@Taurusgirl3
13 Years
Libras and loss
She will put on that front in company and only really breakdown when she is alone or with very close friends/family. All you can do is be there with her and if she needs a cuddle or to talk then be there. She will be processing every little thought in her mind and won't come out of that for some time.
There really is nothing you can do to speed up this process...lots people being around all the time will only prolong it unfortunately.
This isn't sign specific.
When it comes to these things, just make her aware that you're there for her. There is no right or wrong way to mourn, so to think she's not doing it right and wanting to "do" isn't really necessary.
If she needs to or wants to, she'll come to you as long as she knows you're there for her.
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