When a Libra says She's Done with Relationships (Page 2)

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aBigMan2070
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10 Years

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Posted by Sugarfoot
Yea Venus in retro brings forward all the underlying issues in your relationship to be handled. You're not supposed to make any big Devon about then till after its over though.

Well big man, just cause you're over it doesn't mean she is. The best advice I can give you is to let her know you're sorry you overreacted and things ended the way they did. Tell her how you feel but don't be pushy. Let her know you understand if she needs more time and you accept her decision whatever it may be. Give her the freedom to make her own decision about you. That may feel like letting go to a cancer but for an air sign, giving us freedom is pulling us closer.
the not making big decisions thing is what keeps me hoping the most.

i have yet to make contact... and when I do, i just want to catch up, not convince her of anything. she'll see the changes I've made off the bat and from then can make her own decision.
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jeane
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Posted by aBigMan2070
Every weak excuse in the book, it's me not you, etc...
sounds like it was you.
you & rocky road should get together and maybe off each other. quick look at your post history, and hers, shows 100% negativity in every aspect. sounds like it's you 🙂

don't bother replying, blocked
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haha, you ask librans for their opinion. i am a libran. that is my opinion.

if i said to someone "it's me not you..." you better believe it is them. i just don't want to hurt their feelings and i am a little bit of a coward about confronting them with the truth. after all, it is over, what is the point rowing about the finer details? the end result is still the same. when i was younger? forget it. 100 times worse.

the thing is you find my opinion negative because it's not what you want to hear. i feel she has moved on. there were other options, you were unstable and it sounds like when she was going through something in her life you weren't available (for whatever reason). and things got too real? for a libra? no. if you can give us that relationship that we seek we would never run from that. it taps into our firmly held fantasy of love and romance. however, if your notion of real is problems and stress, then yeah, it's going to kill our buzz. the problem is if she has options and finds someone more of her like mind then it is highly unlikely she is going to look back.

but you know, i'm blocked so all this highly prized wisdom will just blow into the ether...sigh.
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rockyroadicecream
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Posted by aBigMan2070
Posted by jeane
Posted by aBigMan2070
Every weak excuse in the book, it's me not you, etc...
sounds like it was you.
you & rocky road should get together and maybe off each other. quick look at your post history, and hers, shows 100% negativity in every aspect. sounds like it's you 🙂

don't bother replying, blocked
haha, you ask librans for their opinion. i am a libran. that is my opinion.

if i said to someone "it's me not you..." you better believe it is them. i just don't want to hurt their feelings and i am a little bit of a coward about confronting them with the truth. after all, it is over, what is the point rowing about the finer details? the end result is still the same. when i was younger? forget it. 100 times worse.

the thing is you find my opinion negative because it's not what you want to hear. i feel she has moved on. there were other options, you were unstable and it sounds like when she was going through something in her life you weren't available (for whatever reason). and things got too real? for a libra? no. if you can give us that relationship that we seek we would never run from that. it taps into our firmly held fantasy of love and romance. however, if your notion of real is problems and stress, then yeah, it's going to kill our buzz. the problem is if she has options and finds someone more of her like mind then it is highly unlikely she is going to look back.

but you know, i'm blocked so all this highly prized wisdom will just blow into the ether...sigh.
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Some of these Cancer men who come here are total dipshits. No wonder there's so many issues flocking to the Cancer forum from women who are going nuts with theirs.

It's okay though. I reported his sad sack ass for making violent comments of killing ourselves. ...because that's totally normal and sane to do in an argument. Only psychotic assholes resort to saying such things... which he likely is based on his responses. No wonder she ran.
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letterbox10
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10 Years

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Posted by IllaLupus
Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol. A Libra done with relationships.

They'd shrivel up and die without the concept of one in life.

Your response? Lol. ...Cause it's a hilarious statement coming from a Libra.
Last time i checked i was fully functional being single.
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A single and happy Libra? Absolutely not!! 😄

I know plenty of Libras who are more than happy being single, rather than being stuck in a miserable relationship. Not that I'm saying your relationship was miserable. I don't know your story since you haven't really given much background, particularly about why you two split up in the first place. But I do know that when I say "I'm done", that really means I'm done. No Libra indecisiveness there. If I'm not sure, I wouldn't say "I'm done." And I don't know any Libras who constantly go back to former lovers... except for John Mayer. And I refuse to acknowledge he's one of us.