Libra male, Gemini female. Pros and cons?

How would a match between these two signs go? He is a second decan libra and I'm a third decan gem. And he has the HARDEST time expressing his personal feelings. I know for a fact that he's interested in me and he's even tried to kiss me on many occasions but I refuse every time. I do not like it when I don't know someone's intentions. Is that normal behavior for a Libra guy to hide behind a wall like that? What do you guys think? Any advice?

It's been normal for the THREE Libras I've dated, two of them second decans.

We recently discussed this in http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=2051146>THIS</a> thread. And some more about how Libras typically go all-out pursuing girls they're interested in, http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=2044325>HERE</a>.<BR>
There's a lot of good information here about Libra guys, if you look through some of the older threads 🙂

Posted by Danigurl13
How would a match between these two signs go? He is a second decan libra and I'm a third decan gem. And he has the HARDEST time expressing his personal feelings. I know for a fact that he's interested in me and he's even tried to kiss me on many occasions but I refuse every time. I do not like it when I don't know someone's intentions. Is that normal behavior for a Libra guy to hide behind a wall like that? What do you guys think? Any advice?

lol... geminis and talking... what do you mean by intentions?
Pros: your communication style , outlook on life, etc, will be very similar so that's one major issue out of the window
Cons: Emotional relationships and expressions for air signs. Gemini will blurt out emotional verses quickly before completely processing. Libra will say it when it looks and feels right and not before. If you two express at the same time/in sync, great! If the timing's different, someone will push the other away quite quickly... libra and gemini has a lot of backups to move on to from my experience 🙂

Eitherway, seems he is interested so watch his actions, not his words, honestly, that's the best way to find out a libra's intentions from my experiences.

I honestly don't think people ask people if they wanna go steady, etc, these days, do they? I thought one thing leads to another, then someone can't get rid of the other and everyone starts to call them bf and gf...
Obviously, someone will have to ask the marriage question, but I don't think people ask "will you be my gf?"
Correct me if I'm wrong 😄

@zenalchemy, thanks for the response! What I meant when I said I don't like not knowing someone's intentions, is that I'm not sure if I'm just a fling or he's actually interested in something more serious. If it's just a fling, then I'm glad I haven't reciprocated. But I'm really confused with the signals he gives me. Are libra guys usually really reserved when it comes to expressing their feelings—

What I meant when I said I don't like not knowing someone's intentions, is that I'm not sure if I'm just a fling or he's actually interested in something more serious. If it's just a fling, then I'm glad I haven't reciprocated.

Hi, the only way to you can answer this is to spend more time with him, knowing where he's coming from, where he's currently at, and then judge for yourself. You will know when it's just flirting and something serious in time.

But I'm really confused with the signals he gives me. Are libra guys usually really reserved when it comes to expressing their feelings—

Again, this is not black and white. I have dealt with Libra guys who are very reserved, mostly if they are unsure of something.
I have dealt with Libra guys who will not shut up about their feelings.
These expressions will depend on so many things like; have they been hurt in past, maturity level, the sign of the person they are chasing (sign compatibility can affect expressions of feelings), emotional balance of the environment they grew up in, balance of where they are professionally/academically, list goes on... this hold true for any sign I think.

The main thing is to listen to your intuition but try to back off on 'expectations' and do the maths on what he presents. Libras' expression is not the same as Geminis when it comes to emotions. Libra will generally do more balancing act, spend more thoughts on the expression before it is executed, hence the 'signals' he is giving off.

Chill on the second-guessing, expectations, etc, as Gemini and Libras are quite compatible so if all fails, you end up as good friends anyway with very little hard feelings I suppose.

Posted by zenalchemy
What I meant when I said I don't like not knowing someone's intentions, is that I'm not sure if I'm just a fling or he's actually interested in something more serious. If it's just a fling, then I'm glad I haven't reciprocated.

Hi, the only way to you can answer this is to spend more time with him, knowing where he's coming from, where he's currently at, and then judge for yourself. You will know when it's just flirting and something serious in time.

But I'm really confused with the signals he gives me. Are libra guys usually really reserved when it comes to expressing their feelings—

Again, this is not black and white. I have dealt with Libra guys who are very reserved, mostly if they are unsure of something.
I have dealt with Libra guys who will not shut up about their feelings.
These expressions will depend on so many things like; have they been hurt in past, maturity level, the sign of the person they are chasing (sign compatibility can affect expressions of feelings), emotional balance of the environment they grew up in, balance of where they are professionally/academically, list goes on... this hold true for any sign I think.

The main thing is to listen to your intuition but try to back off on 'expectations' and do the maths on what he presents. Libras' expression is not the same as Geminis when it comes to emotions. Libra will generally do more balancing act, spend more thoughts on the expression before it is executed, hence the 'signals' he is giving off.

Chill on the second-guessing, expectations, etc, as Gemini and Libras are quite compatible so if all fails, you end up as good friends anyway with very little hard feelings I suppose.

Thanks so much for the feedback. I really appreciate it. This is the only second Libra I've dealt with in my life, that's why I'm so confused. But based on what's happened within the last couple days with him, I know more or less now that it's not just a fling that he wants. I'm not sure where it will go from there. I like to be very careful about jumping into anything too quickly. Oh, one thing you were definitely right about was the fact that Libra's put more thought into expressing their feelings. I saw it first hand for myself. U were spot on!

Yay...glad my blabbing came in handy... just know a lot of libras and geminis so have some witness of their general relationship dynamics and woes.
But seriously, you geminis sure do talk though... sheeesh 😛

Can't deny that one! Lol one of our many charms 😉 it's bitter sweet I guess....