New Relationship with Libra Man??

This topic was created in the Libra forum by grae64 on Monday, June 14, 2010 and has 3 replies.

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

When was it? You said you have left several messages but don't give a time frame. If this all happened over the weekend, maybe he is just busy at work. If it has been several days... I don't know. He could really be worried that it would interfere with one or both of your jobs. We do have a tendency to turn or thoughts inwards if we need to sort something out but I have never done it to the point where I have shut out someone I cared about. Not for any length of time anyway... a day or two, sure.

That would be the first question... when did this happen?

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@little_sparrow
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Are you sure he isn't seeing someone grae? How long has he been out of his last relationship?

He might be weighing the pros and cons. If you haven't heard from him by Wednesday, call out the dogs!

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@grae64
17 Years

No, he isn't seeing anyone, that I am sure of. I guess just overthinking, as I always do, I really thought that everything was great with us last week, friends taking things to the next level, PERFECT! I guess I am just really shocked that he has changed gears so quickly. I am going to give him the space he is obviously looking for, from things I have read about Libra men, sometimes, they love the chase, so maybe that is the best way to handle this.....

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

We also like to be pursued... not like stalker pursued but we do need to feel desired.

Try to talk to him about it. All of the Libras I know are brutally honest people. This one is hard to say, it is a recent event and he could just be confused or thinking it over. Sparrow may be right in saying to wait a day or two but question him (in person if possible without making it a standoff situation) and watch his eyes and body language.

Let us know how it goes... us Libras are very curious people =)