What do I do? (Page 2)

Posted by TasteOfChaos
My Sag Venus is a bitch, I want what I cant have... then when I have it... I lose interest 😢

Although... that was when I was young, Id like to think I have "matured" now 😛

IM LIKE THAT TOO.. If a guy ignores me I WANT HIM.. and if he wants me and says it, I will totally lose interest and drop him...

Leo moon .... I fricken hate being ignored. I don't get off on it at all.

Like now.

TOC, did I know you had 5 planets in Libra too? I knew Spica did but I'm not sure I knew you did. Yeah. You are as screwed as I am. lol!

moon leo, sag rising and 5 planets in Leeeebraaaa.

Our only revenge is, he is going to come on here and see a hundred posts thinking wow! I'm going to get great advice! Meanwhile, it is just us bitchin' about him taking so long. LOL!

There is justice in that.

Me too! I'm trying not to worry about the Gemini.

Is that what I am dealing with? How do they spazz?

I asked on the Gemini board but no one got back to me. I'll tell you guys what happened (going to delete it within a few minutes of posting it if you want) and see what your take is if you are game.

Sun, Venus, Mars, Uranus, Pluto

Posted by Unforgiven
I've made a Libra girl extremely mad at me. Extremely mad. She stated that she has not been so mad for a very long time. Now she ignores me when I try to talk to her. Please advise.

Hit her in the face with a cream pie.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Awwww he was nervous!
He was probably working himself up into a frenzy... thinking about how he was gonna do it, make the move...

If you cant see that he likes you... then YEA you are being a spazz 😛

So we think we have "like" going on and he is just way too in his head about it? That is my feeling. I feel like he is trying to play it cool. Meanwhile, I'm like .. if you like me, like me.

I know he doesn't have "game" but seriously. He has the cards so close to his chest I have no idea what he is thinking. He is adorable though. When I can get him to relax, we have the best time. When he is all uptight, my god it is so painful.

I will try TOC. I may need Libra sister therapy till we get past the early stage. Speaking of which, maybe I will have some wine.

Did you see the situation libraluv?

ha ha ha! It is bad when we start singing.

LMAO!

This would have been a good time for him to post. We were all here. Alas, I think I may leave you for the evening my fair Libra brethren.

Thanks for your thoughts and advice. I'm use to fire guys who are just, you know, normal. lol

Oh, my feeling of anticipation to see this thread got to 10 pages in my absence.. was popped like a kid's balloon when it's cruelly stabbed with a pin... 140 posts and we're just waiting for the Aqua to return?! The disappointment is ACUTE!

Damnit.

:/

So, my dear Libras ...curiosity ...that's what keeps u around ...I never saw such density of Libras/square cm...it's good ...I'm learning ...and I love to read u all!

*ping* *waits*

HAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAa
HAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaa

You know I love you, right TOC? *ahem* Put down the stick. No, put it down.

*RUNS SCREAMING LIKE A GIRL*

You guys... I love you all.

From now on, I'm going to see you guys as my new friends, and I mean it.

I'm sorry I was gone for so long. Suddenly what she said made me loose all my strength. I wasn't able to move for a while.

Well, I wait till the weekend I guess.

Are you sure you're not heading home right now? And no, my ways of selecting friends are very ....different.

I don't know what she wants, and if I do, I don't dare to believe myself. It's hard to explain, as I struggle to grasp for words. I trust you guys, instinctively for advice on this matter. How do you put months in words? But I cannot trust prescriptions without giving out all of the details of my symptoms, can I? She's on this thread? No, I don't believe so. Now I'm spooked... I do, however, have a strong feeling that if I don't spill soon, I will have more than one Libra feel negatively towards me. I will, I promise, I feel I owe you guys that much for you have all been so attentive. I am flattered. My situation is not very typical and so my fears of privacy and being judged stems from this.

