Wanting to know........

Hi

I'm just wondering something since I noticed similarities with two Libras. Do Libra, especially men like to know what their love interest/girlfriend/spouse is doing most of the time? I had to ask since the last two guys have always wanted to know what I'm doing and IF I was out with friends with a possibility of meeting a new guy, like going out to a bar or party/social function they want to know what I'm doing and constantly check in with me. Are Libra men like this? The want to know what's up thing.

JS

It is called be interested in you and your life. 🙂

Interested in my life. Interesting....

My first libra, the ex husband has been known with folks that we know has been asking about me and what I do when my child isn't with me. I don't even think of him at all.

awwww, the curious Libra

i don't particularly care about what someone is doing.

i just care about where things stand between the two of us.

but i can't just outright ask that. most people aren't going to answer it (most aquas and leos will answer this though, on the rare occasion you can't already tell). so i've got to ask something else, then overanalyze their answer. besides, for most people, even if they do answer, it's not like you can trust them. you can tell more from body language and tone of voice that you can from the direct information they give. plus, you can convey certain attitutes when asking them questions, then see how they respond to that.

how very diplomatic.

oh, it's not just libras. my cancer friend is 10x worse. he gives me the 3rd degree rundown every time he knows i'm going somewhere without him. it's borderline smothering. my taurus guy is not as bad as cancer but close.

it's someone being interested in ur life sprinkled with possessiveness. my libra ex wanted to know what was up but he pretty much never asked about other guys. he preferred to be kept in the dark about such things. god forbid i talk about a male friend though. he was on the jealous side.

speaking of possessive, the last Libra would constantly call me, text me back to back if he wasn't able to get in touch with me that afternoon, evening, etc......and when I would finally contact him he'd double the time it took me to reply back. A few times he even got to a point where he called and text me after midnight over the weekend. messages left back to back were, where are you, what are you doing and are you ok.

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speaking of possessive, the last Libra would constantly call me, text me back to back if he wasn't able to get in touch with me that afternoon, evening, etc......and when I would finally contact him he'd double the time it took me to reply back. A few times he even got to a point where he called and text me after midnight over the weekend. messages left back to back were, where are you, what are you doing and are you ok.

They want the connection, its not about where you are. They want to get closer to you - to "feel" your presence. They're not really as snoopy as they sound.

My Libra(m) never asks where I am; I don't ask as well. Bcause that's a form of control in the end..

My friend went to a confrence this weekend. When I talk to her, I will ask what it was like, who she went with, what she learned, who she met. I do this with male friends as well. I am not romantically interested in them, just interested in their lives and what is happening. Kind of hard to have a conversation without asking any questions. 😉