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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Well if there was ever a Libra test, that was it. And you failed it 😄

Not to worry, you can retake them a few times until we just say fuck it and walk away for good.




you know KoL - this is not helping...can't fail something you don't have. sorry, I don't do games, and I hope that he at 42, having the career he has, and shit he went through during several deployments and watch people die is about games...your tests are for the infantile...and if he has that on his mind than all I can say is: good riddance and he did me a favor by cooling things...



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awww...he's a Looooooveyy...no wonder


on another note: evil Gem is waking up in me - I want to call the Lib schmuck - someone talk some sense into me please!!!! 😢



You know what it is.. if you miss someone you should tell them. I would never contact the girl first. Maybe there is too much pride or just not ready to be rejected twice.. its easier if she contacts me first.



but I didn't reject him. and I really didn't do anything wrong. I hate this friggin circus 😢.
Everything was fine. We talked on Wed - it was fine. He called during his lunch between briefs in Thursday, missed his call. On Thursday night we didn't talk - I was supposed to go out. I called him, he didn't answer, than on Friday morning he calls and pours this dump on me that bla,bla,bla, lets me friends BS...and that's it. Nothing since than. I hate this nonsense.
😢
and it's NOT fair that he acts infantile about this.
I worry, because he did just got back from the war zone, he does have to go through major adjustment, but that is no excuse to be a plain d*&k.

there. I said it.
now what do I do?
I'm back to miserable and I was feeling alright most of the day. 😢
I can't get him out of my mind, and I want to, I'm trying.
and for some reason it doesn't feel like he even gives a flip about me 😢

craps...
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO....... DON'T DO IT MISS CELIE! DON'T MAKE ME PULL OUT
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Don't listen to these chicks ^^

Women don't know anything about relationships. You are standing on the edge of chaos and they are giving you all the wrong advise. Ignoring a man will NEVER get him back. Thats just stupid. Any guy with half an ounce of self respect and pride will feel dominant enough to take the high road and walk away. I've lost my self respect momentarily for about 2 days when I was going nuts over that Aqua. Called her, texted her.. I was frantic until my Libra friend said something that made a lot of sense. I sent her 4 texts that burned all the bridges, stung her to the core and completely reversed the situation on its head. I got my cojones back and my pride and whatever other tokens I ever gave her.




too late...

I called told him he is not being fair that he in view of being re-integrated back to the society, going through all the adjustments back to normal living on normal streets as opposed to living in sandbox is obligated to let me know with a simple"yes, i'm fine" or "no, I'm not, but don't want to talk about it" email or voicemail. That he is not being fair and if the tables were turned and I just came back from the war zone I would definitely feel obligated to people who cared about me while I was there, regardless of relations. and something else - nice, short and to the point.


now - I'm ready for the lynching...bring it
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Posted by LibraLuv
Posted by THEKingofLibra
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Well if there was ever a Libra test, that was it. And you failed it 😄

Not to worry, you can retake them a few times until we just say fuck it and walk away for good.



Huh? Awwwwwww come on DAMMIT! I don't like failing tests! 😢



Libra test is the classic "I'm not good for you, you should leave and find someone who will treat you better" - if you walk away, you failed 😄



Pffft.. Men and their damn tests... I say we just duct tape all of you to a wall. 😛
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I'm up for that - as long as we get to have OUR way with them...miserable buggers that I love, craps...
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Posted by venusianbull
Sorry Roaming, I find I am quite out of rope. You stated your business, ball is in his court.




hmmm...it is and it isn't...he keeps this up, he will be back too late, because I can bet a lot that he will be back...once he has his ducks in a row...but I will be long gone by than...and I don't go back once I'm removed emotionally...this detachments is in full force, he's getting, I was confused, hurt, sad, I'm getting to the angry point, and than it's the "fuckitall" point...that's the no return point...he is going to blow it and than will be like:"damn, girl, I missed ya so much, I'm sorry babydoll"...in his southern accent with Barry White voice that will melt any girl on the spot...but had me keep him at arms reach for ever...darn...why are men so dumb at times, beats me...
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Don't listen to these chicks ^^

Women don't know anything about relationships. You are standing on the edge of chaos and they are giving you all the wrong advise. Ignoring a man will NEVER get him back. Thats just stupid. Any guy with half an ounce of self respect and pride will feel dominant enough to take the high road and walk away. I've lost my self respect momentarily for about 2 days when I was going nuts over that Aqua. Called her, texted her.. I was frantic until my Libra friend said something that made a lot of sense. I sent her 4 texts that burned all the bridges, stung her to the core and completely reversed the situation on its head. I got my cojones back and my pride and whatever other tokens I ever gave her.



