Scorpio Man Libra Woman can it work?

I met my libra wife at work and it was instant chemistry everything about her drew me in. I was at the end of a 5 year relationship at the time so we treaded lightly to start but it was tough due to the insane chemistry. Once I separated we moved into a relationship that we hid from everyone at work in her request. And we had some problems due to this but we worked through them even though we separated once and I slept with a girl out of spite the night of our split. She found out which caused problems but also drew her back to me I believe. Anyways we moved forward with our relationship even after I found texts and FB messages from other guys dating back to before our split and weeks into us getting back together. She says she never slept with anyone only dated as she wasn't sure of me. We stayed together and we got married 11 months after we met. We are now married for 6 months and she lies... over stupid little stuff... and I get jealous and question her every move when I feel threatened. She is a flirt always and doesn't even realize how bad it is... lol. She has guy friends and they are really close with him texting at all hours up to 2 am she doesn't respond but I believe he takes her flirting as a sign and it pisses me off. She has recently lied about money and what she spent at the store then following that up with several lies trying to cover the 1st one. As a scorpio it drives me crazy and makes me not trust her on bigger things. Is this normal with Libras? I love her with every ounce of my being and she says she loves me and would never do anything to jeopardize our marriage. My question I guess is, is this normal Libra behavior or should I trust my scorpio instincts that these little lies are covering up something bigger? Are any of you in this type of relationship? Help I'm driving myself crazy thinking something is going on....

Idk seems like yall not that compatible. Eventually its going bump heads. My thing is u lie about something small u can lie about something big. 11 months isnt a long time so basically yall known eachother for like almost 2 ye total. I dont think this is a sign thing but a character issue

We have alot in common actually I'm just highlighting the bad so perhaps that is where it comes off a little odd. We both enjoy watching football on Sundays, listening to music together, going to concerts, we have an amazing sex life. And the majority of the time things are fine. In fact this lying only started when I got to into my games and stopped giving her all my attention. We go out on dates once a week again now and I'm working and things have got better but I still worry about this lie and if something happened when we were fighting badly a month ago.

I know the importance of trust when in love with a Scorpio. I know about the spite thing that happens when you break up. I also know a Libra and they are very social people. Not saying they would sleep around because I think that is an individual choice.

As a Taurus woman, I naturally focus full attention on my man. I see nothing else. I speak to no other guys except at my work at the hospital and I don't flirt. I am nice and I do get attention because I look good and I'm nice but do not give off those vibes. I have nothing to lie about because I'm not doing anything to lie about. I am upfront, an honest person, but that is me naturally. I don't have to feel like I need to cover my butt because I am just minding my own business as I go about my business - which is taking care of our business and focusing on the relationship. But that is me.

I know it's driving you crazy as a Scorpio but I don't know what to tell you to do about that. Personally, I am old-fashioned and feel that a wife should not be getting calls and texts from other men. It creates a suspicious atmosphere so your feelings are warranted for sure. Not saying she is doing anything but it surely doesn't sound right to me. I can't stand the lying thing. I mean why? Other than trying to hide something, there is absolutely no reason to lie.

I agree 100% the lies are the worst especially when she gets caught but still lies... I should add the guy texting late at night is her boss and they are usually about a game that they all play at her work. She never answers the texts but regardless I see no reason for him to text that late.

Posted by Chuckyslim
I agree 100% the lies are the worst especially when she gets caught but still lies... I should add the guy texting late at night is her boss and they are usually about a game that they all play at her work. She never answers the texts but regardless I see no reason for him to text that late.

well duh yes if she is not answering then he should just not be doing that anymore - what is his problem for sure - tell her that you don't like it and that he/she needs to stop that type of activity after work hours - a good wife/person would understand and stop that type of activity if their spouse was bothered by it which any normal spouse would be - if he doesn't like it, she can surely find another job - if that was me, I would say pay me for working overtime then lol

I spend 40 hours a week working with the people I work with - no, I don't want to do to picnics and Christmas parties with these same people blah blah - it's my job, these are not my friends, I'm friendly but these are just the people I work with - again, that is just how I am

I was married to a Scorpio man, I'm a Libra woman. I know the intensity you speak of. Things we're always intense the good and the bad. It ended horribly. That's just my experience tho. Tread lightly until you're sure that you guys can work through problems well.

As a Libra, I can tell you that it's pretty normal behavior BUT while she may consciously think it's innocent, subconsciously something else may be going on. Here's the thing, Libras are always looking for the best option. They can be madly in love but if someone shows up who has more of what she perceives she needs, she will weigh in her mind who the best option is and then either decide the current is better or move towards the new. And it's not a conscious thing. It just happens.

