misssusie
@misssusie
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Posted by misssusie
I am a Gemini woman whom was in an on/off relationship with a libra man for 4 years.
We had a naturally easy going relationship, a lot of romance, chemistry and what felt like a real connection.
He ended the relationship a year ago after a huge argument we had on the phone as I didn't want to be on and off, I told him I couldn't do it anymore and it was really unfair.
I felt bad and regretted it and tried to fix things but he refused, told me I had been disrespectful to another level and that he was done with me completely.
I left him alone but was really heart broken and emailed a couple of times, got no reply.
I used to write and post stuff on social media (I'm not an a frequent poster) and almost the same day/next day he would do the same.
Two weeks ago I messaged him on LinkedIn asking him why he won't reply/behaves like he doesn't care etc and I got a very cold generic response telling me to never contact him again, I read it and thought ok what more can I do, so left it.
I went on my LinkedIn account two days later and saw he had looked at my profile and now changed his photo which he has had for the last three years.
I can't help but wonder he wants me to approach him with the right words but at the same time I wonder if I'm being deluded... I want to be with him as I still love him very deeply but I don't really understand his behaviour, I mean really and truly he could just block me and stuff... Any libra's understand this behaviour?

Posted by breterpan
not a Libra but it sounds like he wasn't interested in something more serious and once you expressed wanting to take another step, he knew he either had to end it or continue to argue about it

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We had a naturally easy going relationship, a lot of romance, chemistry and what felt like a real connection.
He ended the relationship a year ago after a huge argument we had on the phone as I didn't want to be on and off, I told him I couldn't do it anymore and it was really unfair.
I felt bad and regretted it and tried to fix things but he refused, told me I had been disrespectful to another level and that he was done with me completely.
I left him alone but was really heart broken and emailed a couple of times, got no reply.
I used to write and post stuff on social media (I'm not an a frequent poster) and almost the same day/next day he would do the same.
Two weeks ago I messaged him on LinkedIn asking him why he won't reply/behaves like he doesn't care etc and I got a very cold generic response telling me to never contact him again, I read it and thought ok what more can I do, so left it.
I went on my LinkedIn account two days later and saw he had looked at my profile and now changed his photo which he has had for the last three years.
I can't help but wonder he wants me to approach him with the right words but at the same time I wonder if I'm being deluded... I want to be with him as I still love him very deeply but I don't really understand his behaviour, I mean really and truly he could just block me and stuff... Any libra's understand this behaviour?