wtf? were you rude? insulted her? what did you do? they are reasonable...
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
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Your man should man up and stop being such a Cancer boy 😄
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I don't get the Cancer part...he doesn't have it...
Sun Libra 6.21 Ascendant Virgo 22.42
Moon Capricorn 9.19 II Libra 17.48
Mercury Scorpio 0.22 III Scorpio 17.44
Venus Scorpio 3.22 IV Sagittarius 21.26
Mars Virgo 4.49 V Capricorn 25.30
Jupiter Virgo 20.48 VI Aquarius 26.19
Saturn Aries 23.19 R VII Pisces 22.42
Uranus Libra 0.03 VIII Aries 17.48
Neptune Scorpio 24.34 IX Taurus 17.44
Pluto Virgo 23.12 Midheaven Gemini 21.26
Lilith Gemini 11.34 XI Cancer 25.30
Asc node Aries 9.30 XII Leo 26.19
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
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wtf? were you rude? insulted her? what did you do? they are reasonable...



She wanted friendship, I wanted more.
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well, I don't want more now. I don't want a 50% or even 70% . I want all in or all out.
well, at least he is getting from me: "fine, we will be friends, you wanted friends? than be an effin' friend, damn it" lol

but...he's not...

and no...I will not fold, how much can you hurt yourself with the same boy?
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wtf? were you rude? insulted her? what did you do? they are reasonable...



She wanted friendship, I wanted more.




well, I don't want more now. I don't want a 50% or even 70% . I want all in or all out.
well, at least he is getting from me: "fine, we will be friends, you wanted friends? than be an effin' friend, damn it" lol

but...he's not...

and no...I will not fold, how much can you hurt yourself with the same boy?



You Gems lie to yourself all the time and overestimate your ability to move on 😄

Its quite fun actually. If I was a Libra inclined to have multiple partner, I could probably string along a dozen Geminis, one for each month. Point is, you can't move on that easily, you won't. You'll try, but it will emerge in your mind at worst of times. It will change your psyche, how you think, what you find funny, even food will lose its once glorious taste. You'll know its happening and your twin will be rocking back and forth inside looking around like a lost child
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and Libra's scales all they need is some blow from one Gem running circles around to be out of whack for a while...trust me I know...my aunt is a Gem and runs my uncle to no end...the man hardly knows what is right what is wrong even if it's him who is the Judge...she is the Jury... 😛
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KOL, don't feed her that crapola on a spoon. Telling her she won't be able to eat properly or that she'll be in the corner sucking her thumb. She's shown more strength airing things out here than many, I think that considering what has happened she's pretty well damned on the ball. ( Not meaning to 3rd person you here Roaming..know you're reading along here ) ..
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Posted by venusianbull
KOL, don't feed her that crapola on a spoon. Telling her she won't be able to eat properly or that she'll be in the corner sucking her thumb. She's shown more strength airing things out here than many, I think that considering what has happened she's pretty well damned on the ball. ( Not meaning to 3rd person you here Roaming..know you're reading along here ) ..



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Kol, we love your poetry...now tell me in verse wtf am I supposed to do with that bugger—
craps, he's driving me mental and sex wasn't even that good darn it!

sheeeshh...



Heh.. part of me wants to say fuck it, dump him and move on..... but to be honest I think thats a lame ass thing to do.
If he never abused you, if he has the capacity to make you feel loved and all his current events are temporary and will result in a reasonable amount of time... if there is a bright future beyond the dark clouds.. well you get the drift. Sex part.. eh. I haven't had a Gemini that was 'great' in sex 😄
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well...that's the thing...he really is asking for time...to get his shit together...I don't buy that...if a man wants a woman he will make it happen...he's asking for a few months - wtf is a few months—
he wants to ask me in a few months, "to get his place together, get his bearings on his life, get his car back, get his orders for transfer to the new base in," etc, etc, etc "if I am still available and if I am - great, and if I want to tell him to eff off, than I can do that too"....but than he said also, before or after that he wasn't going to call at all but that's not how things are done, and if I want to talk in a few days...blablabla...and I was like: really? you are hurting me now and you want to be friends in a few days? geez, give me some time to get over this...

meh...we didnt argue, or fight, or raised voices...civil...we are always friggin' civil and understanding and feeling each others vibes, and know our moods and what the other will say next...creepy, messed up, emotional crap 😢


geez...nice encouragement -> major BS on wheels...if you ask me... 😢


circus...
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than why don't I give you his email and you explain to that putz that he is about to skip from a guilt suffocating Pisces over a Gemini into an abyss of misery? He should know better by now...with all his assurances I never asked for and never even implied I want, but agreed just because it felt good.


how long is this crap going to last?


craps...again

now where is that jar for Hawaii trip? we should have at least once air fare saved up already tonight...
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because it worked on every level 😛 and he just does it for me...he is fine just the way he is, there is nothing I want changed about him, to the point that I know I have about 3-5 more year long deployments and that's ok...minus this brain fart of his about needing time to sort shit out and now going dead silent on me...wtf??

I think that's enough...

besides...have you seen our charts - craps it's because of him that I actually pay attention to it more lol...it all works