Libra women evil or what? (Page 2)

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Posted by FknMeow

You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

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I agree with that last paragraph for sure! 👍🏻

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Posted by rmactavish

Welcome to an ordinary day in the life of 'A guy who loves a Libra girl'.

Do you know or have heard of others with some form of similar situation with a libra girl or something?😂

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Libra women in general are extremely tricky to deal with. They can like you and you'll never know it. It's like dealing with a normal woman but the dial is turned up to 1000% . To make matters worse, most libra women are exceptionally beautiful (or if average, they know how to maximize their physical potential). Even with a Libra ASC well-placed and aspected by many planets, it is still a mental workout to deal with them. Their charm isn't as effective on me though because I can send it right back. 😉

She is trying to be honest with you. Listen to me, if you want any chance with this Leeb just stop all contact from this point on. If you leave her alone she will come to you. DO NOT CONTACT HER, I repeat DO NOT CONTACT HER. When we are in a state of confusion it is best to leave us alone until we sort ourselves out and contact you. Contacting and pressuring a Libra will make us hate you. Leave her alone and she will come to you. I would suggest that when she does contact you that you don't be in a hurry to get back to her, ignore her a bit.

Posted by DonnaLibra

She is trying to be honest with you. Listen to me, if you want any chance with this Leeb just stop all contact from this point on. If you leave her alone she will come to you. DO NOT CONTACT HER, I repeat DO NOT CONTACT HER. When we are in a state of confusion it is best to leave us alone until we sort ourselves out and contact you. Contacting and pressuring a Libra will make us hate you. Leave her alone and she will come to you. I would suggest that when she does contact you that you don't be in a hurry to get back to her, ignore her a bit.

I wish I would of gotten on the day you posted this, she reached out to me to tell me how she’s getting a travel trailer(like how we had planned on doing and went out to look at them) and called me later in the day again on Sunday to tell me she just did a concealed pistol class (we planned on that aswell) and some little more convo here and there, she got upset at me for not telling her what I’m saving up for and planning on doing(I kinda did avoid the question alittle) got upset about it and just went off yesterday over text she was basically looking for a fight and I didn’t play to much into it. Now I’m sitting here going wow I should of just told her what my plans are for the future cause now she’s pissed at me. Idk what to do it’s just ridiculous. I hadn’t responded first thing in the morning when she sent her initial text and she sent another like an hour later saying “...and disappear again. Classic you. Don’t know why I even asked or expected anything to be different”

Posted by DonnaLibra

She is trying to be honest with you. Listen to me, if you want any chance with this Leeb just stop all contact from this point on. If you leave her alone she will come to you. DO NOT CONTACT HER, I repeat DO NOT CONTACT HER. When we are in a state of confusion it is best to leave us alone until we sort ourselves out and contact you. Contacting and pressuring a Libra will make us hate you. Leave her alone and she will come to you. I would suggest that when she does contact you that you don't be in a hurry to get back to her, ignore her a bit.

Where she talks about “red flags” it’s like ok are you saying you’re trying or thinking of coming back while seeing if things will work out? Cause if you are we need to be on the same page of things or things aren’t going to seem like theyre different??

“Well we were talking then when I said what are you saving for?, you changed subject and ignored me. Then today I followed up with you just don’t reply and honestly this is a big red flag of everything is the same and nothing is different. One difference is I don’t need to sit around and feel this way I can just drop it and keep at my own thing. So whatever. See ya.”

Posted by tiziani

The issue is still the same as the beginning. Set a boundary.

Your relationship is like a hotel entrance: she can come and go as she pleases.

It's not about being a hardass or ignoring her imo.

You can be real and show you want to work it out AND remain firm about holding her to account for own actions too. It doesn't have to be one or the other.

Anytime she comes back and wants to talk like nothing happened, just be real and ask her straight up what's making her get in touch with you. If she tries to throw it back at you, tell her straight up you want to work it out and ask her again until she shows she knows what she wants. Never budge from this.

If she has no answers and is vague about what she wants, say no more. That's the boundary.

Exactly it has been that way, all on her terms and rules, she’s such a controlling person and will admit it no problem. It’s hard to talk to her cause once I do she doesn’t wanna talk about anything, she has to be the one to bring it up. She gets upset over most things I do and like how you said comes back at some point like nothing happened. It sucks because it fucks with me mentally, ill be thinking “well that’s it I screw up yet again and now she’s pissed and totally done” but calls me a couple days later all happy about how she’s buying an travel trailer and what not. Like what.

It seems like she’s going out of her way to do all the things we had planned on doing at some point, remodel the house, get a travel trailer, CCW class.. it’s like wtf

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Posted by DonnaLibra

She is trying to be honest with you. Listen to me, if you want any chance with this Leeb just stop all contact from this point on. If you leave her alone she will come to you. DO NOT CONTACT HER, I repeat DO NOT CONTACT HER. When we are in a state of confusion it is best to leave us alone until we sort ourselves out and contact you. Contacting and pressuring a Libra will make us hate you. Leave her alone and she will come to you. I would suggest that when she does contact you that you don't be in a hurry to get back to her, ignore her a bit.

Where she talks about “red flags” it’s like ok are you saying you’re trying or thinking of coming back while seeing if things will work out? Cause if you are we need to be on the same page of things or things aren’t going to seem like theyre different??

“Well we were talking then when I said what are you saving for?, you changed subject and ignored me. Then today I followed up with you just don’t reply and honestly this is a big red flag of everything is the same and nothing is different. One difference is I don’t need to sit around and feel this way I can just drop it and keep at my own thing. So whatever. See ya.”

This situation is too far gone. Drop her ass and don't look back.

This type of shit is why don't mess with libra women too much - they're not long-term relationship/friendship material.

At least for me (aries/taurus)

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You’ve had similar experiences I take it?

Posted by tiziani

The issue is still the same as the beginning. Set a boundary.

Your relationship is like a hotel entrance: she can come and go as she pleases.

It's not about being a hardass or ignoring her imo.

You can be real and show you want to work it out AND remain firm about holding her to account for own actions too. It doesn't have to be one or the other.

Anytime she comes back and wants to talk like nothing happened, just be real and ask her straight up what's making her get in touch with you. If she tries to throw it back at you, tell her straight up you want to work it out and ask her again until she shows she knows what she wants. Never budge from this.

If she has no answers and is vague about what she wants, say no more. That's the boundary.

there is no point talking.

nothing changes because neither want it to change. it's dysfunctional and on some level it works for them both this way.

you don't keep going back to something unless you are getting a pay off. maybe they like the drama, maybe its self sabotage, maybe it's better than being alone. either way, it's a sick dance they are both doing and neither want the music to stop.

this thread is also a sick dance. it's not like he doesn't know the answer but he's getting something from repeating it over and over again. i've noticed a few threads on dxp like that. i think people shouldn't give it air. the more they do, the more encouragement people feel to continue in this strange sort of online malady.

I agree that it needs to end for the @OP. I for one, would never encourage him to go no contact with the hopes that she will come back because it doesn't work that way. He needs to end it and stop trying to figure out why she is the way she is and if she will ever come back. If only ... Just stop talking/thinking about it and get on with your life. Like beating a dead horse hoping it will wake up and love him the way he wants/needs to be loved. It ain't gonna happen.