LibraSid
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You're right Lib911. The more you try to control situations. The more they can't be controlled. I appreciate everyone's input. You guys are a hoot. I can't believe it took me this long to come this message board.
Posted by Lib911But aren't libras supposed to be forgiving?
So you still believe that you did something that he needs to forgive you for?
You didn't do anything bad and you didn't insult him, you just turned him off - two different thingsclick to expand
If I read right, she already apologized when it initially happened. She apologized for the way she came off, but then turned around and still sort of accused him when explaining her reasoning.
Anyway, I agree it's time out for apologizing. No more. You didn't mean to come off the way you did, it's in the past. At the end of the day, it seems you want something more exclusive. My opinion still remains you will have to run into him to get another shot.
One guy turned me off via text, telling me that he thought taking a girl for date prior to her being his girl was played and that he wasn't about to get played. I was so turned off, I ignored him for almost a year, with him constantly texting. I realized he wasn't giving up one day, and I was in a good mood so I responded with —hi??. He dropped that stupid principle and changed his approach I??ll tell you that much.
However I don't recommend you do what he did, it was just an example of what can happen when you turn a Libra off.
Posted by Willyynillyy
LibraSid
I sent a text a day after this debacle and all I said was I'm sorry. It went unanswered. I figured to keep pushing would be a bad idea.
Pinklibra
We met at a bar. Where I tried to talk to him but he was too drunk so I left. He tracked me down a few days later saying I was the girl from the bar and to forgive him for being so wasted. The rest is history.
Tracked you down huh? lol The more i read, the more i think this can possibly resurface. But i guess we will see.
Yeah I wouldn't sweat it anymore. Shit happens, it was off putting but not that big a deal. You apologized once, after that it's up to him. Depending how that month had been and all the other details, I could see myself going either way in his shoes.
As long as it doesn't come to this:
http://elitedaily.com/humor/pathetic-texts/<BR>
Its not so bad lol
http://elitedaily.com/humor/pathetic-texts/<BR>
Its not so bad lol
I died laughing at that link. Maybe that's what I looked like to my libra guy _— gah
Try living with a libra man
Your life won't be the same
Muahahahaha
Your life won't be the same
Muahahahaha
Is that you in your pic WillyNilly?? If so lol. Girl you are pretty and proving my theory don't let this man see you again, he gonna be like —I know I was mad at her, but I cant remember why..Perhaps I should go at her again.?? lol
Posted by TaurusNikki
Try living with a libra man
Your life won't be the same
Muahahahaha
Now here you go...lol
Haha is that a good thing or bad taurusnikki? I figured living with them would all be calm and chill. Sounds perfect! I lived with my libra brother. He's so amazing though! I figured 'I'd date someone like my brother'.
PinkLibra you are so sweet! He's not a bad looking guy though so he can get any pretty girl he wants.
PinkLibra you are so sweet! He's not a bad looking guy though so he can get any pretty girl he wants.
I've said it was no biggie from the beginning. He will get over it in time. You'll def hear from him again 🙂 OMG I did something so much worse to my libra guy!!! He took a weeks time to recouperate from it, but he def came back around. Lol
Look at you Willy - hot hot 🙂
Posted by Willyynillyy
Haha is that a good thing or bad taurusnikki? I figured living with them would all be calm and chill. Sounds perfect! I lived with my libra brother. He's so amazing though! I figured 'I'd date someone like my brother'.
PinkLibra you are so sweet! He's not a bad looking guy though so he can get any pretty girl he wants.
Yea but any pretty girl isn't YOU! Get some confidence about yourself! You're gonna need it if you want to be in the long haul with this man. You're beautiful. So talk like it, walk like it, act like it.
Posted by tizianiPosted by Lib911Posted by tiziani
I answered in your other thread and this is probably the first time in ages I see things differently from Libra 911.
Would you care to elaborate?
When you were saying some women can't accept the truth about him not being that into her. I don't see it that way personally.click to expand
I meant, they can't read those small cues, or they refuse to. Justification seems easier than accepting the reality - just saying that I have seen this a lot with women
He very well may come back around, especially if that 3 hours is regularly overcome anyway. If/when he does, should you choose to pursue it, just steer clear of making things into productions (he'll be a big enough drama queen for you both). Oh, and evidently a lot of us are whore's, so watch out for that, haha. I'm biased but I think living with a libra is great. Easy going, peace loving, charming.
