Libra men and aquarius women!

Hello everyone! I was reading everyone's comments about us Libra males and aquarius females. I recently have met a Agua women and we have been talking for a few months and she recently has detached herself and contact has been less frequent. Which after that I began to read about our compatibility.

Now to talk on a intellectual level here! I believe when we begin to understand ourselves through life experiences and when we libras learn from past relationships gone array we begin to adjust ourselves to make us better then what we were yesterday. I do agree some aspects of libra are true and some maybe I just evolved into something better then what some traits have stated about us libras.

Allow me to explain!

I love to communicate and gain a better understanding of what some issues are. I listen intently a I remember everything people say. I am driven by emotion in some aspects of life. My job is a big indication of my emotion driven self and I am very good at my job.

Relationships I rather go on individuals moral fiber then anything else. I will have intellectual thoughts with logical reasoning. I give freedom to have anyone I am with to make their own choices and I certainly don't need constant approval that my partner loves me. What I look for is loyalty and honesty! See we libras see both sides of a coin so to say we don't understand is untrue! I am a free spirit with great loyalty to whoever is in my small circle or whoever I allow in my personal bubble. I am able to see things for what they are and you're going to do whatever you're going to do no matter what others say.

So back to the topic at hand!

I have been talking to an Aquarius women and things have seemed to be going well until one day she disappeared. Now I would like some in site from some of you aquarius women. The moment we met we hit it off fantastically we had amazing conversation and told each other about some hurtful points in our past. We related of each other's issues very well. On more then one occasion she has told me she loved me! She has also said that her feelings for me were strong and with the same breath they scared her. In our short time together I have the keen ability to read people and I was able to read things about her which not only impressed her but it also made her feel vulnerable. So I guess my question is that if aquarius like a challenge and attraction in intellectual conversations and a logical and rational debate if you will. Why detach and disappear! I understand you aquarius think of the don't give a shit attitude and " Oh well their loss" but what isn't logical is the fact that if you aquarius women love humanity and love animals and watch as to how people treat others and how people will lie to you and if they lie it's over and your trust is gone. Plus you're rebellious to the fact that your life is your life and no one will ever tell you differently. Then explain to me if aquarius aren't powered by emotion and then why do you get angry bcuz the last I checked being angry is an emotion? You say that you detach yourself bcuz aquarians need think of the situation you feel inside yourself. If you know that someone genuinely wants to be your friend and be there for you and you accept it then all of a sudden detach yourself and then give excuses of why you're detached and I believe a women commented saying that bcuz aquarius women don't want to hurt people's feelings. Don't you think it hurts people when you claim to be honest and never lie...but when asked about why? you ignore and give excuses on why instead of being honest. So when intellectually pushed and logical conversation presents itself you have no response to us as why...but you aquarius claim you're stimulated by intellectual conversations so isn't it hypocritical then at that point if a logical and legitimate questions is asked and instead of being honest you detach yourself to avoid conflict but if you actually stop to think if aquarius is powered by intellectual people and conversation is a challenge then there wouldn't be conflict. I know long and drawn out But I was actually asking a legitimate questions or rather questions as to a better understanding and a better point of view from you aquarians.

"On more then one occasion she has told me she loved me! She has also said that her feelings for me were strong and with the same breath they scared her. In our short time together I have the keen ability to read people and I was able to read things about her which not only impressed her but it also made her feel vulnerable."

The answer you're looking for is within the above three sentences. How did you respond when she told you how she feels?

Aquas (in general) are not "powered by intellectual people and conversations". You make it sound like we need a boost (a jumpstart) from others in order to be who we are. ?

Anyhow, maybe she's just feeling like things are moving too fast and she is trying to slow things down a bit.

You are basing a large number of your assumptions from just the sun signs of two people. That's like basing the success of a football team exclusively on the quarterback.

There are so many variables in astrology like football. There is the rising sing, Mars sign, venus sign, Mercury. Then there are aspects, oppositions and a whole bunch of shit. Although the quarterback is essential, if he has a crappy coach, and a weak defense, no matter how talented the quarterback, other elements effect his overall effectiveness.

It's the same in astrology; There is the rising sign, mars sign, venus sign, Mercury aspects and degrees and oppositions and a whole bunch of shit. Together the coach, the quarterback, the players, the plays the defense, the offense the support make a team great. Same in astrology.

I am a Libra woman who dated an Aquarius man whose Venus was in Aries, my Venus is in Libra. Opposition. All we did was fight. etc.

She will return for the hope of being friends, but to put it frank it sounds like she lost interest. Most adults know the consequences of backing up and disappearing. It means you could lose the person forever; you are giving them space to find someone else who could snatch him/her up. And the person is demonstrating a lack of concern so blatant, her behavior said all there is to say.

She' s not interested in moving forward romantically AT ALL! And it's okay, but this is a wrap honey. However more than likely she will return to seek a friendship. If you balk she will dismiss you and move on.

She wasn't where you are with feelings. And it's okay.

Libra Sun,

Aquarius Moon

Libra Venus

Aquarius Mercury

If she has distanced herself, she is done.

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you sound very upset about her actions. What was the last thing she said before she disappeared? Were you very clingy with her? Maybe she just needed space to catch her thoughts. Before assuming things, give her time to find you on her own then try to discuss this with her.

When a woman disappears from the picture, just give her time and space .

After a couple days it allows the person to think & miss the person, usually allowing them to come back.

I can not agree more with the original poster. I share so many similar things in my case. I also read all posts again and again and sadly understand that my love just left me, logically and as per your analysis.

We are together for a year. We spent the best weekend together 2 weeks ago. Last convo was Sat early morning. Then she did not return phone call and text! If you are interested in my story, I posted it in Libra forum yesterday. Please mankind pls help me.

I am so sad. But I think it is after all nothing to do with the sign! It is about the personality of each individual. Perhaps I did not fully understand my Aquarius. Perhaps I did not love her that much as she expected! Perhaps I did not nurture our love as it is supposed to be. Perhaps I am too naive to think pure and innocent love is enough to start a life together! Perhaps she felt I want committment so much while she wasnt ready!

I have to blame myself then.

But hang on, can I fight to find out why and win her back? There must be a chance right? Even it's just a slight chance but we men should give it a try right?

How often in a lifetime can you find such a strong and magic love like mine? Please dont question my love! Do give me your advice. I treasure all from you!

Thank you again

My story https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/desperate-libra-man-seeks-help-on-a-relationship-with-an-aquarius-woman-7123699/

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
If she has distanced herself, she is done.

On what ground do you think so? Thanks a lot

Posted by Librawoman77
She will return for the hope of being friends, but to put it frank it sounds like she lost interest. Most adults know the consequences of backing up and disappearing. It means you could lose the person forever; you are giving them space to find someone else who could snatch him/her up. And the person is demonstrating a lack of concern so blatant, her behavior said all there is to say.

She' s not interested in moving forward romantically AT ALL! And it's okay, but this is a wrap honey. However more than likely she will return to seek a friendship. If you balk she will dismiss you and move on.

She wasn't where you are with feelings. And it's okay.

Libra Sun,

Aquarius Moon

Libra Venus

Aquarius Mercury

Can you explain this:

"Libra Sun,

Aquarius Moon

Libra Venus

Aquarius Mercury"

Thank you

So sad

Hi SaintsDetriot,

Wonder how you and your Aqua are getting on recently? I have very similar situation like you guys. And I am not in good term I must confess.

Thanks