Did I blow it?

Honey,

I don't think you blew it but I think he is changing who is and no longer wants the friendship you had. I realize and he probably does too, that this is very hurtful to you and hard to understand.

Please know it is nothing that you have done or haven't done, just sometimes people grow apart and move on in their lives. No one is blame. It just happens.

(((browneyed)))

Tell me where he lives....Chatz and I will come sit on him!

usually when transformation occurs, it's done with a clean slate. something or someone can't transform with existing influences.

guess where I learned that from? Yep, Mr. Libra.

Browneyed

I think it is really complicated for us. We take on an image and based on that new image things need to stay or go or else we feel out of integrity with ourselves.

My instinct suggests that he has met someone. This is USUALLY when a reinvention happens. For whatever reason, your friendship feels out of integrity with who he is trying to become. Maybe in time, you will become friends again. I have had this happen several times in my life.

Try not to take it personally. This really is a case of Him not You as hard as that may seem to be at this time.

** usually when transformation occurs, it's done with a clean slate. something or someone can't transform with existing influences.

Yep!

LS, my instinct settled on that, too. I try to not go that route because we don't know the whole story.

Browneyed. You must let him be who he needs to be, not to say he may not change his mind a couple times about the two of you (they can be in that wierd space at times). If he has met someone else, then he obviously feels that he can't tell you without hurting you. I know you didn't mean to cry, but emotions get the best of us especially when dealing with the Libra. Emotions make them unbalanced. He probably now really feels he can't tell his reasons, especially if it has to do with him and someone he has met...

Sorry girl. They can be heart breakers, but can't take getting their hearts broken... Or should I say won't accept it easily.

LOL HP.....yup we'll sit on him!!!