Virgo male and Libra women issues

Update on my situation.so I left the guy alone and didn't call text or say anything to him for a whole month in a half and my birthday comes up oct20th and he blows me up.sending me text messages at 12:05 on Sunday saying happy birthday then again on Monday later on that nite on my Facebook . I received both messages but didn't respond. Mind you He had to Unblocks me on Facebook just to say happy birthday and everything I still didn't respond . Days later I was going threw my phone responding to my text messages, and I decided to text him back. I was bored, so I said who is this someone stole my phone in Vegas which was the truth but he didn't know that. I just wanted him to know I wasn't thinking about him and I was doing fine. He didn't like that I was asking who he was and acting nonchalant . So he said carry on I was just saying happy birthday continue on with your life. We exchange a few petty text messages and that was it. I told him he misses me and he can stop pretending Because we aren't cool and I didnt Need his birthday wish. Of course he denies it. Days later after I kept ignoring him he kept trying and I finally said something back to him, he pops up at my house and expressed how he was ready to be in a relationship and we were cool for a min enough for him to tell him how he feels about me. He said he loves me and feels it's nothing out here and he's ready to commit. This was October 27 We hooked up then he broke up with me 4 days later because we were looking at pics from my trip and came across my brothers dog I told him it was my brothers and the dog is staying at my house But he didn't believe it. Days later he asked again then I said a guy brought it for me just too see how he would react, because I wanted to see if he was gonna pull what he did next. Plus I was still mad he left me in the first place. We got into it and said that the dog is a 1500 and I'm still messing with the guy and I slept with him He said I lied to him about where I got a dog from, and he couldn't trust me.so he broke up with me. Days later he continue saying we needed to build our trust back up. And he can't be with someone he don't trust, but he was getting late nite texts and putting his phone on silent . We have been arguing about this dog and his phone every since we've bern back cool Then he said I gave him something and he was pissing fire and I was nasty and all kinds of things. When we only had sex times October 27& 30 while being cool. I told him it's I t

When we only had sex 2times October 27& 30 while being cool. I told him it's I told him it's no way nov 4 u have something, and know that fast. He kept saying it was me and I did it and he don't trust me. I went to the doctor just to shut him up and gave him my papers saying I had nothing and I was good all the way around, then he says he had a urinare infection And he was sorry for being evil. I didn't believe that and I knew he was lying I asked for his paper work and he didn't show paperwork of anthing. He said he went to the emergency room and they call you with information if you have anything. We haven't been on good terms since. We talked about it and I expressed to him that he keep looking for anything and everything to be wrong with me bs use its so much wrong with him. I also told him that he lying about why he broke up with me abs it has nothing to do with trust you never wanted to be with me in the first place. He said he does but he needs time. And we don't trust each other so it won't work unless we build are trust back up. Also when I back out on plugging him with my business partner because I'm tired of the back and forth games and trying to help somebody that keeps running away from me. We said we were done and we were deleting each other's number and move on He called me that next day and wanted me to come over and talk but I said no and went to a lions game with a friend, we didn't talk for a week. I called him I wanted to be up under him,and he was acting as if he didn't want me around and he wanted me to leave. Then he start talking about I'm fake and he don't want me and I'm using him.and I be playing games. He said I should of stayed gone if I wasn't gonna talk to him for a week, so I was you haven't called me either and it's ok for you to do it to me huh!? He has a attitude with me and keep saying how I need to move on and be with the dude that who bought me a 1500 dog, and I said I will. And he was like go home but I didnt I stayed the nite he was being mean the whole time, until we were going to bed and he said I love you so much. I told him I wanted to spend time with him this weekend since we haven't talked in a week and he was like no because he needed some me time and just cause I came back after not hearing from me a whole week doesn't mean I get to spend time with him. We got into it because I'm like u why are you acting like this when I'm steady telling you I love you and I want you .The next day we woke up and I went home