Have a good weekend, ToC. ^^

Rising Sign is in 03 Degrees Sagittarius
You are known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, you are also blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything you say personally, because you usually do not mean any harm. You appreciate living your life in a straightforward and simple manner -- you dislike social niceties and consider them to be hindrances to real communication. You have lots and lots of energy and tend to become quite restless if you feel confined. You demand the freedom to do as you choose -- you must be self- directed or you feel trapped and anxious. With your abundant energy, you enjoy being outdoors, and you should be attracted to physical exercise or to those forms of sport which can help you burn off some of that excess energy. Very gregarious, you love to socialize -- your innate enthusiasm livens up any gathering.

Sun is in 02 Degrees Libra.
Very sociable, you enjoy being with others and definitely prefer not be alone. Warm and affectionate, you go out of your way to make others like you. You despise ugliness, for you being surrounded by beauty and harmony is a necessity of life. You prefer fine clothing, an attractive home and pleasant surroundings wherever you are. Your refined tastes apply to music and to art as well. At times, you are very indecisive you waver and falter when forced to make a choice because you have the ability to see both sides of any question. The positive part of this is that you are very fair-minded and can be trusted to settle disputes. Your greatest challenge is to take any one- on-one encounter and make the most of it.

Moon is in 06 Degrees Aquarius.
Very freedom-oriented, you must always be able to do what you wish, no matter what. You become stubborn and recalcitrant when others try to force you into a mold. You are a true democrat -- you are not a follower, but you enjoy being with those who are like-minded. You appreciate emotional self-control -- you practice it yourself and you look for it in others. You solve problems, including emotional ones, with your brains and intellect, not your feelings. Try to be tolerant of those who have powerful and obvious emotional responses -- not everyone is as objective, cool, dispassionate and detached as you are.

Mercury is in 22 Degrees Libra.
You are known for not jumping to conclusions about things. You tend to weigh all possible choices very carefully before making a decision. When in the slightest amo

Mars is in 29 Degrees Libra.
You are very aware of the need to cooperate with others in order to further any effort. You are usually willing to compromise with others, although you can be quite competitive in a friendly way. Very fair- minded and impartial, you have the ability to sense injustice and the desire to take corrective actions to make proper compensations. You see both sides of issues and questions, but you tend to be undecided or wavering when forced to make choices that might make you vulnerable or unpopular.

Jupiter is in 20 Degrees Libra.
You are generally good at balancing opinions and judging issues, but you tend to be indecisive when it comes to making up your own mind. You are objective and quite concerned with fair play and justice. But, when it comes to yourself, you are so aware that whatever you do might upset the apple cart that you often choose to compromise rather than do anything that might make you lonely or vulnerable. Relationships are very important to you -- you learn about yourself and grow through observing yourself interacting with others. Your aesthetic tastes are refined, but expansive and expensive.

Saturn is in 24 Degrees Aquarius.
Your personal sense of values is a reflection of the value structures of your peer group and of those you respect and admire. Try to be more critical in your acceptance of these values -- you tend to prejudge the abilities of those you trust and then follow what they say blindly. Basically very conservative, you prefer orderly, systematic changes and fear doing things rashly or impulsively. Ideas and philosophies must have some sort of immediately realizable, utilitarian function in order for you to pay any attention to them.

Uranus is in 18 Degrees Capricorn.
You, and your peer group as well, seek out practical solutions to a changing society's attitudes to customs, traditions and authority structures. Your logical and orderly manner of dealing with these matters will result in permanent and carefully planned, but sweeping, reforms.

Neptune is in 18 Degrees Capricorn.
You, and your entire generation, will idealize work, practicality and the ability to attain reasonable goals. But, because you will also stress the need to be selfless and giving, you may find it difficult to attain your goals unless you have lowered your expectations on all fronts.

Pluto is in 23 Degrees Scorpio.
For your entire generation, this is a period of intense research and discovery in areas tha

N. Node is in 05 Degrees Sagittarius.
You will probably have many different contacts and acquaintances throughout your life. You're quite gregarious by nature and your natural curiosity about others lets you take the lead in forming new relationships. You'll form close ties with those who have similarly idealistic ideas -- especially those who can stimulate you intellectually in your chosen field of interest. Your enthusiasm for learning new things may also cause you to do quite a bit of traveling. Because you probably will have many wide-ranging interests and concerns, you most likely will have contacts and connections in various parts of the country (or world).