Posted by pinklibra
Also Aqua, if you gonna out the Leeb men, lol don't leave out that they are very indecisive and change their minds like they changes their underwear which causes them to randomly re-appear.
Pink, you won't call me rude if I told you the self righteous, immature things he said to me. How I saw it was that if I can't stand him in this three hour first impression conversation, how am I gonna deal with him in the long run if I end up dating or even marrying him.
I have a very accepting/non judgmental aura to me so people tend to open up right away to me. I've had men open up to a point of admitting that thy cheated on some of their exes on the first date. I don't even know why I look like a compassionate person when I'm not. The thing is that if something or someone annoys me,I'm not nice or sympathetic about it. What surprises me is that I actually have friends given how brutally honest Iam with them. They say aqua moon is very cold and ruthless and that is veryyyy true!! I don't see anything wrong with being cut throat brutally honest approach. That's just who I am and after seeing so much crap that men pull, I'm even more cold, so at the first sign of double standard or douchebaggery, I'm out the door and I'm not nice about it because I'm not a libra and have no placement there. Libras are just nice people. It's second nature to them to be polite and be compassionate.
Libra sun and cancer moon dude will never re-appear and I make sure that no man who ended on a bad note with me re-appears. How i ended it was that when he msged me good morning the next day, I replied, "Good morning! I will not be proceeding further with you so please don't ever message me again". However, he did write me a butthurt essay of an email saying that I judged him too quick and perhaps I should be more patient. Men only re-appear when they know that the woman is somewhat compassionate and will cater or even entertain them if they were to make their untimely come back. The proof is that I dated a libra male once and he wronged me. I shut him out and he knows how I am and he will never reappear to make amends. Although I've forgiven him, but he will never come back because the way I was with him. I think all men know the kind of woman they are dealing with.
Posted by pinklibraPosted by TaurusNikki
Try living with a libra man
Your life won't be the same
Muahahahaha
Now here you go...lolclick to expand
Posted by Willyynillyy
Haha is that a good thing or bad taurusnikki? I figured living with them would all be calm and chill. Sounds perfect! I lived with my libra brother. He's so amazing though! I figured 'I'd date someone like my brother'.
PinkLibra you are so sweet! He's not a bad looking guy though so he can get any pretty girl he wants.
Lol, hate to say it it's both, it's a balance thing
@Aqua heads up girl, my comment to you was a joke. Lol
I really don't care if you out the Libra men, truth is they do disappear for various reason. The reason in this post is plain and simple.
I'm sorry how things turned out for you with your Libra ex. It's never fun giving your all to something, and having it turn to dust or not work out. Anyway, yeah...i still think Libra men pop up when you least expect no matter what their other placements are. It's almost a subconscious thing, it doesn't matter if he pops up just to say —hi?? and let that be it, they are always capable of reappearing because Libras CANNOT make up their mind.
Also, did you fail to realize that in both examples you gave those Libra men tried to come back, even if they did it in subtle ways, they still did it. YOU were the one that said enough is enough, and your not gonna play hop-scotch with my feelings. Truth is if a lot more women stood up to a Libra man like that, they may actually figure how to rid themselves of the emotional roller-coaster the in-out behavior of this sign can cause.
I really don't care if you out the Libra men, truth is they do disappear for various reason. The reason in this post is plain and simple.
I'm sorry how things turned out for you with your Libra ex. It's never fun giving your all to something, and having it turn to dust or not work out. Anyway, yeah...i still think Libra men pop up when you least expect no matter what their other placements are. It's almost a subconscious thing, it doesn't matter if he pops up just to say —hi?? and let that be it, they are always capable of reappearing because Libras CANNOT make up their mind.
Also, did you fail to realize that in both examples you gave those Libra men tried to come back, even if they did it in subtle ways, they still did it. YOU were the one that said enough is enough, and your not gonna play hop-scotch with my feelings. Truth is if a lot more women stood up to a Libra man like that, they may actually figure how to rid themselves of the emotional roller-coaster the in-out behavior of this sign can cause.
The only way I see a Libra male never returning ever, is if you did something extremely rude, or hurt them tremendously to the point they can no longer trust you with their feelings or emotions. If they get to that point, they won't even be attracted to you, because at that point they cannot picture a future anymore. Everyone knows Libra??s love the —idea?? of love, and often fantasize about that special relationship, however if you put a pin in that fantasy permanently, well??_you can most likely kiss your Libra good-bye, especially if they cannot mentally or emotionally find a way around whatever you did.
