Libra has me confused, help!

I met this Libra man & we hit it off right away. I did not find him that much attractive but I really liked his personality & enjoyed talking with him. We started talking on facebook and I noticed he was trying to lead the conversation to an appropriate moment to ask me out. Turns out those days I was feeling a really desperate need for affection, so even though I didn't find him that much good looking, I bluntly asked him if he wanted to go out with me. He responded positively with a yes and a when. We made plans for that week, and when the day to take me out came, he never called. A week later we ran into each other and he makes plans with me to go to a two day weekend getaway with some friends of him and mine. He followed through this time, and we had an amazing time. We had so much fun, and we did so many out of the ordinary things, I loved it! We ended up having amazing sex. He told me it was definitely one of the best, if not the best. Really open, satisfying, fun sex. My afection needs were met because we cuddled the whole night and I started to really like him after that. He asked me if I wanted to go again the next weekend and then stood me up. We kept texting, and he kept making plans with me which he didn't comply with, so eventually I decided to forget the guy. We kept "running into each other", but really he was just going to the places he knows I tend to go out to with my friends and such. Sometimes he was an asshole, sometimes he was charming and sweet. Last time we were together, I think we both enjoyed it, and he gets jealous when a guy friend of his texts me or if he sees me with some other guy. Is he interested or not? I am really confused, should take the iniciative and pursue him, or just ignore him? He has sun in libra, moon in scorpio, venus and mercury in libra, and mars in gemini.

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A week later we ran into each other and he makes plans with me to go to a two day weekend getaway with some friends of him and mine. He followed through this time, and we had an amazing time. We had so much fun, and we did so many out of the ordinary things, I loved it! We ended up having amazing sex. He told me it was definitely one of the best, if not the best. Really open, satisfying, fun sex. My afection needs were met because we cuddled the whole night and I started to really like him after that. He asked me if I wanted to go again the next weekend and then stood me up. We kept texting, and he kept making plans with me which he didn't comply with, so eventually I decided to forget the guy. We kept "running into each other", but really he was just going to the places he knows I tend to go out to with my friends and such. Sometimes he was an asshole, sometimes he was charming and sweet. Last time we were together, I think we both enjoyed it, and he gets jealous when a guy friend of his texts me or if he sees me with some other guy. Is he interested or not? I am really confused, should take the iniciative and pursue him, or just ignore him? He has sun in libra, moon in scorpio, venus and mercury in libra, and mars in gemini.

You put out too fast. Gold star for that classic mistake.

Second, his Scorpio moon makes him jealous. I doubt he's really interested because if he was, he wouldn't be flaking so much. The only reason he's jealous is because he thinks he owns you now that he's had his dick inside of you.

Third- you do not sound like date worthy material. I mean really- "I wasn't interested, but I was SO DESPERATE FOR AFFECTION that I went out with him. Oh then those lovely hormones got going after sex and NOW I like him because he made me feel good about myself. MY needs were met."

...no. You sound so ridiculously insecure. You should not be interested in someone because they "make" you happy and fill some void that you need to figure out first. A significant other should not be a solution to your internal issues, should they exist. You are not ready to date until you get that shit figured out. A relationship should complement who you are, not make up a second half of you.

PS- ignore him. He's being a douche.

Wow @ that chart..it looks like my x's {aka love of my life, lol} except his mars is leo. Back to the OP.. im not sure if what he is doing is due to astrology or not, but ive dealt with a scorp moon and im a scorp moon myself. Scorp moon = push & pull for lack of better words. My x did flake out sometimes, but im an aqua so it didnt bother me...theres always other things to do. I agree with Rocky in that, u slept with him too quickly. Where's a mystery in that? Scorp moon needs some type of mystery to keep them interested and they need to sense some sort of strength of character, no lack of self control or perceived weakness in your personality, etc. If ur "weak" or easy to get (like u were by sleeping with him), the intrigue is gone. Im not gonna tell u what to do here, its your choice... im only giving u some guidelines. Btw, some libra men see-saw a lot in a relationship, u need not to make the relationship the centre piece of your life if u dont wanna be confused or get hurt by their indecision. Im not sure if they are aware of it thou *shrugs*. I dated mine for 2yrs, he did the seesaw thing in the beginning, but was stable later in our 1st year...we even moved in together and got engaged. I ended it (we were still in touch until recently cause he never went away and i still cared, i changed my number), but thats a story for another day, lol. Good luck to you.

