Libra Man Friend Falling For Me...

I am an Aquarius female and I have a really great work buddy and he is a Libra. At first I thought he was gay, so I started talking with him and immediately we became best friends. He makes me crack up every time we are together. He gets me even when I think he doesn't and he is so sweet. Turns out he's not gay and I believe he's developing a crush and I am not physically attracted to him. I already told him he's just a good friend. I don't want to keep hurting his feelings... any advice??

Posted by kmoshie
I am an Aquarius female and I have a really great work buddy and he is a Libra. At first I thought he was gay, so I started talking with him and immediately we became best friends. He makes me crack up every time we are together. He gets me even when I think he doesn't and he is so sweet. Turns out he's not gay and I believe he's developing a crush and I am not physically attracted to him. I already told him he's just a good friend. I don't want to keep hurting his feelings... any advice??

stay friends, you won't hurt his feelings

Posted by aquarius_beauty
As tcta said just keep it as friends. They're ok with that, but if they feel like you lead them on they will pull back and cut you out. I've had a Libra male do this to me, but I wasn't trying to lead him on, he had a girlfriend and I wasn't about to get caught up in that.

I'm not trying to lead him on at all. That's why I'm worried he's picking up on something that I'm not intending to put off.

Posted by brandyp
Just start talking to him about other guys, he'll get the picture.

Yes do that for sure. Libras will usually pick up on your clues so pass pass pass them...

Although we are sensitive, we really want the truth. If all else fails, telling him bluntly is acceptable too. He'll admire you for it. But be sure to try to stay friends with him if you do because he would hate to think that you're just rejecting him completely.

What are the signs that he's developing a crush? Give us examples.

Posted by LadyNeptune
What are the signs that he's developing a crush? Give us examples.

Well, we are constantly around each other at work laughing and telling stories. He has sent subtle texts like "you're welcome to test my goods any time ?" (this was from a joke we jad came up with earlier that day. I told him he should be a prostitute to earn some extra cash. And I would be his pimp) and my stupid drunk friend told him I should marry him and we should be together and he brought it up the other day in a very serious tone. I told him "we are just friends..." and he seemed pretty sad about it. He got awfully quiet and it got a little awkward

Posted by kmoshie

Posted by LadyNeptune
What are the signs that he's developing a crush? Give us examples.

Well, we are constantly around each other at work laughing and telling stories. He has sent subtle texts like "you're welcome to test my goods any time ?" (this was from a joke we jad came up with earlier that day. I told him he should be a prostitute to earn some extra cash. And I would be his pimp) and my stupid drunk friend told him I should marry him and we should be together and he brought it up the other day in a very serious tone. I told him "we are just friends..." and he seemed pretty sad about it. He got awfully quiet and it got a little awkward

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Yeah he got awkward cause you got serious over a subject you were BOTH joking about. Lol you made it awkward. Don't read into things and don't let your jokes go into sexual territory. Keep things pg.