Libra man ALWAYS INTERRUPTS!!! ...purposely—

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tiltedmoonshadow
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DO LIBRAS NORMALLY INTERRUPT WHILE YOU'RE SPEAKING TO HIM OR DOES HE ONLY DO THAT WHEN HE SECRETLY RESENTS YOU—

I would literally be mid-sentence and he would just start speaking again!! So I've been doing the same to him now too! If you ever listen to our convo, its like a fake politeness. The content of the convo is normal, but there's like an urgency and someone always has to talk...even if it means talking over the other!! ?...IT USED TO BE: he'd be quiet and just let's me talk and talk and he seems to be listening intently, concentrating on my response. But then ever since we had a slight falling out (I offended him) but we are still in a professional setting, now when we talk to each other it is so annoying bc he canot or does not even control his interrupting anymore!!--or can he and he's just doing that on purpose?! Libras are supposed to be polite! Is he just being passive-aggressive? Ugh I hate the way he is now...it's like FAKE PLEASANTRY!!!!


HIS CHART:

Sun Libra 6.42 Ascendant Sagittarius 19.35
Moon Capricorn 23.03 II Capricorn 26.06
Mercury Libra 19.39 III Pisces 7.18
Venus Libra 16.23 IV Aries 12.44
Mars. Leo 3.19 V Taurus 9.31
Jupiter Virgo 0.13 VI Gemini 0.43
Saturn Virgo 19.44 VII Gemini 19.35
Uranus Scorpio 18.42 VIII Cancer 26.06
Neptune Sagittarius 17.59 IX Virgo 7.18
Pluto Libra 18.40 Midheaven Libra 12.44
Lilith. Virgo 9.11 XI Scorpio 9.31
Asc node Virgo 8.09 XII Sagittarius 0.43



MY CHART:

Sun Cancer 29.18 Ascendant Scorpio 6.05
Moon Virgo 22.20 II Sagittarius 5.34
Mercury Leo 23.56 III Capricorn 4.06
Venus Gemini 17.21 IV Aquarius 3.11
Mars Cancer 28.04 V Pisces 4.01
Jupiter Aquarius 13.44 R VI Aries 5.47
Saturn Scorpio 21.29 R VII Taurus 6.05
Uranus Sagittarius 14.22 R VIII Gemini 5.34
Neptune Capricorn 1.31 R IX Cancer 4.06
Pluto Scorpio 1.57 Midheaven Leo 3.11
Lilith Taurus 5.33 XI Virgo 4.01
Asc node Taurus 15.11 XII Libra 5.47



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You said he changed after your falling out and you offending him. He obviously isn't past this. He feels you have wronged him and he is showing no respect no more. Because no, that is not normal libra behavior, at least not for this libra. I only do that when I'm intentionally being a bitch to someone. If the source of this is something big and you were "at fault" then he isn't over it, if the source is petty then he is a whiney brat type and you're better off that he don't really want to talk anymore.
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Posted by Purr
In my experience, Libra Mercury people talk over just about everyone. I'm not always sure if they're doing it on purpose, or if they really just think that their opinions and/or stories are that riveting. It's very hard to get a word in with these people. They don't really listen; they wait to talk.



Yes, Purr...I have to note that this has been going on even before I offended him. I guess it just annoys me so much more now. So that's the planet causing that?? Ugh I hate it his self-righteous speeches. I just talk over him too now.

And yeah if he's still pissed, good. I don't care.
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tiltedmoonshadow
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Posted by Theultra79
Ummm...yea. Pretty much what librasid said. If someone is rude to me or offends me, I don't feel the need to be polite to them anymore. If theyre talking, and im done listening, i'll cut them off no problem.

I personally don't think it's a planetary thing. I'm genuinely interested in what people have to say. I listen to them and encourage them to talk. I only interrupt someone if I'm purposefully being an azz to them.

You said it's a professional setting so I guess you have to talk to him for work. I'm sure that if you address this issue with him, it'll go away.




The man is so shady. I was UNKNOWINGLY being flirty with a married man. Even when I finally heard from him what his status is, he just says that he's not single. I had to do some online creeping to realize he is actually MARRIED! ...does not wear a ring, no mention of her, no photos of them. Ugh! I bet he just flirts with everyone and takes in all the attention he gets to feed his ego. He is so full of himself and a shady s o b. I have no regrets for the curveball I threw at him ON PURPOSE and I told him that too. I said I was sorry but I don't regret it bc I never do anything unless there was a purpose. He thinks its so that I could find out his rel status, but truth be told, I just started acting OPPOSITE of everything he thought I was and any qualities of mine that drew him to me. ....I took what he knew of me and turned it all around. He was so confused in the end, like who am I really and couldn't understand how his impression of me turned out to be wrong...aka...how HE could possible be WRONG. hahahahaha ...if people can use astrology to find out how to attract someone, I sure as hell used it this time to burn a bridge to hell. No regrets.
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I do it a lot and my merc is in Scorp... My bf says it's when I have had the pill...there are times when I talk a hundred miles to the hour 🙂

