Libra/Gemini or Libra/Aquarius?

Which couple do you prefer and why?

Posted by Libralula
Friends only...

Libra/Aqua have the most wild fun together
Libra/Gem have the more understanding talks

Just my experience

That's sounds about right.

I'm a Gemini In a relationship with a Libra. For the most part, things are very laid back. There are times I feel my Libra pulls away so the only negative aspect is that there can be mixed messages at times, but I find it's mainly because when they are extremely busy or tired, they just need time to collect their thoughts and recharge. When things are running normally it's as if they are my missing part and have a tendency to bring the best out of me. So much positive energy. Conversations and encouragement are spot on. The sexual aspect is just out of this world. Libras are truly one of a kind, and the same I hear back that us Gems help them a lot but we just don't realize it lol

Posted by Sugarfoot
Friends only - aqua - because of communication issues but without the pressure of a relationship there's more open communication and honesty.

Romance - gemini - because both want and have a need for partnership, both understand the others need for space, gemini won't try to control libras and shows more understanding. Geminis can also talk about any and everything in any situation and that's good for libras who have a need to resolve conflict.

She is 100% correct. Listen to the Libra. Most fail to do so...

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by Sugarfoot
Friends only - aqua - because of communication issues but without the pressure of a relationship there's more open communication and honesty.

Romance - gemini - because both want and have a need for partnership, both understand the others need for space, gemini won't try to control libras and shows more understanding. Geminis can also talk about any and everything in any situation and that's good for libras who have a need to resolve conflict.

She is 100% correct. Listen to the Libra. Most fail to do so...

How long have you been with your libra gemguy?

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10 years. We began as friends and recently it took a more serious turn. I think there were feelings there all along but neither of us wanted to make the first move out of fear of losing the other. There was a bit of immaturity in the beginning and one time my libra decided they would play mind games with me. I called them out on it and we didn't talk for about three years. It was me who eventually made the decision to apologize. Then things picked up where they left off and are now even stronger than ever. I think being apart made us both realize how much we missed each other and this is why I tell others not to do the chasing game and delicate dance. -You don't know what you've got until it's gone. To a Gem/Lib it is one of a kind. Each person feels completed.

I'm a gem woman in a relationship with a libra man. We balance each other out. We are both workaholics. We both remind each other. Him to me: slow down. Me to him: catch up. We tend to be very active when together. We both like our space so there is no constant 24/7 validate me crap. It's been an awesome experience so far. To me, my libra is a blessing. I love him.

@ GemGem, yes! The balancing of each other. When I am down my Libra is right there to pick me up and helps me step back and look at all things considered in order to contemplate the positive. All the same, they hate negativity and I can't stand it when something is out of my control and tips their scales (such as their job). I have to stand ready to provide the same in return and remind them they are the most important thing in my life and none of that other BS matters. At first I had to be careful about how I did this as they can become very delicate when they are upset and don't always know how to deal with their feelings at first, which is upsetting to me as a Gemini because I feel like I am all they should need to be happy (aside from the little comforts they enjoy hehe). The energy runs super high when we are together, we can take a boring day and make anything of it and just have a blast even if it's just taking a ride somewhere and playing some good tunes and having laughs. The space thing, yeah for me I had to learn that at first because I latched on hard and was I think afraid of losing them again but I have found absense can and does make the heart that much fonder so I let them have their space when I can tell they need it. They still want you to be in reach however.

Posted by Lust
Congrats GG! Gem & Lib are the best combo. The endless conversation & lots of freedom. No rules, changing plan at last minute, the arguments, the romance, the sex, everything is perfectly not perfect and this makes perfect˜

Changing plans at the last minute...mmm yes. I would venture to say also the only rules you really need are to impose on yourself in order to respect each other and to have understanding of each others. Meaning to me when it's time to come together and when it's time to leave each other the breathing room (we both have a very independent streak as we are both air signs after all) that each other require. I can't say I have too many arguments as the both of us usually somehow come to the same decision and agree, though my Lib tries to debate me on things I do already know about more so than they do, but I will generally in a mild but educated manner, educate them so they understand. Don't get me started on the sex & romance part. God it's so good I could spend half the day in bed. Seems it goes like a chore and somehow each just knows exactly what to do. Very playful and very passionate other times. In fact it can become very fun as we both will usually try to outdo the other. To me it has just never been any better with anyone else. Never. 🙂

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by Lust
Congrats GG! Gem & Lib are the best combo. The endless conversation & lots of freedom. No rules, changing plan at last minute, the arguments, the romance, the sex, everything is perfectly not perfect and this makes perfect˜

Changing plans at the last minute...mmm yes. I would venture to say also the only rules you really need are to impose on yourself in order to respect each other and to have understanding of each others. Meaning to me when it's time to come together and when it's time to leave each other the breathing room (we both have a very independent streak as we are both air signs after all) that each other require. I can't say I have too many arguments as the both of us usually somehow come to the same decision and agree, though my Lib tries to debate me on things I do already know about more so than they do, but I will generally in a mild but educated manner, educate them so they understand. Don't get me started on the sex & romance part. God it's so good I could spend half the day in bed. Seems it goes like a chore and somehow each just knows exactly what to do. Very playful and very passionate other times. In fact it can become very fun as we both will usually try to outdo the other. To me it has just never been any better with anyone else. Never. 🙂

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I love how passionate you are about her! I wish someone felt like that about me!

