Libra&Libra

What do you think of this combination? Too much laziness, boredom, and indecisiveness?

Or could they make a romantic pair?

Anyone experienced this?

--hmmmm--

My uncle libra married a libra woman. They seem blissfully happy and are approaching year 20.

I have never dated a libra. To be honest, I don't know many libra men. I know tons of libra ladies though. 😄

I know a libra guy. I haven't ever felt a real romantic interest in him, but then again, I never felt like he had such feelings for me. Recently it came to my attention through a friend that he does. It sort of intrigues me, but I'm involved with someone right now.

I think as libras we both like to be pursued and don't much care to do the pursuing so we were at a stand still when the time was right. For now, it's just friends for us and a wonderful friendship at that.

((I know a libra guy. I haven't ever felt a real romantic interest in him, but then again, I never felt like he had such feelings for me. ))

I always got intense feelings for libra girls every time i met one. Even when i meet them online, its quite beautiful. But then obviously we dont say it out loud or try to chase them down. There has been always a tug of war between respect and love when it was a libra girl on the other side. Its not deliberate. quite an automatic brain process i guess. Either I confessed I like them right in the beginning or I kept quite and mentioned it after years. I always wanted them to have the best and had that big doubt if they might find themselves in a miserable position if they end up being with me. That was one reason to keep silence. And then i never tried to chase them when they were seeing someone. And obviously a libra will always be in love with someone. So to get a gap to reintroduce myself hardly ever happens.

(( To be honest, I don't know many libra men. ))

now its too late. Since you found an Aries, its better to stay there and build it up to your best. You will find it equally amazing.

I think Nic would say it can be a perfect combo...

Romantically I prefer a more reserve and quiet man so air signs don't do it for me...they talk to much. Is that crazy or what, me being a Libra and all.... As friends go airs signs are great but as a lover we just don't hit it off very long. Go Figure!

My best friend is a libra man..but i would never date him!! He?s a lot like me...what a nightmare!! Hhahaha, and his relationship history is even more disasterous...the longest was 3 months, and he is 32!!

(( As friends go airs signs are great but as a lover we just don't hit it off very long. Go Figure! ))

How can you be sure that a good friend wont make a good lover? What is love if there is no mutual respect and understanding? At any given point of time, a close friend has more respect and understanding than this so called lover category. What we think we need to be happy and what we really need to be happy are way different. We are psychologically manipulated by the society to buy a common perspective on love and relationships which is far away from reality.

libra/libra.... what we'd go through is similar to that song---> again and again by john legend...

LovelyLibra.. that's funny you mention that song.. reminds me a lot of the relationship I had with my libra exhusband before we were married. Very exhausting, but in the end I got him.. but now did I actually want him since he is my EX?? I dunno if the chase is worth it with these guys.

My exlibra was way emotional all the time, but my current libra has no emotions.. go figure.

"How can you be sure that a good friend wont make a good lover?" For me, it has never happened...I just can't seem to think of a friend as a lover. Maybe I have some mental block or something.

(( For me, it has never happened...I just can't seem to think of a friend as a lover. Maybe I have some mental block or something. ))

I think we all carry that mental block. atleast thats what i have observed around this society. We tend to ignore our good friends and chase the non friendly-horny ones a lot. Logically a friend is a better parter than anyone else. But then society has blinded us to distinguish a friend and a lover as two different aspects. Often we find ourselves trusting our friend and totally honest with them bcoz we are not trying to sleep with them. thats exactly what builds the bond and thats exactly what creates all troubles in a love relationship - we are afraid to be honest.

That song is my life story with my libra ex-lover. When it's over, you know it hasn't really ended and wonder if it ever will.

Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas are both Libras.

naomi watts and Liev Schreiber are libras. Its not a sure bet. 50-50 chance. if it works, it works good. else it fails real bad.

"if it works, it works good. else it fails real bad." So So true....my brother and son are Libras and trust me we're good together or real bad together nothing in between.

***I think we all carry that mental block. atleast thats what i have observed around this society. We tend to ignore our good friends and chase the non friendly-horny ones a lot. Logically a friend is a better parter than anyone else. But then society has blinded us to distinguish a friend and a lover as two different aspects. ***

I totally agree with you thelibran. Very true!

Im libra the man is libra..we were making plans to meet last night like this:
"what do you want to do..go out or stay in with a dvd"?
"dont know, its up to you..im happy either way"
"well i dont mind what we do, i?m a bit tired but i dont mind going out if you want to"
"ok, do you want to meet for coffee?"
"no, i prefer to stay at home"
"grrrrrrr....why not just say that the first time" lol!!!!!

lol... we always prefer to stay at home. we are always tired. and we prefer to have more time alone with our partner than running around the streets. I see its slightly different for a libra girl.

Yeah, im glad we stayed in..having a cuddle on the sofa, aaahhhhh, it was lovely. He?s affectionate without being sickening, it was loverly 🙂

"I think Nic would say it can be a perfect combo..."

I could write a book. Ultimately I agree with Libran, theres a 50/50 chance because Libra males and females can be so different and damaged Libra males and females both are impossible.