Libras are definitely a social sign and can tell you that all that messaging means nothing, but I don't buy that. It's disrespectful to your marriage. I can say that because I used to do stuff like that in my 20s and early 30s. It took a divorce and 2 years of dating to realize the "right" way to be in a relationship. I never cheated physically, but I sure had some emotionally inappropriate relationships at times, even while proclaiming that there was nothing going on.

From what I can tell, Libra/Scorpio works on a sexual level but Scorpio is too jealous, secretive and suspicious and Libra is too flirty, flighty and social. It causes a lot of problems, especially since you slept with another girl out of spite when you broke. A Libra woman will ALWAYS remember that. And once trust is broken, it's hard to ever truly get it back.

I really wish you guys luck and hope it works out for the best!!

Posted by Impulsv
It's inappropriate to text at 2 am
I'd text back n say he needs to stop it

They key is why does this boss feel ok to text her at 2am whatever pretense

Exactly! She has set it up to be ok for him to text her at 2 am. He's not only doing that, she's allowing it to happen.

I am a good advocate. I have always been one to step out of the crowd and stand up to it … often with my stomach in my throat. I live by speak the truth even if your voice shakes.

I do see this as a Libra trait. We are the sign of justice and the sign of military leadership and strategy. Scorpio is the sign of rebirth. The get revenge when you aren’t looking but a Libra will take a stand in a bold way.

yikes, i hope nothing but the best in your marriage, but im sure you saw signs of this before getting married. You said she was talking to other guys, shouldn't have that been a red flag?

All Libras, just like all signs, are different so i wont say all of them possess the traits your girl has. They can be really flirty and charming w/o realizing the impact it has but not when they are in a committed relationship. I'm not saying she's cheating or anything I just think its strange....

Posted by littlesparrow
I am a good advocate. I have always been one to step out of the crowd and stand up to it … often with my stomach in my throat. I live by speak the truth even if your voice shakes.

I do see this as a Libra trait. We are the sign of justice and the sign of military leadership and strategy. Scorpio is the sign of rebirth. The get revenge when you aren’t looking but a Libra will take a stand in a bold way.

I think you're right. If he knows she loves him whomever texting at 2a.m. is a toy. Nothing serious. But it's also disrespectful to the marriage something similar to what she feels was done to her. Now she's taking a bold stand.
Scorpio should learn and lead in more trustworthy position and his world will be good once again.

Posted by 2Moon
Here is a picture of pewdiepie with his libra girlfriend

I looked him up. he's a libra/scorpio cusper.

wow they have him on astrotheme!!!

libra mars, mercury, Lilith on the 7th. NO wonder they "get" eachother and are harmoniouis. LIbra/Libra dominant, 7th housers CONSISTENT.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/PewDiePie

and his venus is in sag.

good find!

Posted by IllaLupus

Posted by tcta
I As a Taurus woman, I naturally focus full attention on my man. I see nothing else. I speak to no other guys except at my work at the hospital and I don't flirt. I am nice and I do get attention because I look good and I'm nice but do not give off those vibes. I have nothing to lie about because I'm not doing anything to lie about. I am upfront, an honest person, but that is me naturally. I don't have to feel like I need to cover my butt because I am just minding my own business as I go about my business - which is taking care of our business and focusing on the relationship. But that is me.

Okay yeah and you are a Taurus and not a Libra so I'm not sure why you'd bring up that when he's not asking about how you are as a Taurus? Lol

Anyway OP it's disrespectful for her to be engaging in text messages to other men, especially considering the relationship was a secret in her workplace. I say disrespectful because we already know what those texts consist of. You sleeping with someone because of her shit was dumb, but she's a fuckstick for entering a relationship being "unsure" about you and still seeking out other men. If it's still happening she still isn't sure.

I'm a Libra dominant and I've been with and lived with a Scorpio for what will be 3 years, it's possible if you are looking at sun signs but you cannot have someone with wet feet as your wife. I'm sorry but you shouldn't have married her until both of you straightened shit out. Lay it all out there on the table for her and let her know what's up. Indecision can be a fatal flaw for the venusian...

Post both of your charts

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okay yeah and not sure why my opinion as a Taurus woman would bother you enough to have to mention this to me but whatever Lol

Expect a lot of turbulence and a very tumultuous, volatile relationship especially in the long term. Good luck.

What are your Venus and Mars combinations? I do not think the Scorpio and Libra combo work - the only time I have ever thought about literally putting my hands around someone's neck - was a Scorpio boyfriend.