What do I do? (Page 3)

Woah people and their conspiracy theories..

... how can you publicly YELL OUT how sorry you are, if you don't know her in person?

My story is this. I met a girl online and I fell for her. She is a Libra. She tells me she's in college but I'm not so sure anymore. She lies a lot to me or rather gone unresponsive. Yes, I am worried to be judged, I have a gf myself as she has a bf.

IN THE FREAKING GAME WE'RE IN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I CAN YELL IN GAME WITHOUT GIVING OUT HER CHARACTER THAT I'M FREAKING SORRY THAT I LEFT OUR GROUP! OKAY—?

YES I KNOW I AM DRAMATIC. I'M LIED TO AND HURT ALL OVER AND WHEN I TURNED TO THIS FORM, I GET THIS!

I really fell for her. I do nothing by sit by the computer to see if she'll come online. I have no way to contact her, she's doing this on purpose.

I am not the victim, what I gave up in rl was my choice. But to say all those things when they are not true, it pisses me off.

I told my gf that I like someone online, she has already left me.

Posted by Unforgiven
YES I KNOW I AM DRAMATIC. I'M LIED TO AND HURT ALL OVER AND WHEN I TURNED TO THIS FORM, I GET THIS!

Take a huge breath, IN..... 0UT.....

Carry on with your life.. afterall, it's just the internetz..

Every0ne's on an alternate reality on the internetz.

You Sag moon gives you the ability to see the big picture and forward, not trapped in a bind..

Mmmmkay.. I've ratcheted down a tad, and I apologize for my grossly unfair assumptions, Mr. Aqua.

However.. She's just turned 17, without a doubt.. and college? Possible, I suppose.. but not plausible. But.. you already KNEW her age.. if you posted her chart.. you KNEW she was born in Sept 1993. Online or in person, she's much too young for you. *sad face*

I don't know if you will believe me, she told me it was September but she wouldn't give me the date and then shuts down on me. Then she told me she's in college, so I put the 93 in there.

"I do nothing by sit by the computer to see if she'll come online."

Hahahahahahaha.. perhaps this is a Sag moon thing..
A way to maintain distance..

You're dating your computer, dude.

I really fell for her, you guys don't understand.
First she says she likes me, the she likes me better than her bf, then she disappears, then she choose her bf but tells me not to leave, then tells me to share and I wont, then she likes me then she disappears and then now ...I dunno.

She so secretive and I often feel like she lies to me. When I ask her what she is doing, she would so go offline.

Posted by Unforgiven
I really fell for her, you guys don't understand.
First she says she likes me, the she likes me better than her bf, then she disappears, then she choose her bf but tells me not to leave, then tells me to share and I wont, then she likes me then she disappears and then now ...I dunno.

Y0u suck. The internet has gotten to you.

Playing games on the internet is easy..

(trust me I know, my crazy boy has a Sag moon and he is in love with the computer)

No, I'm sure, she told me she's a libra. So I was like I'm an Aqua and I'm born...and you?
She says she's a libra and born in september, I didn't press becuase I don't want her to go offline on me again.

Posted by Unforgiven
She so secretive and I often feel like she lies to me. When I ask her what she is doing, she would so go offline.

The woes of internet communication not so much as text but offline/online/idle/away.

How old did she TELL you she was? Or wouldn't she say? (Aside from WHY you would choose to guess 1993, making her just turned 17 years old? That's not college age!)

Oh man.. this isn't good.. she's playing with your emotions.. even if she's not 17 and is about 19 or so, in college.. she's got a bf, you've got (had?) a gf.. and now you're hooked on this online persona she presents? And now she's got you hanging around, waiting for a glimpse of her, waiting for her to come online? You told your gf and she left you? OMG, dude.. this is messed up 😢

You know? When I asked do you like me when she came back from disappearing, she says no. I said, want to be friends? She said no. I was sad, she decided without even telling, have the courtesy to tell me it's over. I don't know..Then the next day, she says she wants to make another group with someone else. I was so sad, I decide to leave our group. Then the next day I'm accused that I betrayed our group and I am damned.

King of Libras, to be honest. I don't think it's true. Libras are the kryptonite for Aquarians. I'm so defenselses against her. I tell her EVERYTHING and she tells me nothing. Go figure.

17 is the college for my country

Posted by Unforgiven
You know? When I asked do you like me when she came back from disappearing, she says no. I said, want to be friends? She said no. I was sad, she decided without even telling, have the courtesy to tell me it's over. I don't know..Then the next day, she says she wants to make another group with someone else. I was so sad, I decide to leave our group. Then the next day I'm accused that I betrayed our group and I am damned.

This is what happens when 0nline life is greater than real life. It messes with your head. Gaming friends? tHey aren't real. They're still going back to mummy and daddy at the end of the day.

Great another Libra hates me. She's the first Libra I ever knew.

You, Unforgiven, you're screwed. By your own mental knot.

You guys don't believe me. I am serious about this.

No my life is great when I met her. I have everything.

My gf says, if this is not rl and you'r just playing, I'll forgive you this time. I told her, no, I'm serious.

