Need Advice Pisces female Libra male~~~

Ok so here is the story??_. I started seeing and talking to my Libra man in January. I was actually just getting out of a 6 year relationship and he was somewhat my Libra man??s acquaintance. When we first started talking he had advised me that we could never be together in a relationship because of my ex??_ Well now its four months later and we spend every day together. He actually has been @ my house for the past month straight??_ Don't get me wrong I love it he makes me happier than anything. He was one of the reasons I left my boyfriend to begin with. The first day I met him I knew that he would be a part of my life. I of course didn't know how when or why I just knew. We never argue @ all ??_ . I am just confused I of course have read everything there is to know about Libra men and he is a different type of Libra man for instance he is not a social butterfly he doesn't even really like to meet new people.He has told me time and time again that he doesn't understand why he tells me things that he has never told anyone else, however he doesn't ever tell me how he feels ever in fact he made a comment yesterday that guys bottle up their emotions. I know that this is what he is doing but the here is the issue he hasn't left my house in a month and we have yet to have the relationship conversation. I don't know how I am supposed to get him to open up. I just need to know where his head is in all of this. I am a very emotional person and this has been a hard four months because I don't want to scare him away with the feelings that I have for him. Honestly I don't even know how to show him that I care because I know that Libras don't like needy woman or clingy woman and if anyone knows a Pisces they know were all emotions .My question is how do I approach the subject so he doesn't feel like I am being needy and should I have this conversation with him? I know that women sometimes need reassurance because they are feeling insecure and maybe I am right now??_ I just want to know that he cares and he isn't just using me for whatever reason. So please please someone help me Pisces girl falling hard for him ??_

Okay for starters, if he knows you left your boyfriend for him, then that's problem number one. No man wants a woman that is not loyal. Loyalty means, you stay away from the homies by any means necessary. So if this is out in the open, which I'm pretty sure he could guess it without you saying it, which is why he told you upfront not to expect a title of a relationship or anything solid, because he's unwilling.

Secondly, tell me this man is not living with you and trying to say he is not your man??_if he is then you need to be a woman and kick his azz out. If you don't have the strength to do that because you love him sooooo much, then I surely hope you making him pay the bills, cut the grass, and take out the garbage, and even taking you out on a regular too, sheesh get something for yourself out of this messed up situation. If he's not, then like I said kick him out. Personally I still feel you should put him out regardless if he's unwilling to commit because a man will get comfortable, and he'll never give you what you want if you're giving away everything without any standards of your own. You will look up and he's got it all, and you've got nothing.

My son and my BFF are both Pisces . . . you are gentle, kind and very emotional "old souls." Alternatively, Librans can seem very cold by nature; we universally have shut off valve that kicks in when we feel at all threatened. This can be due to feeling smothered, our insanely intense fear of rejection or our disinterest due to some turn-off.

Here is my advice: Be your true self, but communicate in a way that will appeal to him. If this is someone that you cannot express your needs and feelings to, it will eat you up inside. You are a Pisces; you need to be able to share your emotions.

Librans do very well with communication IF it is not put into critical or accusatory terms. We hate criticism even when we rightly deserve it, and lord knows we often do. My suggestion is that you tell your partner how much appreciate all of the things that he does, and state your questions in terms of your needs, not his lack of communication. Get what I'm trying to say? Do not put him on the defensive -- Librans will head for the hills. Give him the opening to communicate safely, and he will.

Best of luck, Honey.

LS67

Lol.I'm sorry I'm having male problems right now, and I'm a little bitter. Probably not the best person to be giving advice. Just don't want her to look up and this joka has used her for everything she's got then dipped, including keeping a roof over his head, and warm meals on the table. F**k that.

(((ALibra)))

Strength and support to you, Hon.

LS67

"When we first started talking he had advised me that we could never be together in a relationship because of my ex"

There's his Get Out Of Jail Free Card, right there. He straight up TOLD you from the start.. no relationship. He laid it out in black and white and you accepted those terms.. no relationship. So whatever you do (or don't do) with him.. he figures it's what you want to do, you're a big girl and he TOLD you... no relationship, and he doesn't OWE you anything, esp not.. a relationship. He can sit all up in your house for weeks on end.. he can spend time with you and kiss you and sex you and whatever else you two get up to.. but in HIS mind it's NOT A RELATIONSHIP... and YOU'RE fine with that, cuz you're still accepting those terms. So he'll just coast along.. he's fine with the way things are, all of the benefits and none of the relationship.

That's not a Libra thing.. that's a man thing.


This does not bode well.