Meeting him again tomorrow

Hey my Libras!

As y'all now all know, tomorrow I am meeting my libra ex of a week. Throughout this week we spoke once and it was petty and I guess I tried to hurt him but he acted like he did not care and that he was fine without me but I could feel the pain in the way he responded. He said he was sorry he caused me pain and we stopped the conversation there and I went silent mode and so did he. I deleted him on Facebook for my sanity and I left it at that.

Now tomorrow we are seeing each other again for the dreaded "I give you your shit back" and "std test results" day.

I want to take that opportunity to apologize for my pettiness and kind of change the course of the situation at the place we started our argument a week ago.

I am thinking about dressing with that sexy Momica Bellucciesque dress he likes me to wear, sexy pink sandals and my braids in a romantic ponytail.

I wrote him a letter which basically says that I apologize for being petty, I acknowledge my part in the demise of our situation because I pushed him into making a decision, I express my appreciation for him and my respect for how he made me change my perception of the Man, I want to pursue the relationship, keep the good. I say we definitely went too fast and we need to be individuals again. I remind him of my favorite moments with him. I also say that even though I want to pursue our relationship I understand his decision and if he is happy with it, I will be happy for him.

So my Libras (men and women), my fellow men and women on this site, I want you to tell me what you think, how I should do it, did it work out for you ex (other signs trying to reconquer a libra).... No negativity please, i want encouragements and constructive criticism and positive stories! Please

Love and harmony to y'all

I totally agree with you. I need to be an individual again, he needs to go and chase his pokemons and be cool. We were around each other 5 days a week and I needed space as well but I did not mention it first. We broke up once for a week because we had the same issue. Except he was less adamant about spending time alone and leaving me but at the same time last week I rejected him when he wanted to kiss me.

I became tripolar and cried like a baby.

So I feel like tomorrow if I look good and I sound sane and I give him this letter and I hope to remind him of the good times, it'll work out

That's too. Thing is I always go too far when I am angry. He wanted to kiss me but I rejected him and then I ignored him and did not speak to him for 4 hours straight before crying like a mad woman.

I met my soulmate before but we were not a good match for one another. He and I would have killed each other literally. We were one and the same but we were miserable and angry. With Benj, it's different. He is not my soulmate but it feels great to be with him, I feel like I have known him my entire life. I am just so eager at times. I've been broken hearted so many a times, raped and cheated on, that I thought a lovely man would never come along and I messed it up. I take my 50% of blame. I just hope he will give it a try

That is true

I am a Leo with Taurus rising. I am chill because I am 21 and I have been through a lot. I gab a bad temper but it only comes out when I feel vulnerable other than that I just want to have fun and live a positive life. This world is too negative and we need steaks of hope! I am cool with most of my ex even those who cheated on me! I believe in the good!