Pluto is in 23 Degrees Scorpio.
For your entire generation, this is a period of intense research and discovery in areas that were heretofore considered mysterious, remote or taboo. The root causes for many complex occurrences will be unearthed due to the intensity and thoroughness of the search.

I don't get the cloak and dagger shenanigans. We can't read your mind. We have no idea what you are talking about. If you aren't a troll, then tell us the problem.

Somethings weird here. The age gap is quite wide..
are you at least 10 yrs older than her, or more?

Yeah. Saturn in Aquarius? Means she is what 19? Unless it is an older woman?

Yup, she's either 42 or 19
and he's like 33..

hee
fun for a while.

ew. what is going on in here?

I'm going to vote 42 to his 32. 🙂

Anyone else care to place bets?

Briana - I have no idea. lol.

Shh... I vote his 30 plus to her nineteen.. because I cant shake off he called her girl.. not lady, woman, or anything..
plus, somethin' shady's going on thats for sure.

I know female versions of aqua sun/ sag moon, but a male version? first time, man..

ha ha ha! I know Amethyst! Crazy.

This guy is a huge Drama King or a troll. You, the people, decide.

P.S. HOLY FREAKIN' *AIR* on this Libra girl... this is one chick that is gonna drive a Fiery emotional guy like this Aqua just *insane* (and vice versa!).. and her Aqua Moon in the middle of allll thaaaat Liiiibra.. and if she IS only around 19.. she's not going to want to commit easily, she'll be more into the whole "friendship" of it all.

We need the WHOLE story, Aqua man. Not just the parts that make you look good.. we need the parts that make you look BAD too, to figure out what's going on here. And don't worry about being judged (your concern about this makes me think she IS 19 and you ARE like 34, and you're chasing a young college chick who isn't ready for a relationship!)... most of us here sincerely want to help you, but we won't just tell you what you want to hear.. we'll give our honest opinions and perspectives. And anyone you don't like, use the BLOCK feature here on DXP and POOF.. asshat disappears from your view lol

I spent a little time on this, mapping the possibilities based on those long-transit planets (Pluto, Neptune, etc) and came up with: Pluto was last in Scorpio between the years 1983 and 1995. Pluto takes about 248 years to make a full transit of the Astrological signs. So it was 1735-1747 and 1983-1995 (Generation Y)... she's NOT 275 years old, so she's YOUNG.

Pluto in Scorpio - 1983 to 1995 - so she's at MOST 27
Neptune in Cap - 1984 to 1998 - so she's at MOST 26
Uranus in Cap - 1988 to 95/96 - so she's at MOST 22
Saturn in Aqua - 1991 to 1994 - so she's at MOST 19
Jupiter in Libra - October 10, 1992 to November 10, 1993

..which makes her EIGHTEEN AT MOST, but only IF she's a Libra born within the THIRTEEN DAYS between 10/10/92 to 10/23/92... otherwise, she was born Sept/Oct of 1993, making her BARELY SEVENTEEN. I'm inclined to believe that she's seventeen, because he's VERY concerned with being judged (he's MUCH older, and she's too young for him!) and because the whole "yell out an apology" thing smacked of a place they both frequent but is crowded enough to YELL out something while she's in ear shot, yet not "betray" her if she chooses to pretend to not hear him.. I was thinking college, but perhaps it's high school. And with HIM being older (I mapped him, to match ALL possible years combined - his Virgo in Jupiter AND Saturn make him a 1980 born Aqua, period. So HE'S turning 31.. and SHE'S probably not even 18 yet!).. and IF this is a "school setting"... WTF? Why is he there? Is he a teacher or a coach? Someone who works for the schools? Interested in a student? o.O

Nefer ..... I've never told you this before but ... you rock!

So obviously he is a teacher or something, which brings the part about them starting a group together into focus. It was probably some afterschool activity. Now is she really angry or using anger as an excuse to get a creepy guy who is in power away from her?

It could also explain why he was unable to move. He could be in big shit. Especially if she has a ton of personal emails from him and stuff.