Remember this, fastfood doesnt fulfill as much as a homecooked meal which takes longer to prepare, but the wait makes it more wholesome and enjoyable. Ok?

hahahaha omg yes you are both right. I did put out too fast, and I recognized it a week later when he stood me up without even calling to let me know. I was in desperate need for affection and I am mature enough to admit it to myself, not anyone else for that matter. But its not because I'm ridiculously insecure, I'm actually a confident person and I do not have low self esteem. Although, I do accept that I have to work on that affection thing. Anyways, I'm so sorry for saying he was a moon in scorpio, that's me. He actually is moon in VIRGO. That propably doesn't make much of a difference but still, what do you think?

If ur a scorp moon then u know exactly what to do...scorp moon rarely gets confused. If its time to go then they will go. The reason why ur still asking Qs is bcause ur not ready to leave yet. Watch that attachment/obsessive quality bcause it might hurt u when he doesnt return the affection and that may = to feeling rejected which leads to the "whys" making it difficult to move on. I cant help with virgo moon, i know nothing about it. Whats your sign?

I'm a sagittarius, scorpio moon, gemini rising.

Sag? 'Splains why you put out so fast. You chicas seriously need to get some control of your vagina. You're the 58934th Sag woman to come here, put out too fast, and then be BAFFLED as to why he took off. Come on now. Practice common sense. If you know you want to go into it fast, do not hold any expectations beyond that little fuckfest. Seriously. No expectations. If you truly want to go into something further like an actual relationship, don't drop those panties so fast. You appear to be an easy skank in their eyes and they treat you as such.

Also, Sag explains why you approached it with such a "me" centric attitude. I sorta feel bad for him because you just could not be bothered until it was all about you and what you NEEDED from him. And because the sex was nice, NOW you can be bothered because he can cater to YOUR needs. Maybe he picked up on that and is treating you as such...? *shrugs*

Control yeself, woman. Sex isn't bad per se, but you seriously need to get how guys think when it comes to sex in relation to dating and relationships. It's amazing how fast some can change the second they get to see you naked. It's lame that women have a double standard held against them if they want a good time regardless, but better that you understand the consequences of this jacked up standard if you don't want to get burned.

If I like the guy, I know how to handle the sex situation, I don't put out too fast. I share the same ideal as you do when it comes to relationships and dating. I am aware of the don't put out too soon rule, but as I said in the beginning, I wasn't counting on actually liking the guy. I did approach it with a "me" centric attitude, but then the lovely hormones got going after sex and I started to like him. I really wasn't planning on taking this guy seriously at first, & you're totally right on that. But hey, I'm young, this is the first time I've put out too fast, I get it, I messed up, give me a chance to be wrong before I actually learn my lesson. He knows that as well, its not like I've been around either, he's my third sexual partner. I really wouldn't be too quick to judge but I guess it makes sense that you think like that. Anyways, you're right, I'm not putting any more of my mind and effort unto this guy. Thanks.

I didn't really bashing you per se, but it's a big trend I see with Sag chicks. I just am absolutely baffled that SO many girls come here, admit that they slept with the guy almost instantly, then they are totally mystified by his change in behavior and think there's some secret meaning/feelings behind it.

To each their own though. I have no problem with you wanting to put out whenever you want. Females deserve to go scratch that itch, too. It's just what I was pointing out is the unfortunate reality of the situation a good portion of the time. Guys just suck like that sometimes. :/

Hmm another typical Libra guy story . Yeee-awn !! . Too bad because Libra Man/Sag woman can be a good mix. Best of luck and by all means make him come to you ,youve chased hime enough . If he really wants you he will prove it to you.