roamingfree
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ohh, how lovely...I got a call to break up (Page 6)
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Ok, in a perfect world what would you want happen with him, and is it possible to have it with HIM?
in a perfect world he would stop being so elusive, call me, make up and admit that he is scared poopless and that his feelings for me freak him out...and try to work through his life organizing problems with me along side.
yes, it is possible.
we feel each other. why not. we have exactly the same core values - all of them, all likes, dislikes, every single thing that I would want he has in him, and supposedly vice versa...it just works. I don't have even an inclination to make him something he is not...aside for this nonsense right now...
There is about 700 emails between him and I in a matter of a few months, with countless calls...you know...I should send you some of his emails and than you can get a better idea of his attachment...yes, we had arguments...but we communicate, we don't blame, we don't point fingers...we don't see that one or the other is at fault - we work it out effortlessly...
and when we are together...it's effortless...we read our minds, we know what's going on. always.
it's meant to be...but, it's not happening right now...
I'm stuck 😢
yes, it is possible.
we feel each other. why not. we have exactly the same core values - all of them, all likes, dislikes, every single thing that I would want he has in him, and supposedly vice versa...it just works. I don't have even an inclination to make him something he is not...aside for this nonsense right now...
There is about 700 emails between him and I in a matter of a few months, with countless calls...you know...I should send you some of his emails and than you can get a better idea of his attachment...yes, we had arguments...but we communicate, we don't blame, we don't point fingers...we don't see that one or the other is at fault - we work it out effortlessly...
and when we are together...it's effortless...we read our minds, we know what's going on. always.
it's meant to be...but, it's not happening right now...
I'm stuck 😢
craps he even told his mother and father about me
Shit, to be straight up and blunt. I think the dude's weak. There it is. I'm sensing that he doesn't believe that he's at her level, so he's running. At least that's my feeling.
My closest friend (Libra) did something similar to his Gemini girlfriend. But I told him he was weak too. Libra men can be hermits. It's the upbringing that should tell him to respect a "Woman" enough to face her like a man. A text? Fuck is that—
RF,
I tend to choose people in my life that I could rob a bank with. Look at it that way. From that you'll know what you're dealing with, with him.
I tend to choose people in my life that I could rob a bank with. Look at it that way. From that you'll know what you're dealing with, with him.
He obviously doesn't recognize that, LL. Because he has to have a frame of reference to do that. Or, he's just selfish. *shrugs*
That's exactly my point, LL. Need someone strong when the shit hits the fan, because there's a lot of shit, and a lot of fans.
Posted by LibraLuvPosted by GeminiMind
That's exactly my point, LL. Need someone strong when the shit hits the fan, because there's a lot of shit, and a lot of fans.
Great minds think alike my friend, great minds think alike.click to expand
YUP!!
* Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs?
They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.
They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.
Posted by little_sparrow
* Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs?
They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.
Nope. That couldn't be the furthest from the truth. A matriarch teaches a girl how to become a woman and to find a true man that won't put them through that shit. Period.
"Secrets" are for female deceivers, or there would be no need for secrets from your man, now would it? Most of those women can't keep a man anyway, let alone snare this one, so fuck them too.
As long as she got the point(s). Thanks for the grammatical correction.
Yup, you might have a bit of a buzz. I've got my snifter fill with Cognac trying to Ketchup. 😉
Posted by LibraLuv
What the hell is.... Jizz? I've seen a couple of you use that word.
Oh my goodness, LL! ROFL!! You got to get in tune with your inner white boy. HaHaHaHaHa!!!
He'll be back....the question is if you want him when he comes back.
You know what I thought first off? Dude just spent a long distance relationship overseas with a girl and its been roller coaster balancing that relationship and work....now he's back and suddenly he sees that there's more options than he had since he was deployed...real talk..he's exploring his options and seeing if you are who he wants...yep, its selfish but at least he broke it off instead of doing it behind your back..he's having his "fun"....you should too.
You know what I thought first off? Dude just spent a long distance relationship overseas with a girl and its been roller coaster balancing that relationship and work....now he's back and suddenly he sees that there's more options than he had since he was deployed...real talk..he's exploring his options and seeing if you are who he wants...yep, its selfish but at least he broke it off instead of doing it behind your back..he's having his "fun"....you should too.
