hopelessdreamr
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SPARROW the Ish has finally hit the fan...
🙂)i felt like adding more.. i mean i just dont get it. he acts like we just met 3 months ago.. he tells me without tellin me that we NOT together..we HAVENT ben and we WONT be cause all these games..at least thats wat i get from the sh-- he does put out there.. then he turns around and says he loves me and he dont know y i play so many games..then i just wana punch him in his mouth for tellin me that..sayin that to me wen i play all these games...i dont understand..hes just all outta order.>!. then he says and does little things that wood imply me being his.. he says i am hes just soo..i dont understand..he really blows my mind..!!.. like every time we talk now..with some more shit hell say, make me be like wat the f---
oke im through.. i hope u write me today need my beauty sleep so wen i see him at the club i can shake my assets 🙂 alll up n his space
oke im through.. i hope u write me today need my beauty sleep so wen i see him at the club i can shake my assets 🙂 alll up n his space
HAhahahaha, Click the link on the bottom of this post
Hi, I replied to you via email so check your inbox.
I dated a Virgo once. The guy made me crazy. I don't know why I didn't notice what sign he was until NOW that you posted it a million times. It just flew over my head. There's a guy here, name is Branh. He's pretty vocal on these chats, I'll see if I can find him and get him to read your posts.
Anyway, the Virgo made me insane. Same thing as you're saying. He never took me seriously. I didn't joke around with him though. I was very normal, going to college and all that. He just simply could NOT beleive that I liked him. That's it. Nothing I could do would change his mind...(I never slept with him, not my style ) Anyway, he seriously thought i didn't like him. I don't know what his issues were either.
So I finally just said "to hell with it" and I found someone else a few months later. Dating him was an excersize in tolerance. He was putting me down all the time and telling me that my friends were morons.
He was heavily involved in politics and would seem, from the outside, to have his stuff "together." But Wow, I don't know if it was insecurity or what. I mean, he was HEAVILY involved in politics and ran for a local position.
Anyway, once he found out I had moved on with my life he went ballistic. He started prank calling my house non-stop. Then he would do wierd things to my car (get inside of it and turn on all the lights so by the time evening came my car was lit up like a Christmas tree, very wierd) anyway, I had to call the police because I had no idea who was doing all this. He'd leave criptic messages on my answering machine, really scary.
The police traced the calls to him. He had to go to the police station and he denied everything. Anyway I called him to confront him and he TOLD ME OFF. Said that I was this and that, I mean totally psycho.
I can honestly say that he was the WORST dating experience of my LIFE. Very creepy...Then, I used to drive around and see posters of him all over the city because he was always running for some kind of political position (he lost them all). So it was so creepy.
Hahaha, I gues he DID finally win an election! I've been away from Miami too long...Here he is:
http://www.flsenate.gov/Legislators/index.cfm?Members=View% 20Page&District_Num_Link=036&Submenu=1&Tab=legislators&chamber=Senate
Hi, I replied to you via email so check your inbox.
I dated a Virgo once. The guy made me crazy. I don't know why I didn't notice what sign he was until NOW that you posted it a million times. It just flew over my head. There's a guy here, name is Branh. He's pretty vocal on these chats, I'll see if I can find him and get him to read your posts.
Anyway, the Virgo made me insane. Same thing as you're saying. He never took me seriously. I didn't joke around with him though. I was very normal, going to college and all that. He just simply could NOT beleive that I liked him. That's it. Nothing I could do would change his mind...(I never slept with him, not my style ) Anyway, he seriously thought i didn't like him. I don't know what his issues were either.
So I finally just said "to hell with it" and I found someone else a few months later. Dating him was an excersize in tolerance. He was putting me down all the time and telling me that my friends were morons.
He was heavily involved in politics and would seem, from the outside, to have his stuff "together." But Wow, I don't know if it was insecurity or what. I mean, he was HEAVILY involved in politics and ran for a local position.
Anyway, once he found out I had moved on with my life he went ballistic. He started prank calling my house non-stop. Then he would do wierd things to my car (get inside of it and turn on all the lights so by the time evening came my car was lit up like a Christmas tree, very wierd) anyway, I had to call the police because I had no idea who was doing all this. He'd leave criptic messages on my answering machine, really scary.
The police traced the calls to him. He had to go to the police station and he denied everything. Anyway I called him to confront him and he TOLD ME OFF. Said that I was this and that, I mean totally psycho.
