OMG This Man Is Crazy!!! Help Me!

Sooooooo, long story short met this libra guy almost 2 years ago on a cruise. We start dating after we both got out of a long term relationship. Things get super hot!!! He says everything under the sun, how he's falling madly in love with me. How I'm different, How beautiful I am...etc, etc. Completely falling for it, who doesn't love to be wined and dined by a libra man? Then poof he's gone! There was a little misunderstanding between us but after that poof! Ok...... He comes back three months later. After a night of wining and dining, and courting and compliments we do the deed once again. -_____- Poof! Gone again.

WTH—? I was so pissed. Same old, I'm busy trick. Don't have time blah, blah, blah. Sorry, last time I checked people made time for the things they wanted. A year passes I hit him up randomly, just to see what's up. Silence.

Now, after all this time he sends this email saying, "Hope you're doing well, things have been so BUSY, sorry about everything. The past is in the past, How are you?"

Starts texting me "Goodmorning" and stuff asking how I'm doing.

Ok call me a paranoid Capricorn, but I think a year is long enough for someone to be in a relationship and get out of it. That would explain the silence. So that would make me an option, a rebound?

I'd have to be really stupid to trust him again, but I'd like to get everyone's opinion. Just in case. Libra Guy is really sexy and makes for a great date 😉

Ignore the bastard.

Love, LS67

hahah OK. Tough love much? lol In my defense, I've only been treated as a booty call once by him. But once is more than enough, I suppose. I'll take you guys advice on ignoring him lol thanks for the feedback.

These type of guys are too "busy" for you, but they sure can find time to do everything else in the world. NOT a coincidence... Especially when they drop in at THEIR convenience. Guys who flit in and out of your life like that are usually only after one thing, even more so when it's worked in the past.

Ditch the asshole.

Libra guy is really sexy— If that's all you want then go for it. But he won't stay for long just so you know. Are you okay with that fact?

"Sorry, last time I checked people made time for the things they wanted"

This is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! Listen to yourself. The first thought is usually the correct one. EVERYONE, not just men but everyone will make time for the things they want. I work full-time and go to school plus church dance rehersal, when im honest I really don't have time to study but I want that pharmacist degree so I MAKE TIME FOR IT! Most people may say thats different, but it's not, if you want something bad enough and you want it for keeps, you will always make time for it. Period. No if, ands, or buts about it.

"Libra Guy is really sexy and makes for a great date "

Cool. Then keep him STRICTLY for dates. As far as im concerned he's only been using you for a good time, you might as well do the same. Let him spend his money wining and dining you, When YOU have TIME for HIS AZZ. Not the other way around. Make him wonder where your at, I would dissapear. MIRROR HIM. And whatever you do, DO NOT I repeat DO NOT give up the cookies. EVER. Or you will be back on here posting another thread. He blew that cake when he deserted it a year ago as far as im concered. NEXT!

"If it's important, you'll find a way. If it isn't, you'll find an excuse."

Omg thanks everyone, 🙂 God, I hate being in my early 20's. All the men suck! lmao