Libra Lady & Pisces Man

Ok this is the second time in my life that I have fallen for a fish. The first time ended in great heartbreak! I am not sure what planetary influences hinder or help the relationship. I have no solid birth data for him as his birthplace does not show up on chart readings and I don't know his time of birth.

I would like to know your (Libra Lady) experiences with the fish and any successful unions you can think of involving the two infamous scales! Please Share!

This is what I know about him: Born 2/28/77
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Pisces 10.00 Ascendant Gemini 18.14
Moon Cancer 8.41 II Cancer 13.01
Mercury Aquarius 27.14 III Leo 8.08
Venus Aries 20.17 IV Virgo 6.30
Mars Aquarius 14.54 V Libra 9.28
Jupiter Taurus 24.19 VI Scorpio 14.48
Saturn Leo 11.25 R VII Sagittarius 18.14
Uranus Scorpio 11.41 R VIII Capricorn 13.01
Neptune Sagittarius 16.04 IX Aquarius 8.08
Pluto Libra 13.42 R Midheaven Pisces 6.30
Lilith Taurus 24.03 XI Aries 9.28
Asc node Libra 25.16 XII Taurus 14.48


about me: Born 10/2/73

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 9.43 Ascendant Gemini 1.39
Moon Sagittarius 24.54 II Gemini 25.22
Mercury Scorpio 0.20 III Cancer 15.48
Venus Scorpio 22.51 IV Leo 7.34
Mars Taurus 7.59 R V Virgo 5.17
Jupiter Aquarius 2.19 VI Libra 14.31
Saturn Cancer 4.34 VII Sagittarius 1.39
Uranus Libra 22.34 VIII Sagittarius 25.22
Neptune Sagittarius 5.16 IX Capricorn 15.48
Pluto Libra 4.31 Midheaven Aquarius 7.34
Lilith Capricorn 5.23 XI Pisces 5.17
Asc node Capricorn 2.13 XII Aries 14.31

Don't know much about charts and all that. All I know is sun and moon sign compatibility. Your sun sign matches are not that bad, that match can work over time with effort on both ends. Now that cancer and sagg moon relationship, girl if you don't kick up yours heels and run! They couldn't be more different. In most cases like aries and libra opposites attract, but in cancer and sagg that is a whirlwind of heartbreak waiting to happen. In my opinion. Sagg's are one of the most free-spirited people of the zodiac, with blunt, sometimes even rude tongue and response so sharp he will slice your passionate cancer feelings everytime. He doesn't mean too, and wont understand why your so darn sensitive. It will irate him to the max.He will long for a more funny, and exciting person like himself. He loves his space, and is prone to flirt, he will resent you if you deprive him of it. He needs his freedom like he needs air to breathe. Your cancer need to be under your partner to love on them, and spoil them will suffocate your free spirited sagg. Remember this is moon signs im talking about.
Now for your sun sign, as I stated before libra and pisces can work, eventually, that is if Libra doesn't loose interest by them time pisces gets with the program. At first libra will be all in, head over heels even as she is with all her new prospects, but after a while her patiences will grow thin and she will be sick and tired of her pisces boyish behavior and sensitive approach about everything. You are the libra that loves harder than other due to your cancer moon, but it takes a lot to get you there. Once you are there though, you will not tolerate and nonsense from your partner, not for long anyway. I say that because libra believes in giving chances, this way when they are gone for good no matter how much their partner tries to make them feel bad, it wont work because they know they give 110% . I was head over heels for a pisces when I was about 13-17yrs old. He gave me hell when we were younger. We argued everyday, and broke up everyday, yet we were back together before the night was over. He just refused to do right until one day I was done. I mean really done. And honey, he turned into prince charming himself, he would move mount Everest for me now if he could. But I just don't feel for him. Oh well. Too late.

@ ALibra

Thank you so much for your insight...funny...you got us mixed up a bit. He has the Cancer moon and I have the Sagittarius moon. Even funnier, you are so dead on! I do love my freedom, though my Libra tact soothes my tongue, there are times I do have to watch it. I can come across as cold and callous. Truly not my intention,I have been training myself to avoid such talk.

He is VERY sensitive, I do find it irritating but have a close friend with similar behavior and sun sign. I have managed to understand his moods a bit better and not take them personally because of her; though there are times when he pushes my limit.

I have never really considered my moon sign, and it actually explains a lot! I have ALWAYS needed my space and the relationships that work best for me are those that give it to me. I have been called a flirt most of my life and I must be in denial. I don't see myself that way, though I do give people my full attention when interacting. I think it's the way I was socialized.

