once you're caught and enmeshed in the Libran charm, it won't be easy to break away. Trying to escape from a bear trap is a cinch, compared to liberating yourself from a Libran man. If you try to run, he'll persuade you to stay with such logical, intelligent arguments you couldn't hope to top them unless you graduated from Harvard Law School. In addition to using his unmatched reasoning powers on you, he'll turn so sweet and gentle you'll forget the frustrating inconsistencies of his nature that upset you before. Then he'll smile at you and something will happen inside. Your heart will turn over.
From that moment on, the battle will be lost. His dreams will be your dreams, and nothing will matter so much as making him happy. You'll seek that smile and need it to survive the way a thirsty traveller needs water. Only a really hard-hearted Hannah could resist a Libran smile, and she'd have to summon all her determination to avoid being magnetized by its purity. The Libran charm is not like the hypnotic persuasion of the Scorpio. The attraction of Libra is logical and real, not supernatural in any sense. There's no black magic about it, just common sense submission to his heavenly aura.
well your job sounds interesting 🙂....boys? hmmm yeah aren't they great?? LOL NOT.
Life is good here too but still having those long quiet times between seeing Mr Libra....I made the mistake of telling him I wanted to see him more and since then he's been even more elusive and wonder if he'd rather just not see me anymore but then that's me....worried coz I haven't heard from him apart from him replying to my texts (he still answers within minutes of receiving them...what's in that?)!! I know he's busy so I am not hassling him and leaving him be...guess he'll contact me when he's good and ready *shrugs*
Apart from that, Im back at work now - oh yay NOT lol....it was nice to have a week off to do as I pleased but now back to reality and working for my pay once again LOL.....so glad to have this message board to vent my frustrations though - I thought work would have been enough to keep my mind off of him but not to be *sigh*
Everybody says be patient, he'll come back, yada yada....patience is not my thing - I've done patience for 3 months, isn't that enough?? LOL.
Hey Chatz, I made the mistake of telling the Libra Girl I adore that I wanted to make sure we had time in our schedules (we're both getting really busy). Of course, I didn't get a straight answer from her--but she didn't say "No." Just that elusive thing as you've described. I also get frustrated with the time away aspect Libra pulls. Yes, I believe she's really busy and she always seems to have a plausible explanation (which NEVER includes going out with another guy---which is interesting to me---and great). 'Just not used to this style of relationship. I've decided not to talk about our relationship AT ALL with her. Just call once in awhile to see how she's doing; offer a time to get together----but not expect a definite answer. Hmmmm.
Well thank God its all normal then LOL.....Im just trying to stay busy during those quiet times or its going to drive me insane!!!
Atom, at least you didn't get a NO....I just got a "Im not ready to be in a r/ship at the moment and don't know when I will be - the timing just isn't right"...blah!!! But still we hang out so I guess that's ok for now anyway....can you imagine how hard it is for people who don't come to this site to work these creatures out— LOL.
I'm assuming mine will just contact me when he's ready - if he will be ready again....I hate to see him tucked away at home every night chatting online to all and sundry yet never meeting - strange!!! And sheesh if he's not ready after 2 years since splitting with his ex, when will he be— again, sheesh!!!
Hmmm ahwell, again, its kinda nice to be in the same boat as you Atom....if that makes sense - we're in limbo!!! but not alone LOL
Thanks for that though, it has helped me remember not to worry so much!!
Chatz.. now you know you were wrong for posting that!!! If anyone is trying not to think about their libra that does not help!! But dang dang dang it, if it isn't true, though. And they all (ok most) seem to have this magnetic quality. What the..?? I have had a headache for 5 days straight over this emotional rollercoster.. almost too much good stuff in one sitting for me to handle.. aquas love to think, but you give us this much and we just can't handle it.. I wish I could just burst, bc my head is killing me.. anxiety or something and I have 1 week and 1 day to go.. what's a girl to do?
Chatz.. hang in their girly! Your going to be like me.. 6 years .. then one day it happens outta the blue.. (playing) you'd be dead before your "1st year of waiting" anniversary 🙂. (pure torture) I am hoping things turn around soon for you sweety or another mister somebody comes along with more time and consistant interest.. Could happen ya know! Keep your options open.
right....just been through 11 days of waiting waiting waiting - oh how so painful but worth it in the end 🙂....hang in there and remind me to do so next time ok— LOL...😛
Hey Aqua, I posted the update under "the latest". Last night it was as if we never had the conversation. All in all, I think he sensed my reaction when he pulled back a few weeks ago (though I did not say anything, he is pretty intuitive). So, I think he really wanted me to know that in general when he needs his space, I have to give it to him, and right now he may be needing more space that usual.
Anyways, I'm feeling pretty good about the whole thing. I swear it's like this: If Libra is the balanced scale, then Gemini is definately the totally unbalanced scale. So, Libra comes along and pounds the one side of the scale that is out of whack, making it teeter totter until things come into a balance. Gemini is balanced for a while - while at the same time, one side of the scale slowly starts to creep and we start all over again.
I was out of balance w/ my emotions in this relationship - too much insecurity and jealousy, so he basically hit my scales and forced me to balance it out.
aqua...tonight I get to see him again - woooohoooo it seems like a month since the last time and yeah 1 year— OMG I will be a fruitloop and I am already half way there LOL.....6 years? hmmm not sure I could - I gotta hand it to you, you are amazing!!! Hope your head feels better and OMG 1 week to go for you!!!! Don't forget to breathe!!!
Just got an awesome text from him re: tonight - hmmmmmm these guys are smooth operators!! 😛
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From that moment on, the battle will be lost. His dreams will be your dreams, and nothing will matter so much as making him happy. You'll seek that smile and need it to survive the way a thirsty traveller needs water. Only a really hard-hearted Hannah could resist a Libran smile, and she'd have to summon all her determination to avoid being magnetized by its purity. The Libran charm is not like the hypnotic persuasion of the Scorpio. The attraction of Libra is logical and real, not supernatural in any sense. There's no black magic about it, just common sense submission to his heavenly aura.