I told him I wanted to spend time with him this weekend and he was like no because he needed some me time and just cause I came back after not hearing from me a whole week doesn't mean I get to a there with you anymore . I said why he said because I'm just not. I was like but you were oh so ready a couple weeks ago and now you done where is this coming from. He like I'm not done we just not about to be in a relationship and everytime I get mad at him I throw the dude up in his face. And he feel I'm always botching at him. And if I can't deal with him not wanting to be in a relationship move on. I said you must of found not done we just not about to be in a relationship and everytime I get mad at him I throw the dude up in his face. I said you must of found somebody else and your trying to presume them He said it isn't anybody else and he just not about to about to mess with me like that. I'm confused because he keeps bring up this dude that brought a dog when I ckearly told him nobody brought me a dog, but he brings him up Every chance he gets I feel he feels that I'm doing better then him I got 2 cars and Im doing so well in my life that he hates that he can't do what I want and need there is other man out here willing to do for the women he loves and he don't want to believe in not messing with these men that try to get on me so he's trying to push me away. Because one nite he said that if I can be patient and let him get himself together we will be fine and I won't have to complain. He just wants to know he can trust me. I'm so lost. Because I was done with him until he decided to come back. Now I feel dumb. He also told me that I'm the girl he loves and he makes sure every chance he gets he reminds me and tells me that, but I never tell him and tells me that, but I never tell him that I always remind him of all the bad things I don't like and that makes him feel treetrunked up. But I'm like I show u I care and love you and I do tell you, So I'm lost and irritated because we just said we done again. And I'm so sick of this bull. And I don't know how to let him know I hear for him and I got his back and he can stop lookig at me like I'm better then him

...and they say Libras don't like drama lol.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
...and they say Libras don't like drama lol.

libras dont like conflict. its different

You're playing too many mind games to ever have a healthy relationship. You must be young.

Posted by LibraGirlLost
I told him I wanted to spend time with him this weekend and he was like no because he needed some me time and just cause I came back after not hearing from me a whole week doesn't mean I get to a there with you anymore . I said why he said because I'm just not. I was like but you were oh so ready a couple weeks ago and now you done where is this coming from. He like I'm not done we just not about to be in a relationship and everytime I get mad at him I throw the dude up in his face. And he feel I'm always botching at him. And if I can't deal with him not wanting to be in a relationship move on. I said you must of found not done we just not about to be in a relationship and everytime I get mad at him I throw the dude up in his face. I said you must of found somebody else and your trying to presume them He said it isn't anybody else and he just not about to about to mess with me like that. I'm confused because he keeps bring up this dude that brought a dog when I ckearly told him nobody brought me a dog, but he brings him up Every chance he gets I feel he feels that I'm doing better then him I got 2 cars and Im doing so well in my life that he hates that he can't do what I want and need there is other man out here willing to do for the women he loves and he don't want to believe in not messing with these men that try to get on me so he's trying to push me away. Because one nite he said that if I can be patient and let him get himself together we will be fine and I won't have to complain. He just wants to know he can trust me. I'm so lost. Because I was done with him until he decided to come back. Now I feel dumb. He also told me that I'm the girl he loves and he makes sure every chance he gets he reminds me and tells me that, but I never tell him and tells me that, but I never tell him that I always remind him of all the bad things I don't like and that makes him feel treetrunked up. But I'm like I show u I care and love you and I do tell you, So I'm lost and irritated because we just said we done again. And I'm so sick of this bull. And I don't know how to let him know I hear for him and I got his back and he can stop lookig at me like I'm better then him

Well I don't believe I'm playing mind games I feel if he was a stand up guy he would stop playing games and do what he say he gone do instead of running away all the time

Posted by LibraGirlLost
Well I don't believe I'm playing mind games I feel if he was a stand up guy he would stop playing games and do what he say he gone do instead of running away all the time

You're playing games right back. What do you expect.

When I'm open with him and just wanting to be in a relationship he's a total ass, and I get irritated and I do me. Then he comes running back swearing up and down he loves me so much. When I'm dating other people and happy he just shows back up in my life. But when I'm just all about him he asks as if I'm not and I don't care about him . He never caught me doing anything He has trust issues with me and I don't know why!!!! He always blaming me for something and then be looking dumb when proved wrong. He always gets caught up in everything and never admits his wrongs So how can a person just be one way if this is how he's acting