Orr he could be telling you the truth....I dunno..ethier way, he's doing you a favor...go have some fun...go find sporty, scarey,posh, and ginger and have some fun!!
man i cant believe this shit is still goin on, why dont my threads reach 33 pages?
Posted by Pride of 0ctober
man i cant believe this shit is still goin on, why dont my threads reach 33 pages?
This one turned into a pseudo-party.
I wanna-aH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-really-really-really-wanna-zigga-zig AHH!
If you're looking for Scarey, I'm ya girl!!! RAh!!!
RAHH!!!Listen to the lyrics
If you're looking for Scarey, I'm ya girl!!! RAh!!!
RAHH!!!Listen to the lyrics
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
I wanna-aH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-really-really-really-wanna-zigga-zig AHH!
If you're looking for Scarey, I'm ya girl!!! RAh!!!
RAHH!!!Listen to the lyrics
No.
Posted by THEKingofLibraPosted by Pride of 0ctober
man i cant believe this shit is still goin on, why dont my threads reach 33 pages?
Because you are a danglerclick to expand
and i thought it was cuz im black
Posted by GeminiMindPosted by Pride of 0ctober
man i cant believe this shit is still goin on, why dont my threads reach 33 pages?
This one turned into a pseudo-party.click to expand
rather that then a sob story
Posted by THEKingofLibraPosted by Pride of 0ctoberPosted by THEKingofLibraPosted by Pride of 0ctober
man i cant believe this shit is still goin on, why dont my threads reach 33 pages?
Because you are a dangler
and i thought it was cuz im black
Nah being a guy is far worse than being black..click to expand
so what about being a black guy
he called.... at 8:30
we're still talking...
Libra...
we're still talking...
Libra...
Posted by LibraLuvPosted by GeminiMind
He obviously doesn't recognize that, LL. Because he has to have a frame of reference to do that. Or, he's just selfish. *shrugs*
True. Probably a bit of both. That damn pride always gets in the way. Roamingfree, let it go honey.
yessss
Posted by LibraLuv
You know, this really does speak volumes!!! If he can't go through tough times with you now. Would he be able to ever? Or is he going to be a coward and continue to run each and every time things get hard? You need someone to stick by you through thick and thin.
yessssss
Posted by GeminiMind
That's exactly my point, LL. Need someone strong when the shit hits the fan, because there's a lot of shit, and a lot of fans.click to expand
yessss
Posted by little_sparrow
* Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs?
They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.
and so now, they make their money, raise their kids and still suffer the same or more mistreatment... the higher the ambition, the more acutely mistreatment is felt...
Posted by LibraLuv
Now behave. We are trying to help roamingfree. Well, I think she knows what she has to do.
Posted by GeminiMindPosted by LibraLuv
What the hell is.... Jizz? I've seen a couple of you use that word.
Oh my goodness, LL! ROFL!! You got to get in tune with your inner white boy. HaHaHaHaHa!!!click to expand
...LL step away from the puter...KoL - you're a pig of pigs
Posted by roamingfreePosted by GeminiMindPosted by LibraLuv
What the hell is.... Jizz? I've seen a couple of you use that word.
Oh my goodness, LL! ROFL!! You got to get in tune with your inner white boy. HaHaHaHaHa!!!
...LL step away from the puter...KoL - you're a pig of pigsclick to expand
At least he's consistent. Unlike some of the other dxp users.
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
He'll be back....the question is if you want him when he comes back.
You know what I thought first off? Dude just spent a long distance relationship overseas with a girl and its been roller coaster balancing that relationship and work....now he's back and suddenly he sees that there's more options than he had since he was deployed...real talk..he's exploring his options and seeing if you are who he wants...yep, its selfish but at least he broke it off instead of doing it behind your back..he's having his "fun"....you should too.
yes. I know that. I considered that. and I understand this. I asked to be single before, when he pulled the whole thing of he doesn't know what he wants on me, and couldn't let go...and now as it is...we are friends...and friends he will get...he will sweat at it and choke and get all freaky as I move away and date, date, date, maybe even have a MOM (Moving On Man - not a rebound...) and he will not like it at all...
