Is it true that Libras stay in a relationship even if they don’t love their partners anymore?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Rainbow87 on Tuesday, February 16, 2021 and has 34 replies.

Do Libras Stay in Relationships Without Loving Their Partners

Libras tend to stay in relationships for comfort and harmony, even if they are no longer in love. They avoid confrontation and seek balance, which may lead them to remain until they are ready to leave or find a better match. Every individual relationship varies, and personal circumstances influence their decisions.

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@Rainbow87
7 Years

Hi

So I’ve read that Libras stay in a relationship to be comfortable even though they don’t love their partners. Is this true?

So does that mean that they will eventually leave once they find someone more interesting and stay so they are not alone or get out of their comfort zone??

My Libra man doesn’t leave me EVER, even if he acts like he hates me. He has told me I’m cold, selfish, stupid and whatnot. Yet, he hasn’t officially end things. Will this relationship never end unless I break it?

Why do Libras stay if they don’t even like you?

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

As a Libra I would not stay with anyone who called me selfish, stupid and other names. To answer your question it's a good possibility that he will leave you when he finds someone more giving, smarter and etcetera.

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by bmoon8

Posted by Rainbow87

Hi

So I’ve read that Libras stay in a relationship to be comfortable even though they don’t love their partners. Is this true?

So does that mean that they will eventually leave once they find someone more interesting and stay so they are not alone or get out of their comfort zone??

My Libra man doesn’t leave me EVER, even if he acts like he hates me. He has told me I’m cold, selfish, stupid and whatnot. Yet, he hasn’t officially end things. Will this relationship never end unless I break it?

Why do Libras stay if they don’t even like you?

It’s true for the Libra man. You will have to leave him to get away from him and change your number, move to address unknown by him, etc.

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Ah, c'mon; Libra men only do that for Libra women and Aries women. As an Aries you will have to literally scrape him off the bottom of your shoe.

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@black773
7 Years1,000+ Posts

If you are the one being mistreated, why aren’t you leaving? What is stopping you?

What is your end goal here? Are you trying to convince yourself that an abuser should decide to leave first? That is not how any of this works. You should be the one to leave someone who you allege has called you stupid and acts like he hates you.

I don’t know any abusive relationship where the abuser left first, willingly. Use your common sense.

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@FadedAri
5 Years

I would definitely leave the ship. He’s trying to passively get you to leave and for him to be perceived as the victim. He’s definitely immature but I question why would you tolerate the ship when you to can just be fwb

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@Lostthoughts
6 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Rainbow87

Hi

So I’ve read that Libras stay in a relationship to be comfortable even though they don’t love their partners. Is this true?

So does that mean that they will eventually leave once they find someone more interesting and stay so they are not alone or get out of their comfort zone??

My Libra man doesn’t leave me EVER, even if he acts like he hates me. He has told me I’m cold, selfish, stupid and whatnot. Yet, he hasn’t officially end things. Will this relationship never end unless I break it?

Why do Libras stay if they don’t even like you?

The Libra archetype has a disposition for codependency. Another words more likely.

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@Rainbow87
7 Years

It’s been hard for me to leave because he was really different in the beginning. Very charming and romantic. I’ve never met a guy like that before. But he changes personalities sometimes and I think he might be bipolar but I’m not sure. I do love him but his mood changes exhaust me sometimes

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@Pesto101
6 Years

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

IDK about every Libra man.

But I do know my brother has been through hell and back with his ex and still clung on. It took a court ordered restraining order (long story) to separate them for good. Or at least till 2024.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Rainbow87

It’s been hard for me to leave because he was really different in the beginning. Very charming and romantic. I’ve never met a guy like that before. But he changes personalities sometimes and I think he might be bipolar but I’m not sure. I do love him but his mood changes exhaust me sometimes

Is this change in behavior aligning with the global pandemic? Not an excuse for his assholery, but lots of people stressed, depressed, and trapped at home with their SO and lashing out due to a situation they would otherwise not be in. I'd say if that's the case try to establish alone time so you can get a break from each other, and ride it out till more normal times when you can actually leave the house and not be around each other 24/7.

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Many people stay in unhappy relationships for so many reasons.

Having said that, Libras don’t know how to be single, so he’ll stick around until he secures another person. Again, a lot of co-dependent signs do this crap.

I bet you as a Cancer are stuck in the past and see him for what he was before. People change and outgrow each other all the time. If he’s no longer the person he used to be or you’re not the person you used to be, which is causing him to lash out, it’s time to pull the plug.

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@Libra4rmTX
5 Years500+ Posts

Maybe some do but not me. I have no problem ending relationships. I have felt bad and I try to keep it civil and some what sympathetic. And Ive had some bad ones. But Ill never stay with a woman I dont love. Id rather let her go and hurt her feelings than to lead her on and break her heart

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune

IDK about every Libra man.

But I do know my brother has been through hell and back with his ex and still clung on. It took a court ordered restraining order (long story) to separate them for good. Or at least till 2024.

What sun sign is your brother's partner?

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@-LibraBaddie
9 Years

lmao nah somebody lied to you. if im not feelin u anymore im not comfortable

might b more libra guy thing. guys are more needy period esp when it comes to letting go

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@libraaaaqueen
5 Years

Libras will stay for either 2 reasons:

1. They really love you and want to do everything to make it work (which yes can be unhealthy if it's a toxic situation)

or

2. They're having an inner debate on if they want to break up and when/where/how they want to do it IF they do. And usually when this mental process happens they have already checked out.

Regardless, when a Libra stops feeling you they go cold and dip eventually.

P.S. This sounds more like something you need to communicate with them about (or just dump them) than an astrology issue though.

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@Moloko_vellocet
5 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

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Are you a Libra, Moloko?

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@Moloko_vellocet
5 Years500+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

Are you a Libra, Moloko?

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Virgo.

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

Are you a Libra, Moloko?

Virgo.

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Okay, thanks.

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@Moloko_vellocet
5 Years500+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

Are you a Libra, Moloko?

Virgo.

Okay, thanks.

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Why you being nosy?

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

Are you a Libra, Moloko?

Virgo.

Okay, thanks.

Why you being nosy?

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cuz that's what women do lol cuz she can 🤗

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

Are you a Libra, Moloko?

Virgo.

Okay, thanks.

Why you being nosy?

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I’m just very interested in astrology, in general

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Posted by Pesto101

Judging from previous threads here maybe you, OP, are also bp.

Libra sounds like he has one foot out the door. Air sign love is hard to maintain for a water sign. Go find a compatible passive man.

Libras check out emotionally as soon as they cuss at their SO. It's over.

Wow, an internet psychiatrist.

Never thought I’d see an actual diagnosis via Dxp, but anything is possible here.

Are you a Libra, Moloko?

Virgo.

Okay, thanks.

Why you being nosy?

cuz that's what women do lol cuz she can 🤗

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.....and some men 😀

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@Libra4rmTX
5 Years500+ Posts

I did this twice. Both were out of guilt and Inemded the first one respectfully. She took it extremely hard tho. I tried and wqs faithful. Was never mean or disrespectful. It just wasnt there.

2nd one was toxic af. We just kept cheating on each other and it was pointless. Stayed outta revenge. And we had the same apartment. Smh. To this day she still tries to get back at me.

My 3rd examole, I was on the other side. My sons mom is a libra. Looking back on everything, she never loved me. She tried at first mainly because of me taking care of her oldest child. But it was mever there. And then she got extremely disrespectful. But I packed my shit and left and we agreed to co parent. Still deal with her jabs and nasty attitude but I got my pride and joy in my son so fuck her lol