I can honestly say that he was the WORST dating experience of my LIFE. Very creepy...Then, I used to drive around and see posters of him all over the city because he was always running for some kind of political position (he lost them all). So it was so creepy.
Hahaha, I gues he DID finally win an election! I've been away from Miami too long...Here he is:
http://www.flsenate.gov/Legislators/index.cfm?Members=View% 20Page&District_Num_Link=036&Submenu=1&Tab=legislators&chamber=Senate
NO..i most certainly do not play games withhim..im always lettin him know wat everything is..HES the one with all the game,he acts like i dont reallie want him..like i have all these men to just jump between and im tryin to make him one (sooo not the case) i think it f---ed him up seein how social i am before we started talkin but hell..thats how we met..now he tries to use it against me..(tellin me how friendly i am..Oh and all the games i play..i have no clue wat he talks about..i mean so if im a bit evasive about ish..its easy to get me to come out of that..just say sumthin about how stupid it is..lol..thats wat he did, so i started speakin up since he sed he wanted to know so bad..and i felt like it so here we are..then he throws that all this ish women lie about bit on me..im reallie like WAT!!?! and y woodnt an older virgo be interested in me..mr brandon..??.. hes like the youngest person i talk to aside from the gal pals..ive always ben attracted to older people..maybe its the only child thing..ive just got an old soul
LiBrat i wrote back to u.. check ur messages
hell tell me bout all the games i play
That is because he is the one playing games. People tell you who they are. It is up to us to listen.
He wants you to chase him because he needs the validation. This is VERY common for last decanter virgos males. He sounds so much like my ex when he was in college it is kind of scarey. He cheated on every girlfriend he had and played women like cards. He is now repented ... but man, was he fd up! I am glad I didn't know him back then.
I am going to recommend a book to you that really helped with my Virgo-Virgo rising ex. It is exactly what he needed. Don't laugh. Why Men Love Bitches. It is the only thing that worked for him and got him over himself.
This guy might be too young and immature yet, but it is a good read regardless. And you need to get your power back.
(((Hopeless))
That is because he is the one playing games. People tell you who they are. It is up to us to listen.
He wants you to chase him because he needs the validation. This is VERY common for last decanter virgos males. He sounds so much like my ex when he was in college it is kind of scarey. He cheated on every girlfriend he had and played women like cards. He is now repented ... but man, was he fd up! I am glad I didn't know him back then.
I am going to recommend a book to you that really helped with my Virgo-Virgo rising ex. It is exactly what he needed. Don't laugh. Why Men Love Bitches. It is the only thing that worked for him and got him over himself.
This guy might be too young and immature yet, but it is a good read regardless. And you need to get your power back.
(((Hopeless))
Li(brat)
Are we sharing a life and a mind? lol! My Virgo-Virgo Rising is way into politics and will be running for office eventually. He was never crazy though. In fact, he is the most reliable dependable person I know. At this point, just blows hot and cold. Yet, if anything happened to me, he would be the first by my side.
Hopefully, he figures this out before it is too late.
Are we sharing a life and a mind? lol! My Virgo-Virgo Rising is way into politics and will be running for office eventually. He was never crazy though. In fact, he is the most reliable dependable person I know. At this point, just blows hot and cold. Yet, if anything happened to me, he would be the first by my side.
Hopefully, he figures this out before it is too late.
Oh! Before I forget ....
Virgo men especially seem to need your happiness. Be happy and light. No drama. No tears. No anger. They seem to relate your happiness to how appropriate they are for you as a mate. I think this is true of all men but seems even more keen in Virgos. It really can affect their self-esteem.
Virgo men especially seem to need your happiness. Be happy and light. No drama. No tears. No anger. They seem to relate your happiness to how appropriate they are for you as a mate. I think this is true of all men but seems even more keen in Virgos. It really can affect their self-esteem.
Hi Guys,
I'm glad Branh replied. He gave good insight and made a lot of sense.
The Virgo topic for me is iffy. Like I said, the only Virgo I dated just irritated me. He seemed as if he just wanted to put me down all the time and he really made an effort to invalidate my feelings. The relationship was just too stressful. I can't remember anything "fun" about it at all, so that's why I walked away from it.
But not all are the same. I just think mine was probably a spoiled brat to begin with.
