Libra/Scorpio trying with another Libra/Scorpio!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by myguys55 on Monday, April 19, 2010 and has 4 replies.

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@myguys55
16 YearsLibra

Trying to figure this out! So is he~! And we are both missing the mark! But cant walk away!

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@little_sparrow
21 Years5,000+ Posts

How are you guys missing the mark?

I actually hear good things about same sign relationships. The fact that you both share the same cusp should help a lot. Of course, compatibility doesn't make up for emotional baggage and timing but it is a necessary ingredient.

Good luck to both of you 🙂

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@myguys55
16 YearsLibra

That is my problem! He has pursued me for a while.... Ive known him for 10 years..... and we finally got together for a real "date"... the 24 hours went fantastic, although we both were overwhelmed emotionally the whole day just being with each other! He begged me the whole time to let my guard down.... I have gotten out of a 9 year relationship, and he just got out of one just as long two years ago, so the last year i have been testing my waters. My marriage was great although life change that, and my FWB have been odd and tense cause I refuse to let anyone in, or let myself feel to much, cause I would rather not love then have my heart bleed again! I want to let him in, and that day I did let him in, it was overwhelming...... now we both have been busy and making other things more priority than each other, and i wonder if we can put anything aside to make time for each other! The thing is that we want to be desired but not smothered? right.....I guess we both want the other to be there exactly when we want them there, but refuse to budge if it is too inconvenient for the other! just trying to find a freakin balance!

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@curious visitor
17 Years500+ PostsLibra

yeah, that's what i was thinking. it's not a good match because they've both got to be the dominant partner. and you can't have two dominant partners. somebody's got to give. usually someone will, but not these two. the only thing that'll get these types to soften up is a soft partner. one of you could fake it, but then you'd lose respect for the other.

too much trouble.

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@myguys55
16 YearsLibra

Too much trouble! you read my mind! This is why I told him we should just stay friends! ahhhhh! 🙂