What do I do? (Page 4)

Posted by Unforgiven
Can you guys just not judge that this is online for just one minute? 😢
Everything I say to her, I mean it.

If you want me to extrapoate this for you.. I can.

I'll tell you what I see from my metaphorical crystal ball:

"You'll continue this pain for more than 5 years.. because you're in love with the feeling of longing and desire of what you cannot have"

Case in point:
- 17 yr old
- online relationship
- no mutual friends
- no meeting in person
- common ground? game.

that is no real grounds for any fruition.

Plus, Unforgiven, you gotta wait YEARS for this unspoken misunderstanding to untie itself..

You, my dear, are stuck..

..and you like it.

(continue)

Amethyst...are you even a libra?

Posted by Unforgiven
Nefer no, I haven't but I know the minute I said it...what you will say.

Then I won't say it, because you already KNOW.

I really feel for you, Mr. Aqua, I do. 😢

Spica, idk if you are wrong with the age part but I depise that. I don't like it.

Ame's not a Libra.. she's just a LIBRA MAGNET hahaha

I see..becuase her pic is a goat..

😢 So you guys won't even help me?

Posted by Unforgiven
I see..becuase her pic is a goat..

Capricorn is a goat... hers is a RAM... she's an Aries with a CRAPTON of Water nderneath lol

Posted by Unforgiven
😢 So you guys won't even help me?

Dude, I'm going off after this.

I'll say that your situation is as good as hopeless..

Have you ever hung on to a string?
Yeah, this string evades you when you try to catch it.

It's like catching a helium balloon that comes and goes out of sight.

I'd say you, my dear, enjoy this.

She won't appear fully, because the moment she appears, warts and all, your fantasy will be diminished.

Posted by Unforgiven
😢 So you guys won't even help me?

Honey.. how CAN we help you? We can't MAKE her come online for you. Can't MAKE her give up her man and run to your arms so you two can live happily ever after. We can't even tell you what to SAY to her to make her get over her anger at you... the fact that your whole relationship is based in an online fantasy (game?) means that we don't even know if she's really a Libra, much less the rest of her placements.

How long were you with your real life (now ex) girlfriend? Living together? Talking marriage/kids?

Is Spica a libra? I don't know anything anymore. Sometimes I feel I'm okay. Everything is just blown into a big mess but sometimes I just, I just. It hurts. Fine. Alteast I want to know why.

Posted by Unforgiven
Is Spica a libra? I don't know anything anymore. Sometimes I feel I'm okay. Everything is just blown into a big mess but sometimes I just, I just. It hurts. Fine. Alteast I want to know why.

Yes, I'm a Libra.

And I gotta go. Goodbye.

I've been living on orange juice. Right now I'm going to eat. I don't know why, I feel like I'm so going to go eat. Nefer, marriage yes, kids, no. Ameythst, but all I want are answers to my questions..which yes I haven't posed becuase I lost it. I'm sorry. I'll be back.

I miss ToC but then again, maybe she hates me too.
I don't know anymore. I'm going to go eat.

Okay.. you want my help, Mr. Aqua?

Here's MY advice... go back to your now ex girlfriend.. BEG if you must, on hands and knees. The online chick isn't real and that's why she's only words on a screen and jpg images and disappears when you get too close, she's a FANTASY and she's BEING A FANTASY. We've ALL seen it online, honey. People are not always who and what they claim to be online.. and when they provide NO REAL INFO, NO REAL PROOF.. LIE and are EVASIVE about themselves.. they almost NEVER are.

But the woman you were talking marriage with.. she IS real.

I don't miss ToC that way...I miss her input and wait a minute, Nefer isn't a Libra either?
Yes I guess, I've been toyed. I dunno. I came online to ask why, how Libras think but end up giving out more info than I thought.

RIGHT NOW, my Libra is watching MSNBC.. Chris Hanson. Found that very ironic! o.o

Was going to ask who Chris Hanson is..so he's an actor?

I want answers to questions, not..I really do appreciate all of you, good or bad. I mean it but I want to know what Libras think and how they do.

No, dear.. I'm not a Libra.. I just have a very, very good understanding of them.. just ask the Libras on this board LOL

But this is no longer ASTROLOGY based, since you don't know her YEAR of birth, much less her DAY of birth, we CAN'T map her other planets (even if we believe she's a Libra!).. and Astrology is so, so, SO much more than just Sun Signs.. SO much more than, "She's a Libra." or "He's an Aqua." It goes much deeper than that... look at all of us guessing YOU were a FIRE sign, Sag or Aries.. you said Aqua and shocked us all.. then you posted your chart.. and THERE was all that Fire Sag and Aries. lol

I'm always curious.. what sign is your (ex) girlfriend? Did you match up really well before this online girl turned your life upside down?

Posted by Unforgiven
I don't care if she is 17 or 100. I love her.