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Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
Orr he could be telling you the truth....I dunno..ethier way, he's doing you a favor...go have some fun...go find sporty, scarey,posh, and ginger and have some fun!!
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
Orr he could be telling you the truth....I dunno..ethier way, he's doing you a favor...go have some fun...go find sporty, scarey,posh, and ginger and have some fun!!click to expand
well...I think it's actually both...but...he doesn't do "stupid"...he's super smart, and so even if he does play the field...meh, I don't care, I know I got under his skin enough...
I'm single, I told him before I wanted to be until he figures it out and he refused to go, he couldn't...and so now he "has" - supposedly, but I know him well enough...we fuck each others minds in unison...we are too compatible and feel each other too well...
It's messed up how we are onto each others thoughts...
it's nice, though
now where is that money jar again?
Posted by GeminiMindPosted by Pride of 0ctober
man i cant believe this shit is still goin on, why dont my threads reach 33 pages?
This one turned into a pseudo-party.click to expand
😄...and it was soooo much fun fun fun...
I'm up for more more more
lol...craps...I'm feeling goooooood today - neurotic part comes out lol
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
I wanna-aH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-AH! I wanna-really-really-really-wanna-zigga-zig AHH!
If you're looking for Scarey, I'm ya girl!!! RAh!!!
RAHH!!!Listen to the lyrics
exactly 🙂
I want to open a bottle of wine and chill out...
Ok, you guys have fun. I have a pool tournament to play in. 😉 Luvs ya'll!
#2 glass of wine
I hope so - that thing with a cat is too freaking funny...after we talked it out, I said, I think I need to find a home for my cat, and he's like: I'll take her, she loves me! and I'm like: yeah, I know, you bugger - and he laughs...and I, in my speedy head think: oh yeah...you just wait, you'll get my kitty and you will not have any ever after, lol.
and so, my 4 year old cat that is a left over from my ex, will be shipped on a plane to the boy in question with all expenses paid, lol
I love this outcome...
he will look at that cat and think of me every time he pets it!
buahahahahahahahahaaaaaa
Lady Faith - I adore you1
I hope so - that thing with a cat is too freaking funny...after we talked it out, I said, I think I need to find a home for my cat, and he's like: I'll take her, she loves me! and I'm like: yeah, I know, you bugger - and he laughs...and I, in my speedy head think: oh yeah...you just wait, you'll get my kitty and you will not have any ever after, lol.
and so, my 4 year old cat that is a left over from my ex, will be shipped on a plane to the boy in question with all expenses paid, lol
I love this outcome...
he will look at that cat and think of me every time he pets it!
buahahahahahahahahaaaaaa
Lady Faith - I adore you1
Posted by GeminiMind
Ok, you guys have fun. I have a pool tournament to play in. 😉 Luvs ya'll!
we heart you too 🙂
Posted by LibraLuv
— — — Whoot Whoot... LMAO @ MYSELF.....hahaha... backing away from the puter now!
noooo.....come back....I want to spread the joy and feel good and thank you and everyone 🙂
you all are the best and I am really grateful for all your kind and honest words 🙂
Awwwwwwww!! Home from work and caught up now. —
awww VB
You're very welcome. 🙂 — Mmmm I like it, maybe kitty cat needs a lovely bit of your signature scent on its collar... for those moments when a purring bit o' love needs to curl up in a mans lap. *polishing and adjusting halo* 😉
pretty much, lol
I think the whole thing is so hilarious!
OMG!
What a merry predicament!
I think the whole thing is so hilarious!
OMG!
What a merry predicament!
I can't get the silly pic to post of the cat ;/ oh, well.
lmao!!!!
I can't stop laughing, well, more like howling at this cat thing going on between him and I, and I'm sure he sees the hilarity of it as well.
I can't stop laughing, well, more like howling at this cat thing going on between him and I, and I'm sure he sees the hilarity of it as well.
Wait a Mc-second... did I miss something here? Does he actually want the kitty or not? And I mean the actual c-a-t. The one that meows and hisses and leaves things in a litter pan.
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