What will Libras put up/not put up with...

...from a partner? If they love someone are there certain things that will kill the relationship? Or will they endure any manner of abuse, lying, cheating, craziness, addictions, etc & keep going back for more? I don't know much about Libras but the 2 I know well seem like they are drawn to crazy people who treat them shitty from an outsider's perspective (& will stay with them for years, while they don't find people who treat them great in my view to hold their attention). Could this be anything to do with their sign? Libras, what for you would be a deal breaker or make you move on?

It's simply a character flaw. Out of all the air signs, this is how we're airy. Aquariuses are douchenozzel busta ass weasels. Geminis are 2 faced cunts. And Libras gotta learn how to move on and let go and not just be all windy romantic straight on into abuse town. Basically they commit to the wrong people.

And it's as simple as learning to let go. I learned.

Interesting. I'd say I've noticed water signs staying with abusive people for sure.

@beautifuldiaster, how would you define "disrespect"? I think we all have different ideas of what that means, but I would assume that nearly any abuse, cheating or lying would be considered disrespectful, no?

Admittedly I have a Pisces moon. But still, I think the airyness is IRRESPONSIBILITY and from there we basically make bad choices. Again Aquariuses get bad rep for being unattached, Geminis get a bad rep for being 2 faced, and Libras get flack for being indecisive and choosing poorly.

Posted by Rowan
...from a partner? If they love someone are there certain things that will kill the relationship? Or will they endure any manner of abuse, lying, cheating, craziness, addictions, etc & keep going back for more? I don't know much about Libras but the 2 I know well seem like they are drawn to crazy people who treat them shitty from an outsider's perspective (& will stay with them for years, while they don't find people who treat them great in my view to hold their attention). Could this be anything to do with their sign? Libras, what for you would be a deal breaker or make you move on?

Yes, disrespect for ME is a no no....never felt like I had to put up with anyone's shyt and never stayed with anyone that I felt was disrespectful or abusive, so I don't know about the two Libra's you're dealing with. I've been married for 27 years and trust me, if my husband had any of the traits you listed, we wouldn't have ever gotten married let alone stay married. Like any sign, self esteem issues make folks tolerate the abnormal. I was heavily raised by my parents and especially my father, who was my hero, that taught me to always love yourself because when you do, you won't allow anyone to mistreat you, so that was always my motto. I treat people like I expect to be treated and if they didn't happen, the relationship was doomed and would be over very soon. Some dudes saw it as a form of arrogance when I was younger and in the dating scene, but I always saw it as love for myself first.

Good points everyone.

It's very possible that one of these women doesn't realize a lot of what her husband is doing. I feel like it's not my place to tell her. I'm just curious if she knows & stays with him anyway or if most Libras don't tolerate things like lying/cheating so she must not be aware & actually trusts him.