I am almost a year into the most joyous, smooth, intense and securing relationship I have ever been in. The initial attraction was intense, but it came together very different than most relationships do "or" should. She was the fiancee of my former boss/friend and we would often the three of us go out together and hang at each others houses together. I never gave her much if any thought, but in the nine or so months that was going on I was able to observe her without getting close to her and never attempted to and was able to use her as a benchmark so to speak. She had a lot of traits that I wanted in a partner but I always respected that boundry. I never considered she had an attraction to me, she masked it well. Then one night when we were all together she kissed me and the rest is history.

For a long time we were both afraid we were going to get hurt. The common libra trait of liking to fall last, but we always put that aside and let ourselves fall for each other anyway rather being afraid of being hurt than not experiencing our true potential. That fear has since been put to rest. We both always been more independant in relationships. Taking a lot of time to ourselves to not feel suffocated. We take a lot of time for each other. We love doing everything together. I am in the midst of landing a new private contracting job as the director of the fugitive recovery department of a multi-state bail bond agency and if I do....she will probably quit her job to help me out. I would love that....that is the kind of relationship we have. A real sense of team work and togetherness. We have a basic level of understanding for one another that keeps us from assuming the worst about one another. We always consider the other persons strengths first and take comfort in knowing that we both do things for a reason and all of those little things have the ultimate motivation of spending the rest of our lives together. That is how it goes day to day with us. I is amazing. and the Passion and sex? Forget about it. Iv'e finally met my match 😉

Good Luck Nicodemus!

Nic: "We love doing everything together"

Ultimate Libra bliss!

I'm smiling.....it's good to see people happy 🙂

Sweet Jesus Nic..im so happy for you 🙂

Thanks. I think two libras really hit it off or really don't because there is a mirror effect. There is so much similarity that after the excitement of seeing all of the positive similarities you start to see the negative too. You start to realize that judging the other person is most always ironic because it is the same, or the similar to yourself.

Doing everything together is often Libra stress. Wanting to do everything together is Libra bliss. I have had many girlfriends that want to do everything with me and she is the only one that doesn't make me feel claustrophobic and in return I want to do everything with her. Guys invite me on a guys night out and I either turn it down or ask to make it a couples night out because when it comes down to it I don't feel like I need to get away for a few hours let alone want to get away for a few hours. But, if for some reason I needed to I could without making her feel bad.

It isn't all rosey. Libra and Libra argue and disagree just like every other couple. What I have found that helps a lot and cancells out the Libra/Scorp phenomenon where the scorp gets angry and agressive and the Libra just closes them off. This is because both people are more concentrated on the dreaded feeling of the other person being upset/not understanding them and even if it takes all night (and it sometimes does) both are willing to hash it out to get rid of that painful feeling. I like that. Sometimes when the arguments are really bad it ends after a couple hours because we both argued it out ourselves in our own head and we both tell each other I'm sorry, I hate fighting with you, I love you too much to feel like this. And were back to normal.

WONDERFUL NIC!!!! I am happy you have found this so early... Just remember the important things that got you guys to this stage as the years pass... Cheers!!!

Great..im excited to see where this current libra/libra thang might go, ??m quietly optimistic.

"Often we find ourselves trusting our friend and totally honest with them bcoz we are not trying to sleep with them. thats exactly what builds the bond and thats exactly what creates all troubles in a love relationship - we are afraid to be honest."

That can't be anymore true.

Im libra the man is libra..we were making plans to meet last night like this:
"what do you want to do..go out or stay in with a dvd"?
"dont know, its up to you..im happy either way"
"well i dont mind what we do, i?m a bit tired but i dont mind going out if you want to"
"ok, do you want to meet for coffee?"
"no, i prefer to stay at home"
"grrrrrrr....why not just say that the first time" lol!!!!!

Ha Ha... One better than mine...
Our plan making was more like...
So what do you want to do?
It doesn't matter, what do you wanna do?
I don't care...
Me either...
So what are we doing—
You tell me...
~SILENCE~...still no decision...

i used to have similar talks with my libra colleague during lunch break trying to decide where to eat and what to eat. she keeps driving till one of us make a decision left or right. lol...

LMAO...you guys are hilarious in the cutest of ways!!

Yeah, its cute for 5 minutes and then it gets annoying!!!

Well, i would like to ask the man if he wants to go to the cinema with me on Saturday night..i have the girls coming for dinner tomorrow so cant make plans for then..what do you think..what if he says no....im scared.

You are scared
good
this means there is a greater chance that he " means something " to you
and if he truly does
you'll call and put yourself out there
have faith in yourself

you don't wanna sit around wondering " what if ? "

I did and he said no. "what if" is better than rejection 😢

what if is much worse
now that you know
you can move on with your life

One no isn't enough though...come on!!! tenacity sometimes wins in the end 🙂

Not for me it doesnt. I asked once and i wont ask again..that?s just how it is with me.

He said he couldnt see me because he was preparing for work for the week ahead..what an excuse?? I?m a teacher..i know what it is to be prepared for work and it doesnt take all fucking weekend. Anyways, i went out and had a good time, even though he ruined it because i was distracted by rejection. You know, i just cant be bothered with the effort..especially when there?s no reciprocation. I can take it if he says "i cant see you today/this weekend/week, but why dont we try and get together on this/that day instead?" You know, like and alternative arrangement..too fucking sensible, or is he hoping i?ll be spending the next few months chasing him?? Well he got that wrong..he?s gone..easy!!!!!

You go gurrlfriend!