LIBRA do you have trouble communicating with LEO?

I'm Aries with Libra Rising and Leo Moon...
As they say, Aries is having more air traits than fire LOL (should be an air sign) and my Libra is also air..I tend to have more air traits..anyways I have a Leo Moon also..so I am trying to understand the Leo females + myself as well.

Here are some Leo females I encounter in my daily life (work,friends)..and they are sure CATTY..

Case 1
One of my best friend (let's call her A) is a Leo, she is catty and very proud. She is a good person and will do anything to help when you are in trouble, but sometimes can also be tough on you. I remember when I was dealing with PTSD she came bringing me self healing, motivational, beating depression podcasts to play in my car when we are going out, and when I got my first job after a long time not working due to depression, she came to my job and cheered me up supporting me, basically she makes sure things are doing well in my life.
I admire her for her strong will though she can be catty and a loner sometimes. She recently went through a bitter divorce and I remember even during marriage, she seldom talk with her husband, she was very independent.

Case 2
An admin lady in my office is a Leo. Let's call her B. She's the one who always buzz our phones every morning with office news, and she always arranges and manages office social gatherings.She's very friendly, and nice..but also very emotional and quick tempered.
One afternoon, a person was asking her questions about contribution for office potluck dinner. Apparently, the person asking has never been to a potluck before and is confused about giving money contribution since she can't bring food, and the Leo lady went catty on her. OMG. But the matter got settled up quick and they apologized but the temper was quick.

Yesterday, I had some trouble with our office website and I asked Leo lady for suggestions and she was helpful 2-3 times, after I asked again (because I was really confused) she went catty on me! She said "Up to you Kristal, decide for yourself, I am doing my job here!"

I also have Leo Moon, and I wonder if I am catty as well (unconsciously LOL) I am emotional for sure..but yeah...luckily I still have my Libra rising to prevent me from being an explosive time bomb.I admit I did explode once with my Cancer ex, but NEVER on work/social settings.

Last week the admin lady (miss B) buzzed me on my phone explaining about a new software program in our office. I was asking for some instructions over the phone and after 1-2 times she guided me..and when I was still confused she texted "WHATEVER UP TO YOU KRISTAL U'RE ON UR OWN NOW..XCUSE ME I HAVE WORK TO DO" I mean, that's just rude..WTH? I admit I asked many questions because I was still learning, I'm still a new employee there, but no need to be that rude to me??!!! I hold a grudge..until now. I am still upset whenever I think about the software thing.

And that same woman..that same admin lady..had the NERVE to borrow money from me!!!!!!! -_- I just can't believe it! Where is her shame?!
She was rude to me on phone message..and then when our office announced our monthly bonus and I was the one getting it, she quickly messaged me on my phone and told me that she has dire needs and she wants to borrow from me, and she will ask the Finance guy to cut her salary monthly and add it to me (paying in installments). I was a bit startled. THE NERVE she had.

Since I am new employee, I have to be nice and not cause a scene. I told her I can only help her with HALF of the amount she needs, and she can pay it in installments. We both already talk to the finance guy and sign some forms for this.
Then she messaged me "It's a DEAL". WTF no manners?!

I truly dislike her and dislike her more.The Aries in me just want to put her in her place and cause a scene, as well as my Leo moon.
But my Libra Rising prefer to keep it calm balanced and use my charms to be polite with her,even inside..I really don't want to know her. I surely only will keep things on a surface level with this woman.

LEO MAN

I remember last year I was dating a Leo man. He was sweet & caring, also love to show off about his accomplishments (car, trips, things etc)
Things didn't work out because I wasn't really into him, but he is civilized, polite and not hot headed.

In spite of the relationship not working, I still think I did get along fine with him..a Leo man.
I can't say the same about the women though 😢

It's actually the Aries in you that dislikes Leo women. The aries I know always put down the Leo women.
Conversely, Leo women have no problems with Aries. It's a one wway street thing.
Aries also knife the Sagittarian women, but those Sags always float up like a bubble and suspect nothing.

So, it's defo the Aries, not so much the Libra in you. That dislikes LEo

Miss A ACTING WEIRD

Miss A is my bestfriend, she is Leo. She just got divorced and recently became bitter but enrolled herself in some New Age meetings and posted a lot of New age wisdom words on her Facebook & Twitter.
Anyways, I was talking to her asking advice about a crazy Sagittarian man who chased me and made me uncomfortable.., instead of helping me or calming my paranoia, because this crazy man showed up at my office like a stalker...Miss A gave me a FULL LENGTH LECTURE on NEW AGE wisdom.

She didn't get my point..and sadly..I also didn't get hers.
Anyways, I cut the convo short..saying thanks and charmingly express my appreciation towards her newfound wisdom...
But inside I know that things are wacky.

