need help with libran man - pisces woman here!!

Hello thought i would throw myself over here see what you think as there are expert librans.....

i am 26th feb pisces he is 18th october, he is intense isnt the word, I pulled away quite a few times and it was madness, like I was in some fantasy roleplay extremely so and loved it but felt it was too intense and too much for me without any substance here involved, I feel I dont get him, I go cold on him as well as my way of protecting myself and finding my feet again after such an intense time with him ie one night. Can anyone explain this to me or what libran men are all about. It is like he captures me, but all the time I am protecting myself....I dont normally get libran men.

In one way i am scared of the impact this has on me to the feeling it rises in me too which is overwhelming. I change the topic quite quickly as well to something not sexual just to see what he is all about and not all sex which is fine. when I retreat he comes after me panicking and callls me that day of not talking to him only because that is so pisces and need time to retreat from him.

I feel like I dont get him emotionally like our communication isnt strong here, we need to feel and sense things arae genuine, but lbrans are logical and fast just wanting things done, this worries me.

Any help, we are meeting again tomorrow night, I saw him last night, he texts me this morning, and I was being very charming this time like was, he changes the topic, like I used to, now thinking hmm is he copying me to get to me/manipulating, he even said to me last night, funny how you noticed this me changing the topic as thats normally you....now this morning I havent replied to it as this is what i sense....sometimes i hate being so sensitive...grrrrr!!! and emotional for that matter as hate being out of control.....thats my feeling.

any thoughts
x

So all he talks about is sex?

Cause that's a big ol' red flag right there.

Have you slept with him already?

Is his Venus in Scorpio? My partner was born on 19 Oct, his Venus is in Scorpio and he is very intense, goes from one extreme to another, never in a middle. Sex is very important to him and he talks about a lot as well. These are all Venus in Scorpio characteristics.