To Libra Men: Do you give second chances?

1- What hurt you in the first place? How long does it take you to forgive something small? and if you find out that you've been cruel and unfair, would you go back to a ROMANTIC relationship or would you reconnect as FRIENDS?.

2- Would you rather that a girl you like take initiatives or would you want to do that part?

3- What does it mean when a libra man leaves initiating a conversation to a girl, but would make a funny and pleasant conversation after that and then the girl has to initiate all over again.

4- IF a girl you like informs you indirectly that she likes you.. Would it affect your respect for her or how you view her as a potential girlfriend.

Thank you Charmers.. Ive been charmed by one of your kind.. And damn its addictive!

1. Giving second chances generally depends on what happened in the first place. If it's something small then I wouldn't even call it giving a second chance. I get over little stuff pretty quickly. If it's something I was cruel and unfair about (not just a woman saying that) then I'd apologize and definitely continue a romantic relationship.

2. I wouldn't say I prefer a woman to take the first step but historically for me they have. I've actually never asked a woman out. It's not that I won't, I guess I'm just a slow libra.

3. It either means he is shy/slow or not interested. Based on just that you can't tell.

4. If she is too indirect it won't even register with me. Everyone is nice to me, I hug freely, and I talk to all kinds of people about their deep dark secrets. Some of this is why I get called a flirt but I don't take indirect playful stuff to heart at all.

Libra woman here.
No second chances. When I'm done that's just it, I'm done. In every relationship I give 110% and all second chances and third chances are given DURING the relationship, but once I call it off and say I'm done well then my dear you might as well start the memory book because that's all we will have left ; memories.
Heck when I'm truly over a guy I can even offer him a true friendship, often though they confuse my friendship as a second chance with me and they get hurt when they realize they are mistaken.
I don't give second chances because if I broke up with you most likely I was fed up, and am no longer even attracted to you in that way.

I??ve only given a second chance to ONE ex, out of my whole life and he was a Taurus, and he's my first love. In fact he's gotten more than a second chance, I'm ashamed to say, but even his time is running out. I??ve already made a solid decision with myself that if he makes another girl his girlfriend, this will be the 3rd one and they never last and he always runs back to me, but if it happens this time I'm done with him forever. We've never officially gotten back together over the years, because he always chooses someone else, and it always blows up in his face. Lately he's being saying how he's on his grind and he's trying get stable for his future, and he's not ready for a relationship, because he wants his next girlfriend to be his wife. He's even said more than once that he swears I'm the woman he's supposed to marry and be with. I??ve been giving him space, and doing my own thing. However the last time I saw him I looked him square in the face and directly in the eyes and told him —if you choose someone else without giving us a fair shot, I'm done with you for good, I just want you to know so the moment you tell the other girl you agree to be her man, just know you sealed the fate on us and we are over forever.?? The last person I said that to was a Pisces and he didn't believe me, and 8 YEARS later he's still trying to get me back. No thanks.

Libra male here!

1. Depends on the slight, but generally my wanting to be liked usually leads to more then second chances. If I was the one in error, usually after a week of fighting with myself I'll apologize and attempt to make it up to the person. But all really depends on what was done. The small things I notice and make note of, but I don't hold those against people initially. Usually they get tacked on to the big thing you did.

2. I agree with tiz, I don't like to force things. If I'm interested in someone I like to get the same response I'd get from a friend. Example, a buddy and I drove about four hours to visit another friend. Now we hadn't see each other (the guy I drove with) in a couple of months. The conversation literally flowed for four hours with no pauses. If I find a girl where the conversation just flows like that, then I am happy.

3. That's called give and take. Most of the time I'm the one who has to put forth the effort so I like to see someone do the same. To me, if you are interested, you will put forth the effort 50% of the time (our sign is a scale come on). If you don't put in effort then I don't suspect you are interested. I've spoken to women for hours and when I notice I'm doing all the talking I suspect its time that I move on. Most times they stop me and say no I want to keep talking...good talk then 😉

4. More then likely I would miss your subtle signal because I tend to overanalyze everything and then get burned. Be obvious and just save us both the trouble otherwise (again as tiz said) you're in for a year (probably years) of dancing 😉

Yes, with Libra's we work really hard to maintain a relationship, so once it's get to the point of no return, then there is no second chance. I have never went back to an ex...when it was over, it was just that..OVER! Life is too short to be wasted.