Honeybee, you don't love her. You love your fantasy about her. That isn't the same.

You admit you don't know anything about this girl. She won't give you the time of day. And that is the truth. You aren't in love with her. You are in love with the gaps. You are trying to win something that isn't even there. This is about your ego and winning. It isn't about love.

(((unforgiven)))

Can you go for reiki? I suspect it will help.

@Unforgiven: U lost it!...u gave up reality and trade it for a fantasy ...I had a strong connection with a Libra guy, it started online, but I saw him on Skype, we were talking over the phone...he was very str8 and open in the beginning and then he vanished (hiding) during the last month...BUT AT LEAST HE WAS REAL. I feel your pain, I've been there...good news is that time will heal it! go back to your flesh&bones gf, ask her to forgive u, she is the only solid ground u have...one way or another u don't need this Libra cyber-gf in your life, even if she really is what she pretends, she will make your life a living hell (she already did it). Raise your head and move on...SHE IS NOT REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You need help, seriously.. This is not normal. Get over it - and get back to your real life..

I don't think so wsigaf. He has fallen in love with his own creation.

My libra friend won't talk to me anymore either! I'm like shit!

Posted by wsigaf
jealous because..
their man doesn't give 'em what you've been giving her:

the butterflies

Butterflies arent enough in this day and age.. pretty sure everyone's looking for more..

...concrete stuff.

Is this thread for real— I've never been this hung up even about someone I have met and had a proper relationship with and I have venus in scorp!! The GIRL is probably on to the next one by now. This online gaming stuff is crazy!!!

Wow is all I can say unforgiven, I am a Libra and you are Scary and way too intense and I'd be running and blocking you too...You really need to get a grip on reality!

Posted by wsigaf

Posted by spica

Posted by wsigaf
jealous because..
their man doesn't give 'em what you've been giving her:

the butterflies

Butterflies arent enough in this day and age.. pretty sure everyone's looking for more..

...concrete stuff.

what do you mean ?

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It means that Libra girl isnt interested .. in online connectivity. Online connectivity isnt that strong. But for Unforgiven it seems to be.

If she's interested, then she'll the the one moping over the computer for a long time, playing emptyloop games with this Aquarian. I wouldn't wish that for her either, considering the flippant way he just brushed off his live-in girlfriend for some "strong" connection he met online. This shows how seriously he takes relationships and how much sh!t he gives about people he considers girlfriends.

Posted by Unforgiven
My story is this. I met a girl online and I fell for her. She is a Libra. She tells me she's in college but I'm not so sure anymore. She lies a lot to me or rather gone unresponsive. Yes, I am worried to be judged, I have a gf myself as she has a bf.

oh yeah those libras lie a lot! they love a good lie

is it World of Warcraft you met this girl? does she have nice tits? Usually libra chicks have enormous breasts.
Dude, send me a private message of her tits.

Posted by TasteOfChaos

Posted by Unforgiven
I want answers to questions, not..I really do appreciate all of you, good or bad. I mean it but I want to know what Libras think and how they do.

We can tell you how Libras are and "how they do" its not going to help you...

Find yourself a REAL Libra... then Ill answer all your questions...

What sign was your ex GF?

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True. You are dealing with your own project not a real person, of course there is an element of that in every relationship. This is just take to an extreme.

One of my exs use to play female characters on wow. The number of guys that hit on him and gave him stuff was crazy.

You aren't dealing with a real person. You are dealing with your own fantasies. What is this telling you about you? Wish I could make you a cup of hot chocolate while you told me about it.

I don't think it is that weird. YEARS ago, when I was really young, I fell for someone on line. It showed me that I wasn't happy in my real life relationship. I ended the real life relationship then started going out and having fun. I forgot all about the online guy.

I totally forgot about that till whole thing till now. So yes. I think it is possible to fall for someone on line. I did see a picture of him, we mailed stuff back and forth, but in the end I wanted someone real who could hold me when I cried. I was aware that a lot of it was my own fanatsy.

* I just think this guy needs to get a grip and realize that people just suck. That's the ultimate answer to this entire thing.

That seems to be the answer to a lot of things. lol.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
I hope he comes back and listens to this advice... he sounded like seriously depressed!

I feel sad for him 😢

Me too! that is why I wanted to make him hot chocolate. Damn Aquas. TOC, you and I have Aqua weakness. lol.

I do feel bad for him. Getting your heart stomped on is such a desperate feeling.

Posted by amethyst2002
Especially by some immature little twit.

hear! hear!

TOC,

Yeah, they really, really are.

This thread is bullshit and fake!!!!!

So, just skimming, it appears he met a Libra on WOW as part of a guild (or whatever they call it) that he organized and has since abandoned, she's mad because he left the guild and he's taking it personally?? Huh?? *smh*

There are some people in this world who really need to get a life!!