Libra Male Pride?

Libra Male Pride?

Hi,

Ok I have posted on here a few times, about my Libra ex that dumped me. Bit of a weird one this, basically a male friend of mine were on fb last night chatting, it all started over a comment on a photo, and he basically asked me what I was doing Valentines day and he was joking about us having an anti valentines night out, as we'd both recently split up with people. Didn't think anything of it then he started messaging me and asked me to go to this gig he's doing next week etc, sent the official event invite on fb, I said I was going if I could get a few friends to go. I have restricted my ex access to my fb profile so he couldn't see anything, thinking it was the best way and so as to not wind him up as well. My ex hardly ever posts anything on fb, although I know he does go on it. Silly me didn't realise my ex's friend was a mutual friend of this guy that asked me out tonight, I don't think they're good friends but even so he knows him. My ex today then goes on fb announcing to the world that he's coming out of the closet, and has realised thats why all his relationships failed etc, coz his heart wasn't in it. (trying to be funny) It felt like a bit of a sting in the tail, and how he's going on holiday to Thailand etc, anyway I knew i'd already sent him a valentines card a few days ago and couldn't retract it so I knew he would get it when he got home from work tonight, still hoping he would call but knowing full well he probably wouldn't. I also got flowers delivered today, it was a friend I have known for ages, absolutely beautiful, who has asked me to go out next week. I did post the picture on fb of the flowers, everyone has done it today so I just thought I would show mine off as well, I didn't comment or anything just put the photo as my cover photo that was all. Then he starts commenting how girls are only safe now etc. Just wondered by all this have I dented his pride a bit, I guess he assumed coz he dumped me that I would be the one sitting indoors whilst he would be off meeting new people etc. I am a bit gutted really but don't think there is anything I can do to change his mind, or is this him getting jealous? Any insight would be appreciated, like I said I did restrict him so he couldnt see anything I wrote, but I guess he hasn't done it to me. The Valentines card I sent him had all different pictures of fun times we had spent together. I also think his friend has told him about me being asked out tonight,I didnt go.

Oh no he wasn't my ex's friend, basically the guy that asked me out tonight is a mutual friend of one of my ex's friends, although I would say it is more because he does alot of gigging. Tbh it was flattering that he asked me so a bit of an ego boost after being dumped, but I know nothing would ever come of it, it would of just been a laugh as friends really I personally think, I know I do need to get out, but when me and this guy spoke earlier think we were both shattered so it wouldn't have made for the best night. I know I need to move on and it is hard, and as a Cancerian I do like to have someone to help me get over someone else, which I know is bad and I am kind of trying to avoid it at the moment, coz then you just end up in the rebound cycle. I also don't think I am 100% over it yet, so dont think I will be the best company, you are right about fb though, I just honestly didn't realise last night, and I do think my ex's friend is a bit of a gossip, so probably delighted in filling him in on this. I just feel like I have got myself in a deeper hole now, when all I really want is my ex, and he's probably thinking I don't give a toss now.