In this case, it's nowhere near that deep, that's why I don't think he's gone for good. It just would not surprise me if she made a post about how he randomly re-surfaced.
In this case, it's nowhere near that deep, that's why I don't think he's gone for good. It just would not surprise me if she made a post about how he randomly re-surfaced.
Posted by JBGPosted by Willyynillyy
Haha is that a good thing or bad taurusnikki? I figured living with them would all be calm and chill. Sounds perfect! I lived with my libra brother. He's so amazing though! I figured 'I'd date someone like my brother'.
PinkLibra you are so sweet! He's not a bad looking guy though so he can get any pretty girl he wants.
Yea but any pretty girl isn't YOU! Get some confidence about yourself! You're gonna need it if you want to be in the long haul with this man. You're beautiful. So talk like it, walk like it, act like it.click to expand
EXACTLY JBG! I mean??_hellloooo! lol
So you flipped out over the span of the lack of contact over 3 days.
You showed no control of your emotions and reacted inappropriately.
Consider this a lesson learned, tbh.
As for mature and "emotionless?" No bitch, no.
I used to do some pretty dumb ass stuff like this in my early 20s. I speak from experience in behaving this way at one point in my life. I say what I say because I know what kind of results come from it and I'm telling her to get her shit under control. Regardless of insecurity or not, you need to stop and think about what you're about to say or how you're about to react would be perceived. Would it be an appropriate reaction? Think back over how long it's actually been. Is reacting like that justified based on what just happened? I have no idea wtf sign you are since you've left out a lot of information, but as an Aries, I'm constantly keeping impulsiveness in check. It's something I've learned to do as I've gotten older. I'd rather have all the information before ripping some douche apart.
The last time I dealt with a Libra pulling this shit, I let the evidence present itself for a little bit, just to make sure what I thought was happening was REALLY happening. Once that was determined, THEN I ripped him a new one. 🙂
You showed no control of your emotions and reacted inappropriately.
Consider this a lesson learned, tbh.
As for mature and "emotionless?" No bitch, no.
I used to do some pretty dumb ass stuff like this in my early 20s. I speak from experience in behaving this way at one point in my life. I say what I say because I know what kind of results come from it and I'm telling her to get her shit under control. Regardless of insecurity or not, you need to stop and think about what you're about to say or how you're about to react would be perceived. Would it be an appropriate reaction? Think back over how long it's actually been. Is reacting like that justified based on what just happened? I have no idea wtf sign you are since you've left out a lot of information, but as an Aries, I'm constantly keeping impulsiveness in check. It's something I've learned to do as I've gotten older. I'd rather have all the information before ripping some douche apart.
The last time I dealt with a Libra pulling this shit, I let the evidence present itself for a little bit, just to make sure what I thought was happening was REALLY happening. Once that was determined, THEN I ripped him a new one. 🙂
Posted by rockyroadicecream
So you flipped out over the span of the lack of contact over 3 days.
You showed no control of your emotions and reacted inappropriately.
Consider this a lesson learned, tbh.
As for mature and "emotionless?" No bitch, no.
I used to do some pretty dumb ass stuff like this in my early 20s. I speak from experience in behaving this way at one point in my life. I say what I say because I know what kind of results come from it and I'm telling her to get her shit under control. Regardless of insecurity or not, you need to stop and think about what you're about to say or how you're about to react would be perceived. Would it be an appropriate reaction? Think back over how long it's actually been. Is reacting like that justified based on what just happened? I have no idea wtf sign you are since you've left out a lot of information, but as an Aries, I'm constantly keeping impulsiveness in check. It's something I've learned to do as I've gotten older. I'd rather have all the information before ripping some douche apart.
The last time I dealt with a Libra pulling this shit, I let the evidence present itself for a little bit, just to make sure what I thought was happening was REALLY happening. Once that was determined, THEN I ripped him a new one. 🙂
LMBO
Posted by TaurusNikki
@Pinklibra
That's is pure Poetry
LOL 🙂 I do what i can do..when i can do it
Posted by Willyynillyy
Pinklibra I know. I've racked my brain as well. And no he doesn't follow me on anything. I guess snapchat. But what are the odds he'll answer a snap. 0.
LibraSid.... Yes. I reacted badly. What can I say? I'm trying to make amends which I can't do when I'm being ignored. Weird but I actually have a lot of friends where he lives so in that month I was there about 3 days a week for 3 weeks. And I saw him when I was there. Still. I know I overreacted.
