Sucky birthday

I was having a good birthday until I realized that it is 6 pm and the guy I was involved with still hasn't wished me happy birthday. I am beyond angry and I'm not sure how I will respond if he decides to message me again but I can see myself being very nasty to him the way I feel right now

Just enjoy the rest of the day for what it is. Focus on his asshattery later. Don't let it ruin the day. His actions should not have that much power over your day.

It wouldn't if I actually had something to do today. All of my family is in TN and I told all of my friends we weren't doin anything because I thought I had practice tonight.

Well hey! Happy Birthday gorgeous xo

...so call them up and see if you can make some impromptu plans.

Thanks guys I will try to get people together this weekend. Going home to eat frosting wasn't so bad either lol

Posted by ladylibra21
I was having a good birthday until I realized that it is 6 pm and the guy I was involved with still hasn't wished me happy birthday. I am beyond angry and I'm not sure how I will respond if he decides to message me again but I can see myself being very nasty to him the way I feel right now

Happy Birthday or Belated Birthday
He's probably doing it out of spite just because he knew you expected him to at least wish you a HBDay. What a buttwipe!

Posted by ladylibra21
I was having a good birthday until I realized that it is 6 pm and the guy I was involved with still hasn't wished me happy birthday. I am beyond angry and I'm not sure how I will respond if he decides to message me again but I can see myself being very nasty to him the way I feel right now

The cancer male I've posted about basically told me he wanted nothing to do with me on my birthday knowing full well it was my birthday. Don't let this guy drag you through the dirt or be the reason you're upset on your birthday because it just shows how selfish and inconsiderate he is

+ Happy belated birthday

Posted by ladylibra21
I was having a good birthday until I realized that it is 6 pm and the guy I was involved with still hasn't wished me happy birthday. I am beyond angry and I'm not sure how I will respond if he decides to message me again but I can see myself being very nasty to him the way I feel right now

Would you prefer for him to message you sooner than 6pm? I messaged by libra at 5pm and I got the feeling he was bothered by it. For my bday he massaged me at 11am. That was nice.

Posted by ladylibra21
I was having a good birthday until I realized that it is 6 pm and the guy I was involved with still hasn't wished me happy birthday. I am beyond angry and I'm not sure how I will respond if he decides to message me again but I can see myself being very nasty to him the way I feel right now

He is speaking very loudly with his silence. I think it's time to cut your losses.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Out of all people I think Libra goes out of their way to make people feel special on their birthday. I think that's why it hurts so much when a supposed S/O treats you like crap on your bday or just completely forgets.

I have an ex who did this after I specifically reminded him the day before and told him it's important to me. I made his birthday special and he loved it. Meanwhile he didn't even tell me happy birthday. He said birthdays are for kids. Who gives AF what you think— He wasn't saying that shyt when I was sitting on his lap feeding him birthday dinner that I made. You know what? Fuck that.

Cancer men and Aquarius men are the absolute kings of pulling stunts like this. Self-centered and selfish pricks that they are. It's all about what they think is important and how they feel. No no no. That's why you're lonely and begging now.

All selfish people who don't give a shyt about other people's feelings need not apply. A Libra needs someone who will reciprocate our effort and our respect and our love. Selfish people need to stick to selfish people and leave us the fuck alone.

#woosah

can i ask you a question, do you think my libra friend was hurt that i texted him happy birthday at 6pm? he has feelings for him and as do i with him.

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Sugarfoot
Out of all people I think Libra goes out of their way to make people feel special on their birthday. I think that's why it hurts so much when a supposed S/O treats you like crap on your bday or just completely forgets.

I have an ex who did this after I specifically reminded him the day before and told him it's important to me. I made his birthday special and he loved it. Meanwhile he didn't even tell me happy birthday. He said birthdays are for kids. Who gives AF what you think— He wasn't saying that shyt when I was sitting on his lap feeding him birthday dinner that I made. You know what? Fuck that.

Cancer men and Aquarius men are the absolute kings of pulling stunts like this. Self-centered and selfish pricks that they are. It's all about what they think is important and how they feel. No no no. That's why you're lonely and begging now.

All selfish people who don't give a shyt about other people's feelings need not apply. A Libra needs someone who will reciprocate our effort and our respect and our love. Selfish people need to stick to selfish people and leave us the fuck alone.

#woosah

can i ask you a question, do you think my libra friend was hurt that i texted him happy birthday at 6pm? he has feelings for him and as do i with him.

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I am a Libra woman and I would have felt hurt.

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Sugarfoot
Out of all people I think Libra goes out of their way to make people feel special on their birthday. I think that's why it hurts so much when a supposed S/O treats you like crap on your bday or just completely forgets.

I have an ex who did this after I specifically reminded him the day before and told him it's important to me. I made his birthday special and he loved it. Meanwhile he didn't even tell me happy birthday. He said birthdays are for kids. Who gives AF what you think— He wasn't saying that shyt when I was sitting on his lap feeding him birthday dinner that I made. You know what? Fuck that.

Cancer men and Aquarius men are the absolute kings of pulling stunts like this. Self-centered and selfish pricks that they are. It's all about what they think is important and how they feel. No no no. That's why you're lonely and begging now.

All selfish people who don't give a shyt about other people's feelings need not apply. A Libra needs someone who will reciprocate our effort and our respect and our love. Selfish people need to stick to selfish people and leave us the fuck alone.

#woosah

can i ask you a question, do you think my libra friend was hurt that i texted him happy birthday at 6pm? he has feelings for him and as do i with him.

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Oh Sugarfoot. You've hit the nail right on the head haven't you ðŸ‘ðŸ‘👠well done my fellow libran well done.

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Sugarfoot
Out of all people I think Libra goes out of their way to make people feel special on their birthday. I think that's why it hurts so much when a supposed S/O treats you like crap on your bday or just completely forgets.

I have an ex who did this after I specifically reminded him the day before and told him it's important to me. I made his birthday special and he loved it. Meanwhile he didn't even tell me happy birthday. He said birthdays are for kids. Who gives AF what you think— He wasn't saying that shyt when I was sitting on his lap feeding him birthday dinner that I made. You know what? Fuck that.

Cancer men and Aquarius men are the absolute kings of pulling stunts like this. Self-centered and selfish pricks that they are. It's all about what they think is important and how they feel. No no no. That's why you're lonely and begging now.

All selfish people who don't give a shyt about other people's feelings need not apply. A Libra needs someone who will reciprocate our effort and our respect and our love. Selfish people need to stick to selfish people and leave us the fuck alone.

#woosah

can i ask you a question, do you think my libra friend was hurt that i texted him happy birthday at 6pm? he has feelings for him and as do i with him.

If you guys have feelings for each other and you're supposed to be closer than an acquaintance then yes probably. At that point it could feel like an afterthought.

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Agreed

How can I make it up to him?

@sugarfoot is so right. We try hard to make people feel special and reciprocation is all we ask.
@ladylibra21 I think you should tell him that he upset you and go ahead and give him a pass this one time, but if he forgets Thanksgiving and Christmas, deuces!
@mysterioustaurus You have to bring it up and apologize! As a Libra, not only would I be upset that you didn't think of me early on my special day, but then you don't even acknowledge the fact that it was so late. Nope, you gotta nip this in the bud now before he starts to look elsewhere for "attention." I know it sounds ridiculous to most people, but if I'm not a priority to you (as you are to me, if I like you) then I'll slowly open myself up to other people who make me feel special. Yes it's a bad trait, has caused me grief many times, but it's the truth.