Libra Woman + Sag Woman=Long distance?

Hi all!

Sooooo three months ago I started seeing/talking to this libra woman. Problem is I live interstate, so for about two months we were travelling back and forth. We connected like crazy, started planning our life together. We became best friends super quickly, it wasn't just about sex we would do everything together when were in each others company, we could talk about anything from intense philosophical debates about government structure to random singalongs and online gaming. And then she broke up with me, saying that was something was missing and she couldn't figure out if it was the distance or what, but she wanted to remain best friends, all of this while crying telling me shed be devastated for the next couple of days. The problem is I'm stuck here for at least two years to finish off my degree, I offered to move because I felt like it was something so controllable and she said she didn't want to be the reason for me moving. But even when we first started talking I made it clear I want my life to be in the city she currently lives in.

Anyway now shes 'super busy', hardly has time for me, its been three weeks. A couple of days after we broke up she told me she loved me. Every now and then she says she adores and misses me. She tells me shes not ruling out a future with me, but just wants to be friends. Yet when I asked about her love life to help me transition she told me shes not ready to hear about mine. I'm in such struggle town. Part of me feels like shes distancing herself on purpose, another part hates that she couldn't just hold on, I would've found a way to transfer. By breaking up with me she essentially resigned the relationship to failure.

Plz help. Do you think shes somewhat protecting herself by distancing? or has she lost interest completely? If she has, how the fuck do I get out of the friendzone?

Are you the Sag or Libra?

I was dating a Libra female as well... and at the beginning, the Chemistry was on a whole different level... she pulled away because we were long distance and wanted to be friends and just cut contact. I then moved on, and she came back and it got sticky... because we were friends and had love for one another, were talking to other people and just got lost in the reason we started it all...

You guys will be good. But don't wait around for no one... and you decide if she's welcomed back or not, when the time comes.

I'm a sag 🙂

Dw she's seeing someone else now, within like two weeks. Which is wild considering she was telling me she missed me when she first started seeing this chick. It feels messy at the mo though, I have a problem of just saying everything that comes to my head. Including how much of a poohead new biddy is lol

You were too easy.

Yeh that's what I was saying, but she kept going on about how she'd feel guilty particularly if things didn't work out. Which was beyond me cause it's such a controllable thing, like I would've done anything.

These last couple of days she's been wild, turns out she has pcos and her hormones are making her act like shitcunt. Naturally she's taking it out on me. I told her not to use me as her emotional punching bag else I'll walk away and she apologised. It's still fucked though. I'm still in love with her. It's super cooked. I know I need to move on. But I'm way too optimistic and hopeful so I'll probs subconsciously cling until I meet someone new. Yaaaaaaay ?