Random text message from a Libra male

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Hellkatt on Wednesday, March 22, 2023 and has 4 replies.

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@Hellkatt
3 Years

So, I posted a while back about a Libra friend (male) that I had a FWB situation with. (More of a one night stand for me).

Anyway, I guy off the FWB due to my feelings getting in the way and knowing that it would not be a good fit for me.

I have not really communicated with him in two weeks. Suddenly I wake up to a text from him saying that he was on break and thinking about me so he figured he'd see if I had any plans tonight. I simply told him that I had to pick up my boys who had been on a three week business trip and left it at that. lol

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@LuckyLibra7
3 Years500+ Posts

Sighhh..

You've already determined he's not a good fit for you and felt you're not his type. Why are you playing games?

Cut him loose and politely say it's not going to work.

Unless you want his attention. Because men typically don't read between the lines when women say they're busy.

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@Lostthoughts
6 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Hellkatt
So, I posted a while back about a Libra friend (male) that I had a FWB situation with. (More of a one night stand for me).

Anyway, I guy off the FWB due to my feelings getting in the way and knowing that it would not be a good fit for me.

I have not really communicated with him in two weeks. Suddenly I wake up to a text from him saying that he was on break and thinking about me so he figured he'd see if I had any plans tonight. I simply told him that I had to pick up my boys who had been on a three week business trip and left it at that. lol

Why lie to him about what's going on with you?

And describe these feeling?

Because developing feelings through intimacy is completely normal. We are wired to bond through different forms of intimacy.

Have you begun to wonder emotionally if you can get more out of the relationship then just sex?

Or maybe you, him, or both of you choose fwb because not having time for relationship or desire to have one for each other?

Like I said, why lie to him?

Describe your feelings?

P.S. Sex with someone you actually like or have some kind of connection with is 10x better anyway😏

From reading the situation of your last topic, I'd say you definitely have some care taker in you and you are his emotional support. That's perfectly fine just know your boundaries and what this is about for you.