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Posted by Inertia1128
^^ hahaha! Ohhh ToC you're back with your old self...the scary mystical devo! :p




😄

I felt lost there for a while...

Did you just call her a "devo" though?

Hehe 🙂

Devo is what us Aussies say instead of devastated 😉
Same as defo = definitely
We add O's to all our words..

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We




We also can't finish our sentences...

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HAHAHAAAA.. that's the Gemini in you! Oh look, a bird!...
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What he does with his money is NOT your business RIGHT NOW, and so saying anything will backfire. You're his gf, not his wife, you're not even living with him. You're DATING..



I think the same way, I know I'm really not in a position to assume as his wife and control how he handles his own money. I know I shouldn't crossover just yet or even if I ended up to be his wife, I will not make money as an issue cause I know he will provide. I know I won't be having problems with him financially-wise and even just now that we are dating he is even doing things for me that a guy normally does to his wife. He really does provide and extended his help financially, before he even wanted to send me some shopping money, I opted not to accept his offer. I told him that it's not right for him to give me money,even if he means well and that he just want me to get what I wanted/needed still it doesn't sound right. If it's in kind and he would be the one to buy it as a gift for me I would surely appreciate that. And true enough he would give me gifts from stuff toys to hi-tech gadgets, even a hair clip and chocolates. And I do treasure all those gifts and even try to make a scrapbook out of all the gifts he sent/gave me. The scrapbook is just my way of appreciating how my Lib-man showers me with gifts. But I know I shouldn't use/abuse him just like what the others are doing to him, I know if I become like them the showering would be replaced with stinginess and I know it's not good.

Jeez, this is getting long also but I just want to mention how loving my Leeb is. In one of our trips, he gave me all the money he has in his pocket and said it's best that I keep it and he would just ask from me whenever we would buy something or pay for the hotel bills. Never did a guy treated me this way, so I know remembering all the good things about him is what I needed now to cope with his hibernation and be patient about it.
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"Women are beautiful underneath their outer beauty and everything they do to appear more beautiful to the world.. like nature in all its majesty." It's very sweet and noble.. and Q's not hung up on treating women like life-support systems for vaginas.

And Wanda Sykes would kick your ASS, KoL.

"Instead of saying 'that's gay' when I think something is stupid or lame, how about I say, "That's so bitter, 26 yr old misogynistic Libra asshole from NYC!"?? When you say, 'That's gay!'.. Do you really know what you're saying? KNOCK IT OFF!"

/public service announcement
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Inertia, thanks for your post. I'm getting a wealth of knowledge from Nefer.

I understand how you feel. My Libra goes into isolation ESP when we have had a disagreement. Before I found this site, it was a total turn off and often looked at as a "weakness" in my eyes that he couldnt handle a slight disagreement. Oh, he would go a week without talking to me until I contacted him and once he gauged my mood to be calm, then he would come back on as strong as ever. 🙂 Now, I'm just very careful how I get what is on my mind out because if i dont, I will have pinned up resentment and that's not good either. Man, these charming Libra's make you work.

BTW---My Libra hates, hates, hates, confrontation. I often tell him he is not living in the real world. To me, he thinks life will always be peachy cream. I so want to slap him and say, wake up dude! Instead, I'm learning to WHOO SAAA! LOL!



Nah, don't thank me. 🙂 We need to thank all the men/women here for their inputs. I know we can't thank Nefer enough just yet, we still have a lot to learn from her. Her advice is a mixture of astrology and experience and always is a sound advice. 🙂

I definitely know when my Leeb is just ignoring me, and most likely wouldn't want to talk with me when I rant. It's easier if he just isolates himself because I was a cookiemonster. I know when I calmed down he would reply. But when he hibernates it's totally a different thing, he just shuts down and nothing I could do with that but WAIT till he comes out. QLM told me to be patient and Nefer told me not to be "cray cray", so I went here to vent. I just wish he comes out soon! 😢

For how long can LIBs hibernate? Do some of you take months to come out from it?
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For how long can LIBs hibernate? Do some of you take months to come out from it?



Yes, well at least until the winter is over... then we come out of our caves... like bears

Na, I hibernate until I'm bored and over it... then I come out and play again
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hahaha! It just crossed my mind, maybe Libras evolved from bears while the rest of the signs came from apes. 🙂