Posted by ElTigre23
Both Gem & especially Aquas are too 'go with the flow' for me. I find myself instantly annoyed by the unstructured communication. Neither give straight answers for anything. I'll ask a simple "Yes or No" question "Would you like to FaceTime" & I have gotten answers like 'I'm not home'. I'd much rather a water, earth & even a fire woman over an air woman. I can admit I like my surroundings controlled and structured & this causes me to be rather boring to other air signs.

I tend to find it sort of ironic with what you say regarding unstructured communication; In my experience the Libra is just as guilty at times. In fact the few Libra's I have been with try to avoid giving me direct answers sometimes, because they don't always know what they're doing lol

You must be an exception.

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by Lust
Congrats GG! Gem & Lib are the best combo. The endless conversation & lots of freedom. No rules, changing plan at last minute, the arguments, the romance, the sex, everything is perfectly not perfect and this makes perfect˜

Changing plans at the last minute...mmm yes. I would venture to say also the only rules you really need are to impose on yourself in order to respect each other and to have understanding of each others. Meaning to me when it's time to come together and when it's time to leave each other the breathing room (we both have a very independent streak as we are both air signs after all) that each other require. I can't say I have too many arguments as the both of us usually somehow come to the same decision and agree, though my Lib tries to debate me on things I do already know about more so than they do, but I will generally in a mild but educated manner, educate them so they understand. Don't get me started on the sex & romance part. God it's so good I could spend half the day in bed. Seems it goes like a chore and somehow each just knows exactly what to do. Very playful and very passionate other times. In fact it can become very fun as we both will usually try to outdo the other. To me it has just never been any better with anyone else. Never. 🙂

I love how passionate you are about her! I wish someone felt like that about me!

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I feel kinda bad that things have gone the way they have for you with your Gemini. Don't give up hope on finding your true love. You will one of these days. Stay kind and stay positive!

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Posted by Lust
Congrats GG! Gem & Lib are the best combo. The endless conversation & lots of freedom. No rules, changing plan at last minute, the arguments, the romance, the sex, everything is perfectly not perfect and this makes perfect˜

Changing plans at the last minute...mmm yes. I would venture tosay also the only rules you really need are to impose on yourself in order to respect each other and to have understanding of each others. Meaning to me when it's time to come together and when it's time to leave each other the breathing room (we both have a very independent streak as we are both air signs after all) that each other require. I can't say I have too many arguments as the both of us usually somehow come to the same decision and agree, though my Lib tries to debate me on things I do already know about more so than they do, but I will generally in a mild but educated manner, educate them so they understand. Don't get me started on the sex & romance part. God it's so good I could spend half the day in bed. Seems it goes like a chore and somehow each just knows exactly what to do. Very playful and very passionate other times. In fact it can become very fun as we both will usually try to outdo the other. To me it has just never been any better with anyone else. Never. 🙂

I love how passionate you are about her! I wish someone felt like that about me!

I feel kinda bad that things have gone the way they have for you with your Gemini. Don't give up hope on finding your true love. You will one of these days. Stay kind and stay positive!

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He didn't say anything to me all day yesterday then text me last night because he saw my status about going out and he never texts me about stuff on facebook except in the beginning. He said have fun tonight and I ignored him but I just couldn't resist I texted him this morning sayin thanking I had fun and he never texted me back and I know he is awake because he works night shift and just got off work so it's whatever. It kinda felt like a remi

Reminder like I'm still over here don't hook up with anyone, but I wouldn't anyways because I can't see anyone else oh well I'll get over it but I just don't see why somehow someways has to go away.

Posted by ladylibra21
Reminder like I'm still over here don't hook up with anyone, but I wouldn't anyways because I can't see anyone else oh well I'll get over it but I just don't see why somehow someways has to go away.

Sounds as though you just need to move on and be happy with yourself. Seems you are investing too much energy into him and he could give a rat's ass. Unless he is actually willing to talk about things, which it doesn't sound like he is interested in doing so, then there really isn't a reason to stick around. You deserve better than that.

Posted by PastelPlum
Okay
Aquarius can be very bossy and unyielding. That would drain me after a while

Gemini is supposed to be the better match BUT gemini have a tendency to lie and talk a lot of rubbish.

I believe Libra need someone with direction and a geminis lack of direction is going to be a major minus. I've seen geminis that don't lie though so there are those out thrrr.

Overall best match is Libra but an evolved Libra

I don't know about lacking direction. Seems I have a knack for guiding my Libra at times especially when they are stuck. Maybe it's because I am honest and they know they can trust me. I have yet to steer them wrong. But more so, I think they see how I am in my own life and go with the flow because it makes more sense and they are comfortable with me. Could be my Leo moon taking over with the leading part though. Shrugs.

Posted by munchykin

Posted by PastelPlum
Okay
Aquarius can be very bossy and unyielding. That would drain me after a while

Gemini is supposed to be the better match BUT gemini have a tendency to lie and talk a lot of rubbish.

I believe Libra need someone with direction and a geminis lack of direction is going to be a major minus. I've seen geminis that don't lie though so there are those out thrrr.

Overall best match is Libra but an evolved Libra

LIBRA + LIBRA =

"Where do you want to eat?"
"Idk where do you want to eat?"
"Anywhere you want is fine"
"I want whatever you want"
"I want whatever you think I think you want"
(random Aries passerby shoves them apart to get past them)
"Oh...i guess I'm inside a Chinese restaurant now. Want this?"
"idk do you?"
"Only if you want"

...and so on and so forth

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LMAO!