Because I care...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by houstonpeach74 on Thursday, January 11, 2007 and has 14 replies.

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@houstonpeach74
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Nothing since yesterday since he called and referenced that night we had.

When I say he's good, I mean it in the sense that I truly don't know what to think anymore. I am moving on, I am seeing other people. Mr. Libra and I don't interact as much as we used to, but he still texts me every couple of days (used to be every morning) and he'll surprise me with a sporatic phone call like he did yesterday.

So because of this behavior, I still wonder to what extent does he think about me? He obviously still takes the time to send me a "Have a Great Day" message, so what does that mean? And because I know a bit of his player mentality, is he doing this with every girl and I'm just part of his daily list of to-do's?

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You are not a player if you put in effort

Your Libra is mirroring you. Not revealing much but drip feeding you with reminders of his existence. He won't be the first to come clean. If you stepped up the nature of your texts he'd probably follow.

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archer, he's very humorous, but I know he's under a lot of stress with family obligations. yet he is guarded with what he shares/shared with me, so part of me figured he hid his stress with humor...but i'm guilty of that, too.

libra, not sure if i want to step up the nature. i've tried and that's when he backpedaled.

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Archer, we're friends at this juncture. I'm too scared to get seriously involved with someone and he just told a few lies to make me want to get involved with him further until I get over being lied to. Plus, his being standoffish a month ago hurt me and I'm not sure I can put myself in that spot again.

So friends it is...for now...until he steps it up. and even then, i have a lot to think about...but I don't think he'll step it up.

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HP - see if there is any hinting going on. That's the approach he would probably take.

We don't see say "Want to go for ice cream?", we'll say "I was driving down this road..." Hoping you'll jump in...