I spend a good deal of my time in my own presence so when I get out and about I talk to anyone and everyone from the rubbish man to the store man 😛

I'm aware of it and so if it's a delicate situation I can pull myself back...sometimes after I have interrupted or when in a business meeting I'm more mindful but around friends they just know to talk back louder!
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I (Libra) used to always interrupt my Cancer friend I was dating because he

a) Lectured when he talked. He just kept talking and talking and talking and I'm like, "Are you serious"?

b) He never looked for feedback from me while he was talking, like a bunch of being "talked at" versus "talked to" and as a Libra my one pet peeve is an insult to my intelligence and a Cancer just doesn't check in enough for my taste...

Just my opinion and just what happened with me. We just view communication differently.

Mocha
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow



The man is so shady. I was UNKNOWINGLY being flirty with a married man. Even when I finally heard from him what his status is, he just says that he's not single. I had to do some online creeping to realize he is actually MARRIED! ...does not wear a ring, no mention of her, no photos of them. Ugh! I bet he just flirts with everyone and takes in all the attention he gets to feed his ego. He is so full of himself and a shady s o b. I have no regrets for the curveball I threw at him ON PURPOSE and I told him that too. I said I was sorry but I don't regret it bc I never do anything unless there was a purpose. He thinks its so that I could find out his rel status, but truth be told, I just started acting OPPOSITE of everything he thought I was and any qualities of mine that drew him to me. ....I took what he knew of me and turned it all around. He was so confused in the end, like who am I really and couldn't understand how his impression of me turned out to be wrong...aka...how HE could possible be WRONG. hahahahaha ...if people can use astrology to find out how to attract someone, I sure as hell used it this time to burn a bridge to hell. No regrets.



... and that's why you're gonna end up sleeping with him
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I am SO ABOVE sleeping with married men. Let alone married men who doesn't even say they are married. I don't care how hot he is, my morals made sure it killed my mojo. It was like a switch literally shut off inside of me..well heart-wise, but not completely the one down south...but STILL, the fact is he disappointed me and I don't forgive and forget easily. He doesn't deserve my cat. I only give it up in long-term partnerships that actually has strong potentials. I see no future in married men, thus I'd rather be sexually frustrated than allow him such a privilege. Yeah I said it.
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He's nervous because you offended him, you hurt him. You are cancer... i take it you tend to be emotional, moody and fall hard? It's hard for us libras to deal with and we find it unpredictable, but in regards to the lovely dovey part, we dig that in cancer for sureeee. So, hes nervous that if he lets u talk, you're going to f*ck it up again, and then he'll hate you. he doesnt wanna hate you. also, we libras are super talkative. i try to be the quiet listener... but really i have thousands of opinions running through my mind as the person is speaking and i want to add my 2 cents to everything. hope this helps
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Posted by LexieLibraLady
He's nervous because you offended him, you hurt him. You are cancer... i take it you tend to be emotional, moody and fall hard? It's hard for us libras to deal with and we find it unpredictable, but in regards to the lovely dovey part, we dig that in cancer for sureeee. So, hes nervous that if he lets u talk, you're going to f*ck it up again, and then he'll hate you. he doesnt wanna hate you. also, we libras are super talkative. i try to be the quiet listener... but really i have thousands of opinions running through my mind as the person is speaking and i want to add my 2 cents to everything. hope this helps




Check, check, and check! You are correct- I am all three. While he would prefer not to have a reason to hate me, I too feel the same way. However, in order for me to keep doing a good job within the walls of that establishment, I must find a way to distance myself from him eventhough I am incapable of doing so bc he is so charming and irresistible and our rapport remains predominantly pleasant despite what my attempt to burn bridge. I can see the uncertainty and confusion in his face and that tug-of-war in his mind when it comes to dealing with me. We're both just going back and forth on the mixed-signals and emotional dishonesty. It really sucks actually. I want to tell him the truth, my intention that entire time and that I had only done it with good reason. But then I remember that he's f-ing married anyways so who cares if I should try to bridge that gap. Besides, the way I see it, as long as there's a reason for him to remain uncertain about me, the greater the distance there will be between us, thus the more I am buffered by this shit interaction between us and I don't end expressing my "lovey-dovey" emotions to him--bc, hello? that's what his WIFE is for. Why would I give him that satisfaction. ::shrug::