You are also right about Libra giving relationships a chance, I certainly ascribe to that and when I am done, I'm done.

The biggest issue I have so far with him is his lack of problem-solving communication and high-strung emotions.

was with one for four years was to be marry Dec 3 last year too much to talk bout but it ended in a hot mess all round and it was confusing as well. you would think after a four year relationship i still should be heart broken but irony i healed so quickly because i just didn't get it and decided not to try to understood it anymore so I'm done with fishes love him always and i didn't play his famous mind games either. we are "friends" ( he never clls me his ex either he still speak as if we are still together it just weird lol) but i will not be treading the waters with fishes anymore. they are sweet but i agree they cant solve problems rather run and boy was he emotional too emotional. after my ex and i split about 4 months later i attracted another Pisces he was shocked that i knew. they seem to make things up in their minds i really cant explain it lol. either way i decided to swim or should i say float away this time and I'm glad i did. cant tell you what to do but good-luck.................................

@brokenbutfixablelibragirl

Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it! I am curious to know what broke you guys apart. How long have you been apart?

i still don't know or understand. it the MOST CONFUSING breakup ever but he has a cappy for a mom who is a control freak im sure she had something to do with it but it been 6 months now so water under the bridge for me. he was never the type to share his feelings. codependency was one flaw in our relationship that for sure. i kind of shut down mostly it was too much of overload my scales could not handle it anymore either way. so it was for the best but we were each other first love so it was a wonderful four years regardless the heartbreak. We talk ever now and than and he still says my name the same weird but you knows us Libras once we drift we hardly go back and i doubt i ever will. he claims no girl will ever compare and the next girl will have to jump though hoops i always say how sweet but........ (in my mind im saying im looking for your polar lol)

LOL. WHOOPS! Well flip that around for me there. Thanks! lol

@brokenbutfixablelibragirl

LOL!!!I know what you mean...I can't say I would seek out these characteristics in a partner either. Sounds to me like he will never get over it. That's ok too, Libra's are typically good to those they love and are not known to return to former lovers.

I don't know about you but verbal expression is huge for me! I cling to those rare moments of clarity and sincerity I get from my fish. He comes out of nowhere sometimes with clear and concise expressions of commitment and value for our relationship...rare but wonderful.

There is nothing like many failed experiences to bring on an appreciation for a quality partner. Sounds like your fish has not experienced much and will certainly reflect over time truly what he has lost in you. I actually feel bad for him.

My fish feels unusually familiar...like I've known him my whole life. Strange but comforting. He also has a litany of bad relationships in his past which lends its own dynamic to our bond but certainly aids his appreciation for what we have.

I wish you godspeed in finding his polar opposite and balance in love!

@ ALibra

No worries...you were so right about so much! I can honestly say I never knew anything about moon signs. I have Venus in Scorpio and he has Venus in Aries. Which makes me even more of an enigma...needing space (Sag moon)and being intensely sexual with my Venusian Scorpio influences.

ah @ninalove my ex fish called today to ask me to dinner and a movie next weekend i told him ill get back to him. yes my fish had those moments too when he spoke how he felt. i also thought we would be forever too it was very magically. but sigh again just too flaky. good luck to you as well 🙂

@aquaj Funny, he isn't my first fish and the others were a bit disappointing in the sack. This guy has been an awesome lover! My best relationship was with a Scorpio who also had Venus in Scorpio but in the end he was smothering.

Just follow your heart if love is what you're after.

Ps. Pisces men are amazing in bed... But that's just coming from a wee little Virgal 😉

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Just follow your heart if love is what you're after.

Ps. Pisces men are amazing in bed... But that's just coming from a wee little Virgal 😉

Yes...it appears they are good lovers...but is that enough?

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^ Indeed!

That goes for all signs. I think this pairing makes a very sweet couple.. I haven't met any iRL but I had friends that were cousins of this combo and they got along well and were close 🙂.

I've known a few that can lead you on and get all egotistical when they know you like them (which doesn't make sense cus they were courting you for this reason Hellooooo) but you cant judge a whole sign by one douchebag 😉 I met a March Pisces and was lucky enough with him 🙂 but it also had a lot to do w/ maturity and experience. He was older than I so was into serious relationships n done spreading his oats lol.

Just hope you get a good mature fish 😉. When the catch is good, its good... You know the rest!

Just don't put all your eggs in one basket 😉..