Libras & their alone time (messed up the first one

Libras out there! do ya'll really like alone time? like to unwind and whatnot? are ya'll big homebodies?? im trying to figure out this man!
and i quote " between you and my alone time, i dont really think to do anything else, i dont even really hang out with my friends of 10 years, so i dont know why your best friends boyfriend is getting butthurt over me not calling him when i was supposed to"

PS. my bestfriends boyfriend is ALSO a LIBRA!

(Huge grammatical mistake, which would have confused the reader, sorry.)

I think that Libra man spelled it right out to you when he said "my alone time".. what's so difficult to figure out? I'd think a Pisces (needs space) with a Gemini Moon (needs MORE space) would be able to see and understand this easily?

Oh, and I'll just throw out there.. while Libras can certainly be (unintentionally, usually) thoughtless or selfish (i.e. not think about how their words/actions might affect others)... they really seem BIG on "manners" and so bff's Libra is feeling understandably peeved at the "rudeness" your Libra bf displayed when he blew him off.. but YOUR Libra may be feeling a bit put on the spot (guilty? Libras HATE feeling guilty!) because he DID blow off bff's also-Libra bf.. ("not calling him when I was supposed to") and plays his trump card "I need some space sometimes.. what's he all butthurt about? Sheesh!" to justify his actions (rudeness) to the other guy... so they're BOTH Libras and they're BOTH (more) right.. in their minds, of course!

Wanna see a debate go on forever and ever? Let two Libras "discuss" who is more right and who is more wrong in a sticky situation of anger or hurt feelings. Wanna stop a Libra in his tracks? Accept your full share of the "blame" in a situation.. not ALL.. not NONE... BALANCE it... and watch an angry, stubborn Libra melt and start bending a bit, coming your way.. agreeing that they too share some blame.. even though a few minutes before, they were acting like NOTHING was their fault!

Posted by Nefer

Wanna see a debate go on forever and ever? Let two Libras "discuss" who is more right and who is more wrong in a sticky situation of anger or hurt feelings. Wanna stop a Libra in his tracks? Accept your full share of the "blame" in a situation.. not ALL.. not NONE... BALANCE it... and watch an angry, stubborn Libra melt and start bending a bit, coming your way.. agreeing that they too share some blame.. even though a few minutes before, they were acting like NOTHING was their fault!

omg Nefer youre spot on on this one. My and my Libra bf got into a phase of ignoring each other and we maybe broke up for a couple of days until i calmed down and unblocked his phone number and called him. He called me back right away and talked abt how childish I was blocking him and deleting him off my facebook. (I just realise he looks at my profile a lot, since before this he acted like he never cared for facebook or my wall)

Ofc, he was childish too for telling me too piss off and hanging up while we were arguing. But I didnt say anything abt it and just let him vent his anger because I realise the fact that he called me back is because he wanted this relationship to work. After sometime of telling me how much he hates it when im trying to emotionally blackmail him or manipulate him ....he mentions that he undertsnads that he has done bad things too and he will work on it too as long as i stop doing this (he starts a lists)

But yeah, he mentions that he was wrong too...even if it was for a fleeting second it was good enough for me.

Truth.

@Nefer: haha i definately understand the whole "space and alone thing" bc I love my alone time, I just havent met someone who needs it like i do so it really caught me off-guard. Me being a pisces stupidly thinks there is something fishy going on ( even though i know there is most likely not)
anywho, FUNNY how you described the Libra/Libra relationship. My bff's Libra is just like my Libra but he fails to see that, and he thinks my Libra is a asshole! me and my bff Cancer are trying to get them on the same level!
anyways thanks again, you know what your talking about! 😄

@Superhero> that is what my libra did with me the first go round in the relationship, he kept bringing up here and there his concerns about this guy looking at you the bar, and how a guy friend over here treats me too nice..and one day he sees a good guy friend of me call me and he just broke up with me. "he coulnt do it anymore" so yes. you and my libra are similar in that aspect

usually when other signs spend time alone, it's just something they do. libras need our alone time so much that we'll tell other people about "my alone time" and will schedule it into our calendars if we keep them. as in: if i plan to go to a party friday night, i'm probably planning to spend saturday night at home by myself. a certain amount of my time must be spent alone.

libra is the sign that would rather lie about having to work late in order to have the evening alone, rather than saying it to cheat.

i'll usually just tell the truth. a lot of guys will get bothered or think i'm lying. like, no i'm not out with another guy. i'm at home playing an entire sudoku book. yes, really.

a compliment i've given: being around you is almost as enjoyable as being completely alone. yes, it really is a compliment. i fucking love my own company. most people are far less enjoyable than i am.

haha alright libras i get it!
superhero: i getcha it just reminded me of that certain situation haha

Posted by curious visitor

a compliment i've given: being around you is almost as enjoyable as being completely alone. yes, it really is a compliment. i fucking love my own company. most people are far less enjoyable than i am.

Haha, I like that.

I also like to be alone in crowds, people watching is great fun.

* between you and my alone time, i dont really think to do anything else, i dont even really hang out with my friends of 10 years

I get it. I'm kind of in that place now. I recently moved into my own place and I just love hanging out with me and my cat. I think most people think I have fallen off the planet. I haven't. I'm just needing a lot of downtime these days.

Posted by LibraLuv

Do you have Virgo in your chart? "people watching is great fun" My ex (Virgo) used to say the same thing...wow

My chart is dominated my Libra but I am a Libra/Virgo cusper.

Posted by little_sparrow
* between you and my alone time, i dont really think to do anything else, i dont even really hang out with my friends of 10 years

I get it. I'm kind of in that place now. I recently moved into my own place and I just love hanging out with me and my cat. I think most people think I have fallen off the planet. I haven't. I'm just needing a lot of downtime these days.

lol sounds exactly like my Libra. he's in a brighther mood after he has been alone all day, since libras so have a not-so-sunny disposition at time 🙂