Scalez & Tailz

Hey everyone... I'm new to the forum so be patient with me while I get acquainted with everything. Okay, so here goes... I met this Scorpio guy about a year or so ago (while my marriage to my Taurus/Gemini cusp) husband was very turbulent. We hit things off almost instantly. The relationship between us is beautiful; HOWEVER he's a single guy and he stated on many occasions that he wanted he and I to be exclusive. So obviously that wasn't going to happen because I'm still married. So, to make a long story short, my Scorpio recently found himself a female companion. Truthfully I'm kinda crushed but I know their is nothing that I can do being married. I want to leave him alone but he's not really wanting to listen to that. Along with that, he won't "claim" the young lady as his girlfriend. I don't get that part. Scales and Tailz, I need y'all's input. I don't want to end it in a way that we'll hate each other.

Just become polygamists. Problem solved.

Posted by tiziani
This thread scripts itself.

What does that mean?

Posted by TheLibraMudra
there's no help here when you're f uckin married, dude.

Why not? I mean he's a pretty cool guy... I don't want him

to plot some sort of "Scorpio" revenge on me...

Posted by jeane
Just become polygamists. Problem solved.

If my husband would go for it I would lol

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Posted by jeane
Just become polygamists. Problem solved.

If my husband would go for it I would lol

What do you mean if your husband would go for it? He is already in that type of relationship without even knowing it.. And you "lol" about it.. smh

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Ooh I like it when you are feisty.

Posted by TheLibraMudra
This shit is infuriating lmao

Not trying to infuriate you by far... Have you ever been stuck in a love triangle?!

Posted by blackphase

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Posted by jeane
Just become polygamists. Problem solved.

If my husband would go for it I would lol

What do you mean if your husband would go for it? He is already in that type of relationship without even knowing it.. And you "lol" about it.. smh

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He's not in that type of relationship because I'm not dealing with the guy anymore... Yes, my husband found out about the affair and we have since then started counseling... And I said what I said about the other guy because I found out after the fact that he has stalker tendencies... Sorry if you don't like it but intend to LOL a lot... It just in my personality ——??

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Posted by jeane
Just become polygamists. Problem solved.

If my husband would go for it I would lol

What do you mean if your husband would go for it? He is already in that type of relationship without even knowing it.. And you "lol" about it.. smh

He's not in that type of relationship because I'm not dealing with the guy anymore... Yes, my husband found out about the affair and we have since then started counseling... And I said what I said about the other guy because I found out after the fact that he has stalker tendencies... Sorry if you don't like it but intend to LOL a lot... It just in my personality ——??

Nah, it just seemed like an inappropriate place for a LOL.

And if these stalker tendencies peek out, deal with them when they arise.. Your husband is not in the dark anymore and he chose to stay with you and work on this, so he is clearly on your side and likely will not tolerate someone stalking you right? You are in counseling now, but you are still not focused on your marriage.. hence this thread..

Forget about him and what he "might" do.. Focus on the marriage you decided to work on.

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Oh, okay. Thanks for your input. Is it alright if I at least smile? LOL — #sarcasm

Posted by TheLibraMudra
I hope your husband is getting some nice, tight ass behind your back as well.

Ouch.... Why so mean?! — maybe he is though...

Posted by TheLibraMudra
You're trollin.

Whoooo are you?

I guess there are humans out there like this, though.

Nope... Not trolling at all... I'm just not an uptight person... I realize that I made a mistake with having an affair, but I only came here to moreso vent and ask a question, not to start ongoing brawl or anything. But I do realize that my participation on this site is voluntary, so I just LOL at the "slick jabs" It's not that serious to me. And by the way, my name is Amy.

Enjoy the rest of your evening...

Stories like this are annoying to people who are loyal..

I mean why don't you just divorce your husband? Has he cheated on you? If not.. Just leave. What's the point of being married?

It's just ridiculous to me..

Posted by jane84
Stories like this are annoying to people who are loyal..

I mean why don't you just divorce your husband? Has he cheated on you? If not.. Just leave. What's the point of being married?

It's just ridiculous to me..

I understand how it can annoy you... And it may seem ridiculous. And to answer your question, no he hasn't cheated that I know of. However other things happened in our relationship that resulted in me cheating on him. Divorce was on the table as well, however our children didn't adapt well to our few weeks separation, so me being me, I will not allow my children to suffer so here we are. Trying to fix it.

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Posted by jane84
Stories like this are annoying to people who are loyal..

I mean why don't you just divorce your husband? Has he cheated on you? If not.. Just leave. What's the point of being married?

It's just ridiculous to me..

I understand how it can annoy you... And it may seem ridiculous. And to answer your question, no he hasn't cheated that I know of. However other things happened in our relationship that resulted in me cheating on him. Divorce was on the table as well, however our children didn't adapt well to our few weeks separation, so me being me, I will not allow my children to suffer so here we are. Trying to fix it.

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I see. Dang.. Well I don't believe in cheating. My ex was a Taurus and there were many reasons why I wanted to leave him at the end. I never cheated on him though. He did. So yeah I don't like hearing stories about it or agree with it. I just divorced him rather than stayed and suffered... But we didn't have kids. That's hard for sure. Either way, I'm sure that's hard on them.