ohh, how lovely...I got a call to break up (Page 6)

This topic was created in the Libra forum by roamingfree on Friday, April 22, 2011 and has 317 replies.

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

in a perfect world he would stop being so elusive, call me, make up and admit that he is scared poopless and that his feelings for me freak him out...and try to work through his life organizing problems with me along side.

yes, it is possible.

we feel each other. why not. we have exactly the same core values - all of them, all likes, dislikes, every single thing that I would want he has in him, and supposedly vice versa...it just works. I don't have even an inclination to make him something he is not...aside for this nonsense right now...
There is about 700 emails between him and I in a matter of a few months, with countless calls...you know...I should send you some of his emails and than you can get a better idea of his attachment...yes, we had arguments...but we communicate, we don't blame, we don't point fingers...we don't see that one or the other is at fault - we work it out effortlessly...
and when we are together...it's effortless...we read our minds, we know what's going on. always.

it's meant to be...but, it's not happening right now...

I'm stuck 😢

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Shit, to be straight up and blunt. I think the dude's weak. There it is. I'm sensing that he doesn't believe that he's at her level, so he's running. At least that's my feeling.

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

My closest friend (Libra) did something similar to his Gemini girlfriend. But I told him he was weak too. Libra men can be hermits. It's the upbringing that should tell him to respect a "Woman" enough to face her like a man. A text? Fuck is that—

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

RF,

I tend to choose people in my life that I could rob a bank with. Look at it that way. From that you'll know what you're dealing with, with him.

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21 Years5,000+ Posts

* Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs?

They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by little_sparrow
* Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs?

They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.

Nope. That couldn't be the furthest from the truth. A matriarch teaches a girl how to become a woman and to find a true man that won't put them through that shit. Period.

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

"Secrets" are for female deceivers, or there would be no need for secrets from your man, now would it? Most of those women can't keep a man anyway, let alone snare this one, so fuck them too.

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15 Years500+ Posts

He'll be back....the question is if you want him when he comes back.

You know what I thought first off? Dude just spent a long distance relationship overseas with a girl and its been roller coaster balancing that relationship and work....now he's back and suddenly he sees that there's more options than he had since he was deployed...real talk..he's exploring his options and seeing if you are who he wants...yep, its selfish but at least he broke it off instead of doing it behind your back..he's having his "fun"....you should too.

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@TheBeautifulStruggle
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Orr he could be telling you the truth....I dunno..ethier way, he's doing you a favor...go have some fun...go find sporty, scarey,posh, and ginger and have some fun!!

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by LibraLuv

Posted by GeminiMind
He obviously doesn't recognize that, LL. Because he has to have a frame of reference to do that. Or, he's just selfish. *shrugs*

True. Probably a bit of both. That damn pride always gets in the way. Roamingfree, let it go honey.

yessss

Posted by LibraLuv
You know, this really does speak volumes!!! If he can't go through tough times with you now. Would he be able to ever? Or is he going to be a coward and continue to run each and every time things get hard? You need someone to stick by you through thick and thin.

yessssss

Posted by GeminiMind
That's exactly my point, LL. Need someone strong when the shit hits the fan, because there's a lot of shit, and a lot of fans.

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yessss

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by little_sparrow
* Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs?

They taught their daughter in secret to earn their own money so they would never had to suffer the mistreatment of a man as they had done.

and so now, they make their money, raise their kids and still suffer the same or more mistreatment... the higher the ambition, the more acutely mistreatment is felt...

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Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
He'll be back....the question is if you want him when he comes back.

You know what I thought first off? Dude just spent a long distance relationship overseas with a girl and its been roller coaster balancing that relationship and work....now he's back and suddenly he sees that there's more options than he had since he was deployed...real talk..he's exploring his options and seeing if you are who he wants...yep, its selfish but at least he broke it off instead of doing it behind your back..he's having his "fun"....you should too.

yes. I know that. I considered that. and I understand this. I asked to be single before, when he pulled the whole thing of he doesn't know what he wants on me, and couldn't let go...and now as it is...we are friends...and friends he will get...he will sweat at it and choke and get all freaky as I move away and date, date, date, maybe even have a MOM (Moving On Man - not a rebound...) and he will not like it at all...

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Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
Orr he could be telling you the truth....I dunno..ethier way, he's doing you a favor...go have some fun...go find sporty, scarey,posh, and ginger and have some fun!!

Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
Orr he could be telling you the truth....I dunno..ethier way, he's doing you a favor...go have some fun...go find sporty, scarey,posh, and ginger and have some fun!!

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well...I think it's actually both...but...he doesn't do "stupid"...he's super smart, and so even if he does play the field...meh, I don't care, I know I got under his skin enough...

I'm single, I told him before I wanted to be until he figures it out and he refused to go, he couldn't...and so now he "has" - supposedly, but I know him well enough...we fuck each others minds in unison...we are too compatible and feel each other too well...
It's messed up how we are onto each others thoughts...
it's nice, though

now where is that money jar again?

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15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

#2 glass of wine

I hope so - that thing with a cat is too freaking funny...after we talked it out, I said, I think I need to find a home for my cat, and he's like: I'll take her, she loves me! and I'm like: yeah, I know, you bugger - and he laughs...and I, in my speedy head think: oh yeah...you just wait, you'll get my kitty and you will not have any ever after, lol.

and so, my 4 year old cat that is a left over from my ex, will be shipped on a plane to the boy in question with all expenses paid, lol

I love this outcome...
he will look at that cat and think of me every time he pets it!
buahahahahahahahahaaaaaa

Lady Faith - I adore you1

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by LibraLuv
— — — Whoot Whoot... LMAO @ MYSELF.....hahaha... backing away from the puter now!

noooo.....come back....I want to spread the joy and feel good and thank you and everyone 🙂

you all are the best and I am really grateful for all your kind and honest words 🙂

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

You're very welcome. 🙂 — Mmmm I like it, maybe kitty cat needs a lovely bit of your signature scent on its collar... for those moments when a purring bit o' love needs to curl up in a mans lap. *polishing and adjusting halo* 😉

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

lmao!!!!

I can't stop laughing, well, more like howling at this cat thing going on between him and I, and I'm sure he sees the hilarity of it as well.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Wait a Mc-second... did I miss something here? Does he actually want the kitty or not? And I mean the actual c-a-t. The one that meows and hisses and leaves things in a litter pan.