Oh Behalf of the Lovely, Sexy, Intelligent, Exciting, Libraland forum Thanks to Branh for his insight.
I'm glad Branh replied. He gave good insight and made a lot of sense.
The Virgo topic for me is iffy. Like I said, the only Virgo I dated just irritated me. He seemed as if he just wanted to put me down all the time and he really made an effort to invalidate my feelings. The relationship was just too stressful. I can't remember anything "fun" about it at all, so that's why I walked away from it.
But not all are the same. I just think mine was probably a spoiled brat to begin with.
Oh Behalf of the Lovely, Sexy, Intelligent, Exciting, Libraland forum Thanks to Branh for his insight.
Oh I thought literally 😢 I remember being drunk and jumping on my friends bed, hit the fan and ended up with two gashes on my forehead lol Ummm ok bye
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Hi,
I've never done this before.
I've been reading alot of posts here and
you guys seem to know what you're on about, and give out good advice.
so here goes..it's not a major drama..but this has been
an INTENSE week with the
I've never done this before.
I've been reading alot of posts here and
you guys seem to know what you're on about, and give out good advice.
so here goes..it's not a major drama..but this has been
an INTENSE week with the
i love love love this virgo male.22.ive known him since like almost 5 years now..things have always ben kinda unofficial with us up until recently.always a otta flirting socializing but honestly i couldnt see myself with him so i just left my little crush thing as a secret.. though he eventually found out and that was wen the unofficial relationship started, i say that because i dont know wat else to call it. its sumthing that despite his attempts I have NOT Imagined but its just ben so odd wen we used to go to school together, we socialized in the same circles,we easily kept things friendly..after he left and i changed schools as well.. we started talking and catching up like every few months or watever.. he wood always say ish about it, but i figured he was gigalo and it wont really make a difference..
honestly..wen i first met him it was kind of a crush thing somewhere along the line it morphed into the tragic feelings i carry today..i dont where they came from..they just kinda take me over and even worse..i like it>>i like him.. i looove him but okke so heres the jist..
hes always ben real straight up about stuff with me n me with him. ive no reason to lie.. iduno if its the sagg in me or wat but with the emotional stuff i tend to joke or eease my way n2 wat i wana say...he interprets this or watever in the fu--he talks about as "games" if i had money for everytime hes told me this: "you play too many games" ..i promise u as soon as i figured out wat i wanted with him (maybe year ago) ive ben extra forward with that in mind..that i want him and he shood be mine
so this same male who practically pins me all the time on games and beatin around the bush..absolutely Refuses to talk about nething of the sort. he says he loves me but i dont reallie believe him cause his actions dont speak love..i can call him now and he wont answer, wen he has these little hissy fits or watever..tex, watever he'll just do watever he does and NOT reply.
.he never used to do this to me..i told him wen we first started getting close that he was gona make me get attached to him..he sed id never have to chase him, he sed at one point he tried to talk to me about a relationship and i wouldnt listen (LIE) if he did i cant recall it and i have pretty close to excellent recollection,,
i duno..currently im just a little disgruntled because he keeps tellin me y WE cant watever cause all these games i play..I DONT NO WAT THE FU-- hes talkin about..seriously, wenever i start tryin to talk to him about sumthin on the note of feelings or wat not..man, now hell just put it off. "well talk about it later" i dunno..i dont get it i keep tellin him if he dont want me..tell me, cause i dont have to bother him.. hell just ignore me and start back talkin to me wenever he feels like.. i dont get it?>@! HES the reason i came out of my shyness with the whole emotionso thing.. not realllie a shyness but for i while i just kinda filed all that as stuff for "me to know and u to find out.." i know childish.. ive seen the light since but i he just perplexes me so..
he makes me want him more and more.. U think it has something to do with me not reallie being used to someone tryin to keep me in a line ( its a kind of a turn on 😉.. maybe he has some kinda spell on me it wasnt this bad before we had s--ual relations..maybe he did sumthin no but seriously..
i think im gona be leavin him alone cause i dont understand ..i try to have conversations on fone.. second to my wanting to do it in person of course and he just postpones and postpones..procrastinates..he used to always throw it in my face how shady n ish i was u know back wen we wood just flirt and i was in my Pimpn mode..lol i thought he was too though.. no i was just young dumb and full of --- still young but hey i got 2 of my wisdom teeths already 🙂 no but he used t