
Astrology and Dating
@divinebliss
9 Years
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Put simply.
Crazy is a woman whom talks and writes million messages about feelings and how she felt and how it hurt her yet not saying most important straight up front what ACTION has led to her feeling that way.
Insecure is a woman that is jealous of his time spent away from him and with other people and hobbies.
If you have been both CRAZY and INSECURE around him, and you have made this mistake with a man,
the easiest way out of the vicious cycle where he pulls back and becomes distant, and back on track is for you to lean back, blame it on PMS and let the dust settle.
Time will usually lessen the significance of any incident brought about based on emotional fireworks many women happen to get into once they become sexually active.
Yet remember leaning back is mighty hard when your mind is chaotic and you are questioning yourself. Remember a man thinks he’s the ‘fixer.’ He needs to be the one processing the information and then coming up with a solution.
It needs to be his brilliant idea, anything that happens. He needs to figure out what he’s going to do about it. The minute you trump his instinct, he thinks you have lost faith in him. He gets offended, hurt, lost and he can’t take it. You are not attractive any more. This is why women must whisper solutions to men not give them ready: so they think they came up with them otherwise they hate you for doing it for him. He sees that you won over him and he cannot be attracted to someone whom devours him so easy it is.
If you just had sex with your guy don’t let your insecurities ruin your success in happily ever after just because you feel insecure or because some bad ex before him who did not treat you right before and was using you for sex only for months and years.
Your unconscious insecurities or methods of functioning and feeling are at work and sooner you realize what you are doing its better because you will not give a guy hard time for no reason. Your man who is with you and who spends time with you is probably a nice guy. When you start from that premise and keep that in mind that he is with you because he likes you will do just fine.
If you had amazing night and if it has been utterly fantastic don’t ruin it with something like:” I wish you could stay and spend the night.” said three times.
If he does not want to stay something is up and if it repeats itself it should be alarm and you should talk about it .But until than keep in mind that as a woman you are emotional and you would love him to spend the night step out of your head and your own past relationships trauma and appreciate that you spent amazing night together and let him feel like shit cause he is leaving you.
Ruining night by painting it with drama is terrifying.The guy will simply freak out even if he does not show it he will shrink a little bit. He will get insecure about how great you are. He will grant you yet another wish however if he does make sure to thank him for what he has done for you.Imagelike what you are reading here…read more http://www.amazon.com/BlessedRelationships-ShumicuDating-shumicu-ebook/dp/B00FH5ZIHI/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1398034815&sr=1-1&keywords=shumicu