just like you, I tend to over think about planning my future.
I have Capricorn Sun so I guess that explains a lot...

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@AybLynk
17 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

im 19 too but im turning 20. And im always thinking of the future but im optimistic about it so you shouldn't worry at all...Everyone has their time to shine