Libra in love with Virgo

Hello I'm dating a Virgo September 15 I'm a Libra October 20 we've been dating for almost 3years We had a lot of drama but we got past it. I've been pregnant by him fought him damaged his clothes and called woman he text/ talk to. But I've always paid for anything I've done and took full ownership for everything. He was having a fight party and didn't want to invite me I was thinking because he had invited other women but we were just now getting back on good terms I told him if he didn't invite me I didn't want to talk to him anymore because if he cares for me so much why does he try to keep me away from major events. He said because your so extra at times and he doesn't want that awkward feeling, between his family and I . I was getting upset He started acting a ass and kept talking about if I left him he wouldn't care nor would he trip so I changed my number While having a conversation with him about rather he wanted to talk to me or not. He ended up inviting me and the party turned out great, he said he like how I was changing and how we were getting along none of the females he invited showed up or I'm just assuming he told them not to come because I came. For the most part I've been working on my anger and I've been changing my ways Also walking away from any fight he tries to engage in . But recently he took me there. For his birthday I hired chef to cook for us and tried to make his bday special But as the chef was cooking for us he was texting a women asking if she was gonna give him birthday sex, I didn't trip I continue making sure he had a great bday. The next day he got drunk and we were having a conversation about men nd how (single) men and have many women they keep around when I asked him how many did he have and where did I fit in he had he avoided the question just to say he don't have any other women it's just me. He finished drinking and wanted to use my car to go to the casino So he went in my purse and found a condom and went nuts I still didn't fight back I just cried after being annoyed with his name calling and crazy ways When he calmed down I told him where it came from He expressed how it made him feel and how he understand where I come from now. The next day I called the women he texted to see if they were using protection because I was having surgery the following day. He called me mad that I did that and said I was acting insecure and I'm not his girl yet, he also said that I make him feel if he does commitment I'm gonna alway

he does commitment I'm gonna always call his friends to see if they are really friends . I said whatever and left it alone. The. Next day I had surgery and he didn't call or. CHeck to see if I was fine so I called him, we were arguing about me calling the girl and me wanting him to feel sorry for being in pain, I got upset and said that's why I slept with some men in your bed while you were out doing you! He was pissed! Ignored my calls / texts and everything The next day he changed his number on me. When I went to get my stuff from him he called the police on me Assuming I was gonna be acting crazy because he wasn't trying to talk but I didn't I just left He didn't or won't say why he stop talking to me and I don't know what to do I contacted all friends and things to see rather I should pursue him or leave it alone. I don't know what to believe anymore. I don't know if he cares or he's just playing me and this other women he really wants and he's mad I contacted her or he just doesn't know about me because of everything we've been threw. I have his back I'm always there for him He always has me up under him all the time I'm just lost and I want him back. Even tho it's only been 4days. I think he's gone for real this time. What should I do

Sept 15th birthdays are cool.

Phew..you're 2 days from the cusp of Scorpio and you are acting like one with the jealousy issue, and yes..you sound a little extra....lol, but WOW..it shouldn't take all that to be in a relationship. Sounds like neither of you have any trust for each other, so maybe your relationship has ran it's course and it's time to move on or at least take a break from each other. Also, how old are you? When I was younger, my brother, whose a Virgo and I fought all the time but now that we are much older, we are in separable, so I understand that Virgo and Libra are not good matches..especially in their younger years.

I'm 25 and he 26. And yes I was very extra at times but he knew how to push my buttons so he would get bad results . I'm not jealous just over protective of what's mine. And I hope it hasn't ran it's course.

Posted by LibraGirlLost
I'm 25 and he 26. And yes I was very extra at times but he knew how to push my buttons so he would get bad results . I'm not jealous just over protective of what's mine. And I hope it hasn't ran it's course.

Still young, but a mature enough to know what you want in a relationship, so just take a break for a minute and see if it's really what you want. As you get older, you will find the less drama in your life, the more relaxed and focused you can be, and ME (Self) time....is a necessity...you need it to regroup and restrategize. And honestly...nothing is ever yours, so that alone will keep you stressed. You can never own anyone. All you can do is let that person know how much you care about them and hope they reciprocate. If not, then you have to take ownership of your actions, reactions and emotions, decide if you want to continue in unhappiness and if not, bid them farewell and do yourself a favor and save yourself some stress and move on. Try not to ever let someone get the best of you and push you to that point. I still fight that battle myself sometimes. Not letting someone push your buttons to the point of explosion is very hard, but with age, comes wisdom, so you learn to pick your battles. When you find yourself being embarrassed by your OWN behavior..lol, then that's when you know it's time to let it go. It's always very hard in the beginning, but it's sooooo much better in the end. Good Luck though
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Thank you so much, I'm still learning and I'm still trying to be a better women and I know when we are good we are good but when it's bad it's bad So I've been working on my angry On top of that I'm growing as a women

Posted by LibraGirlLost
Thank you so much, I'm still learning and I'm still trying to be a better women and I know when we are good we are good but when it's bad it's bad So I've been working on my angry On top of that I'm growing as a women

I think most people see Libra's as always being happy and on an even kill, but a lot of Libra's have anger issues...I know I did and still do at times. I myself even had to take an anger management class when I was a little younger, but most people never get a chance to see that side of a Libra because we're not good at showing emotions unless we really love and care about the person. If you're irrelevant to a Libra, more than likely you will never see that side of them. Keep working on your anger, and you'll be fine.

Yes your so right we don't show that much emotion unless we care. And I just found that out myself smh

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