I post on Libra because this is a Libra forum?

I'm kinda at a loss for words here. I don't even know how to BEGIN helping a guy in love with an online chick. She might not even be a chick.. she MIGHT BE a 30 year old GUY living out a fantasy! 😱

....why would she do that..

Posted by Unforgiven
My gf says, if this is not rl and you'r just playing, I'll forgive you this time. I told her, no, I'm serious.

AS serious as a newly formed brain cell.

If you're serious, then take it to the next level. To physical reality.
A thought, no matter how persistent, is just borrowed from the ethers.

I mean, there is nothing to gain.

I have no idea what your last sentence means, spica.

I need a smoke. Brb. You guys are now against me, I need to ask Libra questions but see..I'm already judged.

Posted by Unforgiven
I have no idea what your last sentence means, spica.

It means that it's just a connection, nothing more.

Plus she's 17.

Mr. Aqua.. have you spoken to the "Libra" girl on the phone or some kind of voice-based communication (like Skype?) Seen her on webcam in real time? Seen ANYTHING more than text on a screen and photos she claimed were her??

I'm scared your answer will be no... it's dawning on me that she has LIED to you about SO MUCH, that she is SOOOO EVASIVE about herself.. because she's NOT who she's pretending to be in your online world.

😢

Posted by spica

Posted by Unforgiven
I have no idea what your last sentence means, spica.

It means that it's just a connection, nothing more.

Plus she's 17.

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Spica love... she's 17 only according to the birthdate he GUESSED and entered into the blank HIMSELF.. SHE won't tell him the day or year or even how old she is.. she only said Libra, September, and that she's in college. HE chose to put 1993 in to get her natal chart when we asked, because to him 17 is college age (in his country?).

I've got a sinking feeling that this "Libra girl" isn't a girl at all, much less 17 or 19... I feel like "she's" a GUY and playing out an online fantasy that made THIS 30 almost 31 year old Aqua man completely turn his life over for, and give up his REAL gf for.

"Spica love... she's 17 only according to the birthdate he GUESSED and entered into the blank HIMSELF.. SHE won't tell him the day or year or even how old she is.. she only said Libra, September, and that she's in college. HE chose to put 1993 in to get her natal chart when we asked, because to him 17 is college age (in his country?).

I've got a sinking feeling that this "Libra girl" isn't a girl at all, much less 17 or 19... I feel like "she's" a GUY and playing out an online fantasy that made THIS 30 almost 31 year old Aqua man completely turn his life over for, and give up his REAL gf for."

Nefer, you create too much fantasy.. the girl is very very likely to be a Libra girl of 17. Why do you extrapolate your fears? Unforgiven is 31-33.. he is a big man, and can take care of himself.. why d you worry about him regarding unfounded fears.. damn..

That can't be true. I know libras won't lie like this, they will withold but not lie. I feel she is not lying. KingofLibra, I am an Aqua and I would never do the same what she has done to anyone. I tell ppl upfront how I feel.

By the way, I know PLENTY Aqua Sun/ Sag Moons.. my closest friend was one.. I know how much that is a commitmentphobe placement and how they're practically living through the internetz (my guy is a Sag moon)..

I'm just telling Unforgiven it will amount to nothing.. Especially so if she's 17. 17 is like a baby stage in Libra years.. I doubt Aqua is even consistent anyway.. he's just superduper infatuated with te connection he has with her at this moment..

(and see KOL's about Aqua/Lib connections.. they're true)

I don't care if she is 17 or 100. I love her.

*shrug* Evasive people in the middle of an online fantasy relationship are rarely who they claim to be, projection or not. HE said HE chose 1993, not her. SHE won't tell him the year.

And I've already established that Unforgiven is 30 years old, and turning 31 soon. He was Aqua-born in 1980.

She also didn't give me a day..but hey a libra is a libra right?

Posted by Unforgiven
I don't care if she is 17 or 100. I love her.

Love doesn't mean anything without real action.

*smacks Unforgiven upside the head*

On with your timeless, eternal romance fantasy.. of unrequited love.

Nefer, do you really have to keep giving away my personal info..This is what I fear. That's not even the point.

Can you guys just not judge that this is online for just one minute? 😢
Everything I say to her, I mean it.

Posted by Nefer
*shrug* Evasive people in the middle of an online fantasy relationship are rarely who they claim to be, projection or not. HE said HE chose 1993, not her. SHE won't tell him the year.

And I've already established that Unforgiven is 30 years old, and turning 31 soon. He was Aqua-born in 1980.

Exact specifics for birth dates aren't important. What I gather is he's a 30 plus and she's at least 10 yrs younger.

Tbh, I wouldnt tell anyone the year I was born online either.. I mean, who cares? Sometimes people get a feel of how old the other is.. she's like 17.. and he's 30.

Hes Nuts and he knows it.

I'm 38, turning 39 soon. I'm Pisces-born in 1972.

Now we're even?

BTW.. You never answered.. have you spoken to this girl on the phone, or seen anything but pictures of her?

Nefer no, I haven't but I know the minute I said it...what you will say.