Oi. the things people do.

^Bingo.

Well Nefer, I think we solved this case. *Hands you your Sherlock Holmes hat and pipe*

We need TOC or Libraluv in here to serve us brandy.

*ahem*

Judgement? I'm trying not to, Mr. Aqua. Trying REAAAAAALLLLY hard. Especially since I do NOT have the whole story, and we're (I'm) just speculating at this point.

But I have two daughters, THE lights of my life (along with their brothers), and THE very best thing I've ever done. They are 20 and 18, my girls. Both Taurus, so both are OLDER than this Libra girl. YOU are not quite EIGHT years younger than ME.... And if some 30, 31 year old man got THIS involved, wrapped up, whatever.. in my 17, 18 year old daughter.. swear to GOD, man.. I'd shoot you and claim self-defense. Truth.

She's got you by the short and curlies, doesn't she? Private mails, letters, texts.. your inappropriate behavior with her recorded and saved.. and like little_sparrow said.. now you're frozen.

Oh man, this is not sounding good for you. It sounds like you might be in deep, deep shit. :/

I AM SO PISSING MAD I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. GO ON, WHAT ELSE CAN YOU FABRICATE? DON'T HIDE YOUR POSTS, I HAVEN'T HIDE MINE.

Sep 1, 1991 1:38 AM Mars enters Libra
Oct 16, 1991 2:05 PM Mars enters Scorpio
Nov 28, 1991 9:19 PM Mars enters Sagittarius
Jan 9, 1992 4:47 AM Mars enters Capricorn
Feb 17, 1992 11:38 PM Mars enters Aquarius
Mar 27, 1992 9:04 PM Mars enters Pisces
May 5, 1992 4:36 PM Mars enters Aries
June 14, 1992 10:56 AM Mars enters Taurus
July 26, 1992 1:59 PM Mars enters Gemini
Sep 12, 1992 1:05 AM Mars enters Cancer
Apr 27, 1993 6:40 PM Mars enters Leo
June 23, 1993 2:42 AM Mars enters Virgo
Aug 11, 1993 8:10 PM Mars enters Libra
Sep 26, 1993 9:15 PM Mars enters Scorpio

Her birthday is September 23rd, 24th, 25th, or 26th of 1993. PERIOD.

SHE JUST TURNED SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD LESS THAN TWO MONTHS AGO, and he's struggling to write out a situation that occurred over the course of "months" according to him. So the beginning of all of this started when she was SIXTEEN, and he was ALREADY THIRTY. If this isn't HIGH SCHOOL or SCHOOL OF SOME KIND, it's CHURCH or some kind of YOUTH GROUP, etc. And HIS age tells me he's not a STUDENT/PEER, but is in a position of "power" over her (at least until she's now flipped the script!) and this is HIGHLY INAPPROPRIATE, Mr. Aqua.

I AM NOT A TEACHER, I HAVE NOT EVEN MET HER IN PERSON. I WOULDN'T BE SO UNSURE WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON IF I COULD SEE HER IN PERSON. I CAN READ MOST PPL WHEN I SEE THEM. THANKS FOR SO MUCH HELP!

Posted by Unforgiven
I AM SO PISSING MAD I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. GO ON, WHAT ELSE CAN YOU FABRICATE? DON'T HIDE YOUR POSTS, I HAVEN'T HIDE MINE.

Fabricate? How can I fabricate checking the facts on what YOU posted?

And my only HIDDEN posts were in the thread I made to PRESERVE these posts, should you decide to delete the thread or hide yours.

So tell me.. preferably before I pop an artery in my head... what's the story?

YOU KNOW, BESIDE TOC, WHICH I FEEL IS MOST SENSITIVE AND CORRECT, YOU GUYS TREAT THIS LIKE WHAT? LIKE IT'S A TIME KILLING STORY. DON'T BOTHER COMING ON HERE FOR DRAMA IF YOU DON'T EVEN WANT TO HELP. AND KING LIBRA, IF YOU HATE AQUARIUS PPL, WHY ARE YOU ON MY THREAD?