Why do Libra men go poof?

When out with a Libra guy for a few months. Everything when well, we when out and had a blast than he disappears.

Why do Libra men go poof?
If there has been a Libra guy who done the poof thing? Explain why you did it?
Is it because your wishy washy or just got bored?

Not much here to go off of.

If he went poof, things weren't going as good in his eyes as they were in yours. If he believed everything was going wonderfully he wouldn't go poof.

All it really means if that he isn't mature enough to be honest and just say it isnt what he was looking for. Just be glad you only had a few months in it.

Or at least held a lighter to it...

Oh goodness, not another one. Smh. Girl, if he did this then LibraSid is right, he did not enjoy that date, either that or he has someone.

From what I can tell, it's the "he's just not that into you" thing. And frankly, if someone is going to bounce like that, without any explanation as to why, and then come back later (as we Librans tend to do), they don't deserve my time.

As a Libra/Scorpio female, if I decide to end it with someone I care about, I make my reasons clearly known. In fact, I usually go into full Libra Lecture mode and probably go overboard as to why I am checking out. I will come back for several reasons, none of them good. Either my ego needs a lift, or I can't believe that the one that I loved still hasn't come after me (same thing?), or I am still hurt and looking to get one more dig in by screwing with his head.

If it is someone I don't feel committed to or interested in, I disappear and next time you see me it will be as if the relationship/interlude never happened. If you did me wrong, I will take my time and quietly trip you up when you least expect it, and you will never know it was me (I think that may be the Scorpio/Scorpio Moon part of me, though).

Spare yourself the heartache, and keep your dignity in tact. The rejection is tough, but as we have read here on the boards, never chase someone who doesn't want to be caught. If/when he comes back around, IGNORE him. Move on.

Love, LS67

Posted by QLIbraMale
What did you do? Most Libra's Love to be Entertained. and if things get too boring, tend to bounce elsewhere without informing our partner, hoping they get the clue. 😛

How cowardly.

God, I hope so EEE. He was certainly fabulous enough to be one of ours.

Posted by LibraSid
Not much here to go off of.

If he went poof, things weren't going as good in his eyes as they were in yours. If he believed everything was going wonderfully he wouldn't go poof.

All it really means if that he isn't mature enough to be honest and just say it isnt what he was looking for. Just be glad you only had a few months in it.

Very true I did enjoy myself for those months and I have moved on. Currently focusing on my studies! =)

So why go poof and then come back, mine just did, i'm curious as to why you decide you don't want to be with someone and then try to re-enter their lives, for me as a Leo if its over its over, so why try to be anything less than what you were in the first place.

^ usually selfish reasons or they're in need of an ego boost.

Because Leo decided to encroach and Libra, being drained of gifts, disappeared because they were running on empty...

Good thing about disappearance is that they don't try to control someone - they control their actions. Dominating signs like to fit others in their box and have them do what they want.

Also note you're a double Leo. You may not feel it but Libra probably feels you too demanding emotionally and materially. Also Leos esp young ones are hurtful and self serving. A libra will note how much of you they can stomach and if it's worth it to come back.

Posted by spica
Because Leo decided to encroach and Libra, being drained of gifts, disappeared because they were running on empty...

Good thing about disappearance is that they don't try to control someone - they control their actions. Dominating signs like to fit others in their box and have them do what they want.

Also note you're a double Leo. You may not feel it but Libra probably feels you too demanding emotionally and materially. Also Leos esp young ones are hurtful and self serving. A libra will note how much of you they can stomach and if it's worth it to come back.

Interesting, but their was no encroaching from either end, it was a very easy simple relationship but I do know why he disappeared, and he has since come back acknowledging his error and looking to reclaim - I like him very much as a person, we had great intellectual connection, but no going back for me, of which he is well aware now.

I'm not a double leo though, unless you mean i have leo in venus also? does that make me a double leo, I thought it was sun/moon doubles the whole trouble 🙂

Posted by QLIbraMale
What did you do? Most Libra's Love to be Entertained. and if things get too boring...

Well la-dee-daa. What makes him think he's so damn entertaining? Only boring peple get bored... so don't blame the other person! lol

Perhaps sometimes a Libra will come back if s/he is second-guessing his or her initial decision to disappear. We always try to put ourselves in the other person's shoes, and this can result in rethinking out reasons for cutting things off. But more often than not, we find that either our initial decision was the right one, or the person we hurt has decided we can take our magnanimous "second chance offer" and blow it out our +*!& $ . I've discovered that reappearing is usually not a good idea -- I know how I would interpret it, and it wouldn't be well.

Love, LS67

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by spica
Because Leo decided to encroach and Libra, being drained of gifts, disappeared because they were running on empty...

Good thing about disappearance is that they don't try to control someone - they control their actions. Dominating signs like to fit others in their box and have them do what they want.

Also note you're a double Leo. You may not feel it but Libra probably feels you too demanding emotionally and materially. Also Leos esp young ones are hurtful and self serving. A libra will note how much of you they can stomach and if it's worth it to come back.

Interesting, but their was no encroaching from either end, it was a very easy simple relationship but I do know why he disappeared, and he has since come back acknowledging his error and looking to reclaim - I like him very much as a person, we had great intellectual connection, but no going back for me, of which he is well aware now.

I'm not a double leo though, unless you mean i have leo in venus also? does that make me a double leo, I thought it was sun/moon doubles the whole trouble 🙂

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It was semi-directed at the OP who has a Leo sun/moon.. mostly it's my own thoughts not directed at anyone in particular.
With regards to your Libra date, I remember you mentioned him being all air. You will definitely be disappointed by his disappearance, but this is really what air tends to do.. they need to go somewhere and think and be by themselves for a bit.

I don't think a Leo would be fulfilled by a Libra tbh unless they are seeking emotional reassurance from nowhere but themselves.

Libra is a very sentimental sign.. they disappear for years, but always come back. It's your call whether to let them go, in any case they will respect your decision.

Posted by spica

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by spica
Because Leo decided to encroach and Libra, being drained of gifts, disappeared because they were running on empty...

Good thing about disappearance is that they don't try to control someone - they control their actions. Dominating signs like to fit others in their box and have them do what they want.

Also note you're a double Leo. You may not feel it but Libra probably feels you too demanding emotionally and materially. Also Leos esp young ones are hurtful and self serving. A libra will note how much of you they can stomach and if it's worth it to come back.

Interesting, but their was no encroaching from either end, it was a very easy simple relationship but I do know why he disappeared, and he has since come back acknowledging his error and looking to reclaim - I like him very much as a person, we had great intellectual connection, but no going back for me, of which he is well aware now.

I'm not a double leo though, unless you mean i have leo in venus also? does that make me a double leo, I thought it was sun/moon doubles the whole trouble 🙂

It was semi-directed at the OP who has a Leo sun/moon.. mostly it's my own thoughts not directed at anyone in particular.
With regards to your Libra date, I remember you mentioned him being all air. You will definitely be disappointed by his disappearance, but this is really what air tends to do.. they need to go somewhere and think and be by themselves for a bit.

I don't think a Leo would be fulfilled by a Libra tbh unless they are seeking emotional reassurance from nowhere but themselves.

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Lol, funny hours later while I'm sitting in hospital this just popped into my head and I realised the double leo was the original poster. Sorry! yes your right, he is all air, Libra everywhere 🙂 I agree, although the intellectual connection was very strong I think in the long run he wouldn't have been enough for me.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Hey, wasn't liberace a libra?

Lierace I believe is a TAURUS.