The "Unbelievable" statement says the rest to you. Read more into it, it says sooooo much.
Now you won't get a response if at all until he is ready. Perhaps it's time to give him that space that you know he needs..
AND if you can't deal with that and be patient then this guy is certainly not the one for you. At this point he has no commitment to you and you feel he does, you've dated a half dozen times but there is no obligation to give you anything in his mind.
Keep pushing and apologising and you will be shut our further...it's the way I would react! You would come off as loopy in my mind!
Posted by tizianiPosted by Lib911Posted by tizianiPosted by Lib911Posted by tiziani
I answered in your other thread and this is probably the first time in ages I see things differently from Libra 911.
Would you care to elaborate?
When you were saying some women can't accept the truth about him not being that into her. I don't see it that way personally.
I meant, they can't read those small cues, or they refuse to. Justification seems easier than accepting the reality - just saying that I have seen this a lot with women
I'm only disagreeing with you so you'll finally let me hang out with you and your friends!click to expand
LMAO!!
Posted by Willyynillyy
I was dating this libra guy for about a month now. We live 3 hours apart. Talked everyday, had an amazing time together. Went as far as saying he "liked me a lot". He's been having a hard time with work and began pulling away a little bit. I decided to give him some space. The other day I texted him and told him that while I knew he was occupied, if there was someone else in the picture or if he was treating me like a second choice, that perhaps he needed to find someone a bit better suited for that. I only said that because I just wanted to let him know that while I'd love to be there for him, I won't accept being second choice to someone else. He replied with "unbelievable". To which I said I was sorry and I wasn't trying to question his morals or character or even start a fight (I know they hate confrontation) but merely trying to kind of put my foot down and let him know how I feel. Then he answered "goodnight".
I haven't heard from him since and it's been about 5 days. I texted him again saying I was sorry. But no answer.
Why did he disappear? Is he mad? I didn't feel like I was being clingy or naggy but his lack of response is very concerning.
I'm a sagittarius. Leo
ascendant. Moon in cancer. He's a libra. Sagg ascendant. Moon in cancer. Venus in scorpio.
First its only been a month... and he only said he "liked" you.. not yet love. If i was the dude that would consider work as top priority i cant be with someone whold make me feel guilty because im working hard.
you dont have a solid relationship yet and on the first you already have an issue of him being into his career and giving him a hint you dont trust him then he would surely bail... if a guy would question me and my dedication with my work ild be happy to direct him to the exit door.
Woow, I totally didn't see the chart stuff. I fail, haha.
Gawd, cancer moon and Leo rising? No wonder you reacted like you did.
I empathize. I have a Cancer moon too. That shit sucks.
Gawd, cancer moon and Leo rising? No wonder you reacted like you did.
I empathize. I have a Cancer moon too. That shit sucks.
Rockyroadicecream sooooo... You saying I'm crazy? Lol
this kind of thread has been posted... at least 12-15 times...
I don't think what the OP did was wrong... Do I disagree with her yes. But to play devils advocate when 1) She only said sorry twice based on this post, she didn't profusely say sorry, or at least that I saw in her posts. 2) She was saying how she felt which is a hell of a lot more than what most women do when they come on here asking "Should I tell him I didn't appreciate it? Waahhh."
The point is some people are over analyzing this WAY too much with WAY too little information. I know I do that sometimes too. But in this case it seems like she has some sort of self esteem. It might not come from a place you agree with but it is still who she is. She does not seem duplicitous or that shes trying to manipulate.
But trying to critique her every little actions... come on!! Like you guys are that perfect too and know exactly what to do all the time. Thats why you're here right. We all came on here for advice one time or another. Don't act like you're all high and mighty now.
*Rolls eyes*
The point is some people are over analyzing this WAY too much with WAY too little information. I know I do that sometimes too. But in this case it seems like she has some sort of self esteem. It might not come from a place you agree with but it is still who she is. She does not seem duplicitous or that shes trying to manipulate.
But trying to critique her every little actions... come on!! Like you guys are that perfect too and know exactly what to do all the time. Thats why you're here right. We all came on here for advice one time or another. Don't act like you're all high and mighty now.
*Rolls eyes*
Posted by Willyynillyy
Rockyroadicecream sooooo... You saying I'm crazy? Lol
Nah. Just that those placements are likely to make you do crazy things when you're not feeling so great.
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