Libra Men Choosing Assertive Women...

I find this to be a bit of a pattern. Does anyone else seem to notice Libra men with somewhat assertive women?

If this is true -

- What about that aspect makes it appealing to you?
- In these relationships do you find yourself to be a bit on the submissive side - or are you attracted to the challenge of someone standing up / willing to speak out?

If this isn't true -
- What is unappealing?

Haha @ Kingoflibras

You're funny. How about you get yourself a self-sufficient woman rather than settle for pansies and complain? Just a thought. 😉

Posted by KingofLibras
That depends. If she is assertive in a cuddly way, thats great. Like if she snuggles up to you and stuff, but if she starts to boss you around and tells you what to do.. gtfo. I would prefer a girl who was autonomous enough that I did not have to tell her what to do on a daily basis, but really, is that even possible?

Let the man bashing commence 😄

Assertive cuddliness hmm? Kinda like 'c'mere b# $ @, give me a hug!' LOL no im jk.

I should have been a bit more clearer when I used te word "Assertive". I meant assertive in the way that you handle issues such as work, a clean household, handles business, etc. Pretty much the opposite of the 'damsel in distress' (you know, the ones that Leo's go for)

Posted by Lady Aries
Haha @ Kingoflibras

You're funny. How about you get yourself a self-sufficient woman rather than settle for pansies and complain? Just a thought. 😉

The funny thing is - Libra men are definitely intrigued by the innocent sort of 'girl-next-door' types. As typically boring as those women can be, Libras like to live in the mind. All the things missing from good ol' boring (yet safe) girl get filled in by Libra's mind fantasies for the time being. So naturally in the beginning a Libra male will be content with the whole 'courting' aspect. But they soon find out that these girls have little to offer in the 'social excitement' category. Thus the conclusion ending with Mr. Libra getting bored fast.


(Lady Aries - your comment is SOOO typical Aries btw! LOL) But I'm with ya girl - no room for pansies or complainers! ;]

@suchadoll. You're sweet! I haven't been around libras much to understand their ways thoroughly. What you just explained is new to me, I am off to investigate! Thanks!

Yeah, they definitely like assertive woman, then they realize they don't like assertive woman. Hence, the term "cuddly assertive". They want an assertive woman who isnt assertive lol.

Like KingofLibras, they dont like to be told what to do or being told what to do but it is actually the main attibutes of assertive women. Being able to make quick decisions...which Libras seems to lack

Usually a woman who has a Libra bf will end up telling him what to do because he cant decide and lazy as hell.

Well, in my younger days, yep b/c you dont have to tell them anything, they just do it automatically, like sex you dont have to tell her she'll just do it. IT helps with that fear of rejection thing


but as i got older, it depends b/c assertive women hate hearing no and hate to see you stop them from putting their foot down and it gets argumentive over little shit and they love their way and they have high expectations but im done with relationships for a while

but i know how to be assertive REGARDLESS of the generalizing of libras done on here, we are still MEN, i still have a dick and balls so i know how to be assertive and direct

taurus/gem_no woman ever had to tell me what to do in a relationship nor am i lazy as hell thats a bullshit notion maybe thats based of men youve seen or been with but not me

its funny a taurus would call a libra lazy

the only thing i liek about assertive women is the challenge and how you can argue with her and she wont back down, thats about it b/c she cant wear the pants in a relationship, thats not a woman's place

Posted by QLIbraMale
Assertive Women hmmm yes i like Ass on a Woman lol. I have a thing for Sweet and Tsundere Ladies. as for being Assertive Women are sizzling hot when they have a little spunk to them. I like clumsy, girl next door types as well. as long as she's being herself all the matters, lol the clumsier the better hahaha.

I keep imagining a cute little asian girl, totally into anime, possible a bit nerdy - and totally down to play video games and go to conventions w/ you. Maybe someone along the lines of Chiaki Kuriyama who played Gogo from Kill Bill 1.


Is that accurate? ;X

Do I like assertive... hell yeah .... My favs are Aries, Taurus, and Scorpio. woohoo!!!! I like Biotchy women, they protect you when in a relationship, these girls got yo back. You won't get a bad seat in a restaurant, your check will be corrected or discounted by the time they are through ....lol. You will be encourage to go for that promotion, finish school or certifications, improve your wardrobe and theirs ....lol. You will have a clean home, cooked meal, and discipline kids. And sex is no problem as long as they are not mad.

So many pieces to this question...

Assertive, strong willed... that's good.

A bossy stuck up bitch, no way.

taurus/gemBabe
Usually a woman who has a Libra bf will end up telling him what to do because he cant decide and lazy as hell.

I do not want someone who tries to make decisions for me, I am quite capable of that myself. And lazy?! I'd like to see most people keep up with me. We get into our funks or ruts but in general I get stuff done.

sucha_d0ll
I keep imagining a cute little asian girl, totally into anime, possible a bit nerdy - and totally down to play video games and go to conventions w/ you. Maybe someone along the lines of Chiaki Kuriyama who played Gogo from Kill Bill 1.

Is that accurate? ;X

I'll take one of those too...

I like assertive, intelligent, diplomatic woman who is able to maintain sight of the big picture. As an assertive libra male who is with a libra female libra who resembles the sentence above I can definately say this combination is full of win.

She is probably a little more assertive in our relationship and me in external matters so we make a good team.

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
Well, in my younger days, yep b/c you dont have to tell them anything, they just do it automatically, like sex you dont have to tell her she'll just do it. IT helps with that fear of rejection thing


but as i got older, it depends b/c assertive women hate hearing no and hate to see you stop them from putting their foot down and it gets argumentive over little shit and they love their way and they have high expectations but im done with relationships for a while

but i know how to be assertive REGARDLESS of the generalizing of libras done on here, we are still MEN, i still have a dick and balls so i know how to be assertive and direct

taurus/gem_no woman ever had to tell me what to do in a relationship nor am i lazy as hell thats a bullshit notion maybe thats based of men youve seen or been with but not me

its funny a taurus would call a libra lazy

LMOA!!! i totally agree b/c most taurians can be extremely lazy and quite boring (lol) and this is my opinion based on my personal experiences w/them being friends and significant others but overall, they are sweethearts. :o))