Taurus woman wanting back a Libra man

I'm a Taurus woman that was dating libra man for about three months. I left him a few weeks ago because he only wanted to start seeing me once a week and every other day, he claims he's busy. I didn't think that was fair to me because as we all know that if I settle for something like this then, most likely he would get comfortable and things would never change. Am I wrong for leaving him for this reason? I really need a better understanding about libras...If you are a libra, please respond. Thx.

We need our space taurian or we aren't happy
If he is really bussy and still wants to make time for you , he likes you

babietarus...

not a Libra, but have been exposed to one. Wow, only once a week...why not? (wish it was like that for me) At least he still wanted to see you. Give him space, all the space he wants and then some. When a Libra starts to feel obligated, or pressured, they back off. Big Time. That simple(or not)...lol. It could get ugly, if you push it (out and out or in very subtle ways)

The fact that you left him because YOU felt it was unfair to YOU when he said he was busy, indicates that you did the right thing in leaving. You have to be able to deal with their moodiness (or what appears to be such) Being with a libra takes patience, and most of all, Trust.(On both sides)

If your Libra is unbalanced (as it seems a lot of those on this bb have been) he needs to be left alone to "get it together".

Talk with him about it , how you feel etc
Libra needs communication and feels most secure trough communication

On his part maybe it might have been just about booty calls and on your part maybe possessiveness.

Taurus please don't leave your Libra. Taurus-Libra relationship was the BEST I ever had. Libras love the faithfulness that you guys bring, please stick with it. Don't be pushy, be positive. I'm Libra (woman) and I wouldn't worry. Seems like you are doing what we Libras usually do Over Analyze everything.

Don't get me wrong, his busy could be trying to end it with another woman. Because Libras don't like conflict, be calm when you talk to him. Don't do the Taurean thing and charge at him like a BULL!!!!

"Don't do the Taurean thing and charge at him like a BULL!!!!"

From her post, seems like she already did.

Depending on her level of maturity, and her views on what SHE thinks a relationship should be, will be how it is. I was (notice WAS) married to a Taurus, and they have a tendency to isolate their "mates" so they are the "only ones" in their lives, everything else, including outside friends and independence become secondary, if at all.

The sex may be the greatest from a Libra pov, but all other facets of a Libra that make them so charming and lovable, can easily be stifled by Taurus' possessiveness. Sex is great in a relationship, but in the long haul, it's friendship, understanding, unconditional love and flexibility between one another that truly counts.

If babietaurus is on the cusp of Aries/Taurus and depending on the Libra and his planet placements (actually for both) this could be an acceptable pairing, but I wouldn't hold my breath. Air is too flighty for an earth sign and there will always be confrontation unless compromise is acceptable to both.

libra's are also possesive on there mates

lol, sort of like .. wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then.

Real life doesn't work that way, does it? No matter how hard you wish it to be so ............ for now, you know what you didn't know then.



Too bad forsight isn't as accurate as hindsight ...

Babietaurus, I was with a Libra man for 8 years, and as everyone has said, they need their space. While we were dating, I kept my OWN life and friends (this is crucial, because most men in general like to see you have a life) and it was cool. Any big decisons like us moving in together, etc, I made HIM make the first move; it was always his idea (even if I somewhat orchestrated things 😉. I have tons of Libra friends and family members and I've dated only 2 seriously, but from my experience, they fall quickly, but then kind of "spook" themselves and pull away. This sounds like what may have happened, and true to his word, he probably is busy. Word of caution - Libra's are great people, but again, from my experience, they do NOT like to be alone. They oftentimes have one "waiting in the wings" before they move on. I'm not saying all if them, but my male and female relatives are like this, and so was my ex-fiance (hence the reason he is an ex). Take it slow and let him have his space.

If you broke up with him because you needed more time than that is what you needed to do. If you did it because he wouldn't give you more time and did this to teach him a lesson, then it has bacckfired.

I was with a libra for 9 years, married for 6. They need space, but don't doubt their love for you during these times, you should always have a life of your own in any relationship. Librans need to know their partner can stand on their own when they need their space and not feel they are being clung to.

i learnt that giving space & don't hold back how you feel helps. cant bear their unpredictable attitude though ..i.e said they needed space but why kept calling?

Get used to that! They crave their space, but when you give it to them, they call, email, text...almost like they dont want you to forget about them or checking up on you. Just because they need space doesn't mean they care any less about you...I have learned this over time. in fact, they appreciate you and the time you spend even more when you respect their need to space.

libra is forever changing thoughts , opinions , ...

why they change so much, so quick?! so confusing!!! worst than pisces lol how to make them stick?

Libra is forever changing because they are being true to the sign of AIR.

Ever try and catch the wind? 'nuff said...😉

"i just wanted to sound tuff!"

lol i totally understand! i did that too but at the end of the day told libra that i actually cant stand the thought of not communicating, being the sweet being of all creatures, he said i can contact him whenever i want (over spacing out period)

but

i didnt! again for the reason of wanting to sound tough! glad he said i can call though no communication will drive me up the wall lol

"My libra is a coward and won't say that he needs some space. My libra is retarded."

It sounds like your experiencing the endless bliss of Libra/Aries. LOL.

Remember arianlatay that LIbra is Aries evolutionary opposite. The reason they are attracted to each other is that they have the same purpose and inner needs in life, but they go about them in opposite ways. If you can learn to appreciate that in one another instead of getting frustrated by it then all will be good. It seems like there is a lot of power struggle in LIbra/Aries because there really is a lot of power struggle. You have Achilles and Jason Bourne trying to run the show.

the endless bliss of Libra/Aries.

I'm going through that now, We can't seem to completely let go but we can't seem to completely give in.

Which is strange because my best relationship was with Taurus. That same Taurus is will be spending this weekend at my house.

Update, my libra is coming around little by little, any suggestions so that I won't mess this up again?

And JoJoJo, Stick with the Taurus; go entertain yourself even though it's for a little while.

Thanks, Arianlatay
Thats what I'm doing and I guess it's working.

So any other suggestions, please do tell... 🙂