Should I message that Libra woman?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by CatTheKat on Monday, October 15, 2018 and has 15 replies.

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@CatTheKat
7 Years

There's a Libra woman who doesn't seem to understand that my Gemini husband is in a relationship. They've only know each other for 3 weeks. They've only talked online. But she invited him to a bar. I happen to have talked to her, due to a common activity we do. I constantly refer to my husband as such. As I've been doing in our gaming group for years.

This weekend, she asked my husband in a private message how serious it is between us ...... My Gemini husband can be flirty, but without realizing it. Not the first this happened to him. Except this time, the Libra. Who is young (23) and apparently a lesbian, is constantly messaging him. Sending him heavy flirting message. Making sex jokes to him personally. Insinuated that she would change team with the right man. And she's been signaling it to my husband.

I don't know what my husband said to her, but I want to message that girl and make her understand.

Being rude isn't my thing, and I read Libra hates that anyway. So I was thinking:

Wasn't sure how to approach you about this. It's been troubling me since he's told me.

Gemini told me about a conversation you two had, where you talked about me.

Can I ask you how that came about? He told me you also invited him to a bar, and what you two talked about. Gemini and I have been a thing for a decade. I'm just wondering what your intentions are with him. And why you would talk about me like you asked for a confirmation that he's single or something. Are you interested in him?

What should I do? I don't know any Libras in my life. The only other Libra I met, is a woman who was after my husband a few years back.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Drop the Gemini.

You don't even know what he said to her to make her feel comfortable to say what she did.

And...whatever he said is serious enough to warrant you slipping your crown to confront some 3rd party.

But..if do wanna message her..The question is why aren't you referring to him as HUSBAND rather as the gemini in your message. And that you've "been a thing". What is a "thing"?

"Stop Messaging my Husband"

That's your tree. Piss on it

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@LibraSupreme
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Libras can be notorious flirts and the thrill of the hunt will appease there cockiness like nothing else. Address the problem immediately with your husband for entertaining it this long.

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@MephistoZap
8 Years

I wouldn’t just ignore the fact she’s a “lesbian” lol. I’ve had bisexual and lesbians hit on me before. It sounds to me like she has a crush on him.

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@AriesJo
11 Years500+ Posts

Sounds like you need to keep the evidence safe in case you go through a divorce. You need to talk to your husband and ask him if he’s willing to throw away the marriage for this. And act like you will leave if it comes down to it. He sounds like a jerk.