And my guts were correct
2 weeks later, she posted a story on Facebook on how she locked her husband outside of their property during an argument. I was startled.
She was always very private about her personal life, and now she went ranting on Facebook humiliating her ex husband? While 3 weeks ago she was behaving like some spiritual guru lecturing me to keep things for myself and she did the opposite...

I am still startled. I can't grasp the logic.

you LET her borrow ur money uhhhh. Why did u let her borrow ur money when she was being so "rude" to u, and THEN get pissed off about it?? The Leo was rude to u...and? You basically fed into her rudeness by still being nice to her. She'll probably ask u to borrow your car, and the "Libra Rising" in you will let her cuz u don't wanna seam mean hahaha wow....

I only have troule dealing with Leo women when they become uncouth cookiemunstres. If they are civil, positive and have consideration, they're best mates for Libras.

totally agree w spica. it's the aries in you, not the leo or libra.

aries women tend to be the most primadonna-ish. you kind of need to be the "alpha" woman, and dislike other strong female personalities or who make you feel like they are competetors for your "alpha" position. and go figure, other fire sign women have strong personalities.

i've got leo moon conj ascendant and aries women tend to fucking hate me. i can act very mild and humble around them, which will postpone the inevitable, but they always seem to need to "put me in my place" or do something to make it clear who is the "alpha". and of course i let them win because as a libra, it's not a battle i care about anyways. but it's still annoying. (also, as a leo-influenced libra, i just sort of feel like i'm at the top of the heap anyways, and really don't need to win some bizarre pissing contest to feel like i'm better than them, which is probably why aries ladies are so prone to disliking leos).

^ no because aries (esp women) are very competetive, and leos aren't at all. To me, this is a huge difference. And it's one of the chief sources of friction between leo and aries.

if we are talking about the mars placement, we are talking about how people do things. But if we speak of sun sign, it is about ideals. And identity. Aries thirst for competition is part of their identity, so they are prone to take leos refusal to compete as a personal insult in a way. Leo will likewise be offended by being pressured to compete. Leos are born regal, they don't earn it.

however, the things aries is most competitive about and leo most views as givens vary by individual preferences, which are likely swayed by other placements in the chart.

Posted by curious visitor
^ no because aries (esp women) are very competetive, and leos aren't at all. To me, this is a huge difference. And it's one of the chief sources of friction between leo and aries.

if we are talking about the mars placement, we are talking about how people do things. But if we speak of sun sign, it is about ideals. And identity. Aries thirst for competition is part of their identity, so they are prone to take leos refusal to compete as a personal insult in a way. Leo will likewise be offended by being pressured to compete. Leos are born regal, they don't earn it.

however, the things aries is most competitive about and leo most views as givens vary by individual preferences, which are likely swayed by other placements in the chart.

So, true I worked with aries and I ignored her and her crap at the office most of the time. She was always trying to manipulate me . She would say things like I really admire your work and you have a strong personality. Then go talk shit about me.

So, I did what I needed to do work wise. Even got her to sign -off the skills transfer I had to do with her.But the moment she got personal I would ignore her.She would start crying and telling me how she wishes she was like me. I told her to go see her professional as I am not here for her self-esteem. Fighting with her and getting involved with her drama felt beneath me.


And I made it clear to her that I wanted to be nothing but work co-workers with her.She went and told our bosses.She told them I don't want to teach her my job. I went and got all the signed -off documents...She started crying telling them " why am bella79 always the one travelling and bella79 get all the projects...

Long story short ,she got moved from me.

I have a leo moon and I can't talk to my mother leo at all.

She is just messed up though

Posted by curious visitor
^ no because aries (esp women) are very competetive, and leos aren't at all

Is that a joke?

Posted by curious visitor
^ no because aries (esp women) are very competetive, and leos aren't at all. To me, this is a huge difference. And it's one of the chief sources of friction between leo and aries.

In this Leo mercury retrograde, I experienced the worst of Leo women. Leo rules the heart chakra or solar plexus, so a wayward (low confidence) leo would try to rip apart someone else's. I have experienced competitive Leos.. they are my lil students.. they learned to compete at a very young age, and hate when anyone outshines them. I used to have a very rosy view of Leo, not anymore..

But Leo can easily be put in their place by Aries.. that much is true.

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Posted by spica
But Leo can easily be put in their place by Aries.. that much is true.

I believe Arians can put anyone in their place & also believe they are the smartest sign of us all, provided other placements in speedy planets back them up. They are the the sign to be wary of more than any. Cancerians are also right up there with their exceptional vision and raw creative ability. I put Leo's well down the list. Waay down. They might have skills and talents, but that's all. Sorry guys lol.

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All bark no bite...zzzzz

i'm not catty 🙂 i just told u how i felt.