One Helluva Confused Libra (Page 2)

you don't need to worry about me coming back.

Little Sparrow

I have to agree with Latinaindia...I believe that some Libras do enjoy knowing that you are into them...I feel this way about atoms situation...If someone confronted me again and again I believe I would separate myself from that person until they could control their emotions..Why hasn't she done this?? She is either unsure of having a relationship with him or he's giving her something she needs...She is not innocent in this situation, maybe he is a safety net for her, or maybe she needs this kind of attention because she's insecure....Honestly, how many of you ladies would continue to hang out with a guy
(for years) who you knew was in love with you?? Knowing that you are hurting him over and over again...

I think atom is just hurt and needs support, sometimes it's hard to see and accept the truth...

Atom take it all in and learn from it...Everybody is just trying to help you...
I was upset and angry after reading some posts as well..When I first started on the posts, I thought my Libra did love me and was just scared , I couldn't understand what he was doing and why he was being so cold...Now I can see that he wasn't ready for a relationship and that I had to let it go...I sucked up all the responses good and bad but I was ready when he came back, and I stood my ground for what I wanted and what I deserve,
he has cut contact again, but I feel good knowing that I was strong enough to resist what he was offering...And I got that strength from within and from the people here....

***At this point my contributions seem to be of little value, just fodder that riles up negativity. I don't like that; so if I "go silent" for awhile, I hope you understand.***

Look dammit! You better not go anywhere! That's an order!

Seriously, who cares if people agree or disagree with others, that is what keeps these threads interesting. It is an opinion and sounding board for us all. No one ever has to agree with another. It is a great place to see where people are in their heads as well as their lives, meaning. People are different, that is what makes us all unique. It is wonderful to me, even disagreements. I always seem to learn something from them.

So don't go!!! I don't appreciate the fact that libr girl has got you in this mood, but I will say, it is up to you to let her actions continue to affect you or not. It isn't up to her. It is up to you.

Atom, I ask you this. If one of your other close friends decided to spend less time with you would you feel this way? Probably not. You are very emotionally invested and she isn't, not in the same way. So accept it, deal with it or move on. Simple.

Luv ya, hope you stick around....